women answer only?is it normal for a man to look at porn ?

Question

iyour man looked at porn and you are very attractive yourslef is
it normal?
if you say yes in which circles?thnas !

if you think it is not normal
please say why?

Answer 1

Yeah, no matter how hot or sexy you are, men will always want to look at porn. It's completely normal, you know. It entertains them in a way you can't.

Answer 2

I am what you would call a classically beautiful woman and my man looks at porn anyway. I've got a body that would put an 18 year old to shame even though I've had 4 kids, I always get compliments and his friends are envious (as well as dumbfounded about how he got/keeps me lol). It's just a guy thing. It wouldn't matter if you installed a pole in your bedroom, got three of your girlfriends together and put on a show, there are just times a guy wants to get off by himself and porn is obviously the way to go. He doesn't know the people he's looking at, they don't know that he's looking at them and he can create any fantasy he wants that we probably aren't willing to give him without having to hear any b****ing or complaining about someone not being in the mood. It doesn't matter what type of background you come from or what your social circle is like. Porn gives all men the opportunity to have a break from their own women when they need something a little "new".... and plus they're really dirty :p .

Answer 3

Absolutely normal. First men are very visually stimulated, compared to women and most need to have ejaculatory relief every 24-48 hours via intimacy or masturbation. (i know not all, i am painting with a wide brush). The visual is what starts a lot of men into the build up of a sexual response. Second the material is available everywhere online, softer material is even on cable TV, without pay per view etc.

So herein is the issue, because its available and its natural. My advise to other married women is not to resent them for it, but instead learn to share it with them. At some level most of us find at least a little bit of erotica appealing, so that is where we have to start. Become his partner in naughtiness and not a third party observer. A closer relationship is the result.

Answer 4

Yes i had the same prob with my hubby but it is normal all guys do it and it made me feel insecure and i explained to him how i felt and he understood but then explained to me that if im not there and he is in the mood he needs the noise not only that men are very visual people i just learned to accept it because he could do that or go out and cheat on me which would u prefer as long as it isnt affecting your guys' sex life no big deal watch it with him for many guys thats a turn on

Answer 5

Yes I think it is perfectly normal unless it starts to interfere with your regular sex life or if he is putting it before normal things in your marriage/relationship. Guys are very stimulated by seeing and just because they look at some hot porn woman does not mean they want that over you...I went through those doubts myself and my husband explained it to me and now we will watch porn together sometimes to add some excitement to our relationship. It is not any particular type of guy either, all types from all walks of life are interested in different types of pornographic images, many may have secret desires and fetishes that they are afraid to voice to their significant other for fear of embarassment...as long as it is not illegal porn like child porn which is just horrid and wrong, it's just regular stuff all guys tend to enjoy.

Answer 6

Yes, it's normal. In and of itself, looking at porn does not signify any abnormality or disability. It becomes abnormal when it turns into addiction, but then any obsession / addiction is destructive and dysfunctional. I'm a woman, and I look at porn every once in a while; I don't deem that it makes me abnormal in any way. Enjoying an occasional glass of wine with dinner does not make one an alcoholic.

Answer 7

Yes. It's even normal for a lot of women to watch certain types of porn. Women like to see nicely put together guys who were gifted with a pretty penis. Males like more sorta like "shove and go" porn, females enjoy more of a teasing sort of seduction. Take your pick.

Answer 8

first off - it's normal for guys
to be horndogs....there is just
a line that ought not to be
crossed that you should worry
about.

But hey, if you're in a relationship
with a guy and he's jerking off
to porn - something isn't all that
right.

Talk to him about it. If my guy
were watching it or wacking around
still, I might get the idea that I'm
not good enough for him and that
he likes dirty little fantasies more than
he likes me.....eek

Answer 9

Just as long as he knows where home is and doesnt cheat . I know it makes a woman feel insecure but its normal.

Answer 10

I think its ok because it keeps the spice in your sex life . And in my case im married and it gives us both new ideas and we get to try different thing sexually and it keeps us both happy and satisfied with each other. Its ok trust me and try to watch a little with him sometimes you might like it. Good luck.

Answer 11

yes. it's part of their nature... ive read somewhere that guys actually think of sex evey 10 min and they most of the time view things (even ordinary ones) in a sexual way... so yea, it's normal