if u got a great family..with loving parents, sisters and brothers..
they take really good care of u...they are your everything and all your life u feel they are the only love u have in this world u can't live without them...!!!
but out of a sudden u met this guys that are really good to u and wants to married u....
how do u deal with the feeling of leaving your own great family and married this guys...?
2007-09-05 14:43:41 · 8 answers · asked by nightowls 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that's the problems....
once u are married...your husband had to comes first...
what if your husband can't get along with your family members...
u feel u are own your family so much.. they are the one that take care of u and love u...
and now once u are married u gotta put all these love behind u and stand beside your husband..
2007-09-05 17:54:12 · update #1
Well, I wouldn't go so far as to say you're not ready to get married. I think that many people have this feeling when they leave home for the first time. If you've never lived away from your family, what you are experiencing is normal. Once you settle in and get married you'll be fine. Besides, it's not like you abandon your family when you get married. you're still obligated to family functions and if you're close, calling and visiting them often.
2007-09-05 15:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the normal stage of progression in life. You move from your parents home to a home with a husband. It's what is supposed to happen but it can be very hard. I hope your husband is a nice guy and treats you will.
Keep your immediate family invited over for dinner & such so that you dont' tick them off. Soon, they will see you are doing what is best for you. and in the end, that's all that matters.
2007-09-05 14:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by asldfkjdfj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You suddenly met a guy who wants to marry you? Great, but wait. Marriage is a big, big deal. If you don't want to get divorced, then wait. At some point, leaving your family won't be a big deal anymore. But at this point, you're not ready. Wait.
2007-09-05 15:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by missgolightly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having this problem you are not ready to leave home and get married. you need to love your intended enough that you do not mind leaving your home and family to go and be with them. If you do not feel this way it is not time to marry or this is not the person to marry.
You do not get sent into exhile when you marry ya know. You do get to go visit whenever you want.
2007-09-05 15:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't totally abandon your family when you get married!
That being said, it doesn't sound like you are ready for marriage yet. Once you are married your husband has to come first.
2007-09-05 14:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by looneybin90 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't really leave your family - they're a part of your life. You'll see them all the time still, you just physically live with your husband.
It might be an adjustment at first, but you'll actually begin to like the freedom you have.
2007-09-05 15:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are a very lucky person to be so loved by your family. With this love, you should have a very good marriage because you know what is love and what is not love. You will know when your man treats you well or not. You will know if he abuses you because you have not been abused by your family. Your feelings will guide you.
2007-09-05 14:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still be loving to your family hes the one you are bound by yes but hes not almighty either. i am sure he understands this you can be by his side but you can see them during when hes not home. take care and good luck
2007-09-11 16:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋