My litlle cousin he is three my baby daughter is 10 months he was playing with his toys at his house and she wanted to play with a couple of toys he wasn't using.He was pissed and said "NO"!Then he came over and started playing with her toys.I asked him if my daughter could play with his toys at his house if this was the case,He said no.Is it wrong for me tonot let him play with her toys?
2007-09-05 00:22:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Um, dunno. I suppose he is three.. But he sounds really spoilt. Maybe next time you are at his house with your daughter you could ask again if she can play with his toys, explain to him about sharing and that it's more fun if there are two of you. Otherwise I guess you could stop letting him play with her toys.
2007-09-05 00:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Fröken Fräken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, all kids have to be taught to share its not a natural thing for them to do. I know that to you this child seems unfair to your daughter but really it's not a personal thing it a behaviour. Try bringing your daughters own toys to his house and if he wants to play with one of them then you replace it with one of his for your daughter, if he says no, then to learn him that his behaviour is not right take the toy away, then he will grasp the benifits of sharing. I hope this helps... and good luck
2007-09-05 07:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by patlynn2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to learn to share. If its not taught now then he'll have a hard time at school when he should already know to share with other kids. Like another one said take your daughters toys with you and when he wants to play with one of hers, you tell him if she can play with one of his even let him pick one out, like a game and see if this will ease him into it.
2007-09-09 02:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by celinallll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good way to teach him to share. He needs to know that without sharing his own toys, he has no right to play with other's toys. Children normally have a selfish streak but the more they get their way, the worse it gets. Better to start young teaching them to share and share alike. It's a good lesson and will help them to grow up without selfishness.
2007-09-05 08:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon that is the way children are... you have to show them how to share, sit with them and show them to share, you can't teach your kids to do as others do, he wont let you play with his toys and now you won't let him play with yours, that is a bad example, when you go visit try and take some of your child's toys with you and this way they can either play with their own toys or they might want to exchange for a while that is a good way of teaching them both to share. good luck.
2007-09-05 08:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus.. this is normal for children. We as adults can not bring our personal issues to the children, remember kids are the most forgiving individuals. Allow to there innocence and live with unconditiional love.
It is okay that you allow the kid to play with your child's toy. Instead of saying remember when you did not let my child play with your toys. This would be good to talk to them about sharing and fun and important sharing is. but in a kid way. Nothing too deep and heavy.
2007-09-05 07:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by Justme 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that Barney says that you need to learn to share. If you do not share your toys, then you are punished from playing with her toys. Tell him that when he learns to share, he can play with her toys.
2007-09-05 07:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, not wrong. teach him to share by doing this. once he lets her play with a toy, let him play with her toy
2007-09-05 08:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my 3 year old, he doesn't like to share toys either.
It might just be a phase.
2007-09-05 08:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let kids share and fight if the want to and then sort it out themselves, it's how they learn to interact with others
2007-09-05 07:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Divalicious Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋