he just got marred to a 45yr old lady i dont think its fair if she can get it and what about if they buy a house can we claim it if he passes away
2007-09-05 07:44:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you have no rights to his pension anyway.
2007-09-05 08:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by racer 51 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your father has the right to do whatever he wants with his money now that you are raised. An inheritance is EXTRA, but not guaranteed.
Very likely the pension will go to his now current wife as would the house.
Your mom is divorced. If they have been married at least 10 years, she will be able to eventually collect social security based on his income (check the social security page for this) even though they are divorced. Whether you receive anything but 'personal effects' is up to your father and his choices. His wife and he are now making a life for themselves. You should do the same.
My sister married a much older man with 5 adult children. Only one of the children will receive anything substantial other than personal effects (she helps him now; the others don't). His ex-wife got everything in the divorce 15 years ago. The rest will go to my sister including the pension. If something happens to her, he will have to move in with his daughter (due to his need for medical care) and I will get everything (sis doesn't have a pension) except the cabin which he will sell. I adore my BIL, so hopefully he will be around for many years.
2007-09-05 07:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are divorced therefore your mom is not in tittled to anything other then what she already agreed to in her divorce settlement. You are 19 and are an adult. You have no rights to his pension plan nor his finances including home unless he wills it to you. Since he is remarried I would think his new wife is getting the house. At 19 years old you should be worried about an education and a career rather then what money your father is leaving after he passes away.
2007-09-05 08:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't owe you crap beyond raising you to be a man. I'm sure your mom has filled your head with a bunch of things that he should be doing for you and whatnot. The catch is, it's all bogus. He can piss away every cent and leave you with nodda if he wants. Go get an education and make your own way through life. If he happens to leave you something when he passes then you can be thankful for that.
2007-09-05 08:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of getting a job? If he and his new wife purchase a house then the widow (his WIFE at the time of his death) will get the house Neither your nor your mother have the right to claim it. Your mother is no longer married to him. LEGALLY all your father has to leave YOU in his will is $1.00 and that is ALL you will get...you can not contest the will. LEGALLY when your father passes your mother get's nothing because she is not married to your father.
2007-09-05 19:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends what was written in the divorce papers, your mom would know this, I'm going through a divorce after 30 years I know what I'm entitled to.
Wake you and stop being a gold digger, get a job and pay your own way through life.
2007-09-05 07:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no
you will not get the pension
as for any house they buy
if he passes away his new wife gets the house
not his ex not you
as for any money for you
that depends on the will ( if any )
probate goes to the surviving spouse / then failing that, then heirs 2nd
2007-09-05 08:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you and Mom get a job?
Your Dad is not a walking ATM machine!!!
You are 19, you get NOTHING unless he wills it to you!
Too Bad, So sad!
2007-09-05 07:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you can't claim anything if it has her name on it. there is nothing that you can do. why are people always so wrapped up in what they are going to get when someone passes. your father doesn't owe your anything. he can leave whatever is his to whomever he wants.
2007-09-05 08:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee, you should have offed him BEFORE he married...
2007-09-05 07:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋