Is that grounds to break-up? I dont want to end it, but its making me sexual fustrated and I REFUSE to cheat. I'm thinking its his problem to figure out, whether it be medication or aroma-therapy. But its been some months now and Im losing hope for us. Help please!!
2007-09-05 08:04:55 · 17 answers · asked by Curi-us 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you would be doing him a favor if you did tell him, and if you told him soon enough so that he still has time to act on it if he wants to. It can take a few weeks to get a doctor appointment, for example. So, sit him down and express to him your frustration. Tell him that if he has taken no action by October 5 (1 whole month from now) to attempt to address the problem, you're going to break up with him on that date. If he does nothing, you are completely justified in following through. If he tries and still isn't getting an erection, set a new deadline for follow-up visits to the doctor. I think you should be fair enough to tell him your terms, and then work with him as long as he attempts to meet your terms. On the other hand, if you give him the terms and he disregards them, I think it would be completely fair of you to leave him.
2007-09-05 08:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do that...go to the doctor. A lot of men suffer from this and there are many medications available to them now.
Make an appointment for him yourself and accompany him to the visit. Make it as comfortable and least embarrassing as possible. Don't drop the poor guy just because he has a few issues, try to make it better!
2007-09-05 08:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Losing hope cause he can't get a hard on. So much for better or worse, have you stop to think that maybe there could be a problem between the two of you that is causing this.
2007-09-05 08:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow your a great partner.... You work things out with some one your in relationship why not talk to him and see what the two of you can come up with together. You refuse to cheat but your just going to sit around and maybe he'll figure something out on his own... sounds like your looking for things to fail
2007-09-05 08:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by sarah W 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be very honest with him and seek whatever help you both feel appropriate. Applause for not wanting to cheat. You obviously love this man, so I think you guys will find a way to work it out. There are other ways he can satisfy you while you are working out this kink too
2007-09-05 08:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
curi us, Sweety we are to love one another with our whole heart, not just a body part ! Take the good with the bad. Just use your immaginations, there are ways to satisfy your carnal urges ! I can"t go into detail because we are on a public line !Talk to Jesus and just get creative !
2007-09-05 08:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao aroma thereapy? lol......if you are going to end the relationship based on that them maybe you two should not be together in the first place. If you truly care about someone you are with them through thick and thin. Besides even if he can't get it up and he knows you want to be pleased there are other ways to do that.
2007-09-05 08:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It wouldn't be very nice to leave him because of that but I understand in a way. My husband doesn't have ED but he rarely ever pleases me, it's usually just a wam-bam thank you mam kinda thing. I would tell him that it's starting to bother you and he should get help for it as it could be medical and if he doesn't get help and you really do like him then have him please you in other ways.
2007-09-05 08:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that's a tough one. Ummm, no pun intended. Seriously, I think you have to be honest with yourself. Sex is a very big part of our relationships. Has he seen a doctor? There is medication for that, you know.
2007-09-05 08:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are wrong. So if he had cancer would you still leave him. That's just pain wrong. People have bigger problems then a erectile disfunction grow up be a woman stand by your man. would you want him to leave you if you where in his shoes?
2007-09-05 08:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by gia00601 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋