I know he does not have any affair, only thing is he is very egoistic, and does not like to compromise. The reason for our seperation is because he hates my parents and I cannot accept that. But i still miss him. Not for my sake but for my kids, what are the chances he will call me back.
2007-09-05 02:46:32 · 12 answers · asked by smr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You were the one who defined what constituted a dealbreaker and left. You also know he's stubborn. If you're open to negotiation now, odds are you're going to have to be the one to make contact and tell him. At the same time, you have to be aware that it's going to take a lot of effort on both your parts to make things work again, and ask yourself whether the loneliness is real or just temporary fear of the unknown.
2007-09-05 03:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by MM 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You took your kids and moved out of your husbands home he does not like to comprise. The reason for your separation is because he hates your parents your parents are the ones who gave birth to you and you are a part of them. There is more than meets the eye he hates your parents you still miss him not for sake but the kids stop using your kids for getting back with your husband if you can. I don't know what is going on in your marriage but, do what makes you happy and think about your kids future as well.
best of luck
2007-09-05 03:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You left your husband and ran home to mommy and daddy because you can't except that he hates them? He does not like to compromise? How are you at compromising? Does this really mean that if you don't get your way you run to mommy and daddy because they will always spoil you and take care of you? Why would he call you back when you are the one who left? Your role in life should be a mother wife daughter in that order.
2007-09-05 03:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesnt yet you got to keep in mind what state this became into finished in. If i'm wisdom it became into in Virginia, I even have kinfolk there and considered one of my kinfolk contributors went threw custody ordeal there and that i'm sorry to assert yet this is a guy's state. Sorry on your sister. My heart cries for her. They took my cousins newborn away too and the guy she had the newborn with became right into a instructor on the time. She became right into a pupil. yet they didnt care as a results of fact that is a guy's state. I wouldnt circulate from good o California as a results of fact women individuals have extra rights pay attention. I dont understand that your sister can do something now,yet she could desire to of moved while she had the toddlers to California and unfolded a custody case here. that's what I even have heard. yet to overdue now. good success including your loved ones disaster.
2016-10-18 00:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by mohr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems unreasonable that you appoint yourself as your husband's feelings police. We are all allowed to hate whomever we hate, and for you to tell your husband that his feeling is unacceptable sounds overbearing. Now, if he is exhibiting behaviors or making rude remarks about your parents, that's something that the two of you should work out. I think you should hammer out an agreement with him that states that you will come back to him and allow him to hate your parents as long as he agrees not to do a, b, or c, and not to say x, y, or z (variables are to be defined in a conversation with him).
2007-09-05 02:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him cqll him. It happens that in laws dont get along with their son in law. You should be neutral dont take sides. He is your husband and they are your parents, for sure you love them both. I think he can distance himself from your parents but its not right if he interdits you and kids to met them. Anyway you must remember that your future is with him not with parents. he will not call because he knows where you are, its the way to show you how unhappy he is with you there. Call him. that's my opinion
2007-09-05 02:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by Nomimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your parents into your business and nosey? There may be a reason he has no feelings of remorse or missing you. When you marry a partner, that person becomes number one in your life, forsaking all others. Something tells me, you have got him second to your Mother. I think I nailed it my dear.
2007-09-05 02:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats a question only he can answer. In marriage, both parties need to learn how to compromise. He shouldn't have to be forced into liking your parents, but he should respect you enough to "tolerate" seeing them. (so to speak)
2007-09-05 02:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh what an asshole, I thought my "husband" was a jerk! they are like the same guy. I'm not even living with him right now cause I can't take the apartment we are in and he still wont leave. F*ck them, if they can't show love and respect, done, over divorce.
2007-09-05 06:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't have to leave him because he hates your parents. He would just have to learn to deal with them. He doesn't have to like your parents but he must respect them. It's as simple as that.
2007-09-05 02:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by tootsiebrownie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋