made you fall in love?
-when did you realize this was the one?
-what were the circumstances behind the relationship? (just got out of another, met through friends, etc)
- What makes them different than the others?
2007-09-05 04:32:15 · 16 answers · asked by Stuey 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I like this question, it really makes you look back and see the love that was there, is there and helps ease worries.
I met my husband and was intrigued from the beginning. I knew that i was in love with him, after a movie one night when he kissed me and told me that I was beautiful, and to never no matter what let anyone including myself say any different. I am insecure and although I had tried very hard to conceal that, he seen it, and wanted to reassure me. I had not been in a relationship in over 6 months and never anything serious before that, I had never been in love before, and it scared me, and secured me at the same time. He had a very serious five year long relationship, that ended almost a year before we met and so we choose not to rush into things. Well, that did not work. The love was overpowering, and wonderful 6 months and we were living together, and within a year we were married. We have had a million ups and downs, but I would never want my life without him.
He is different because he tries to teach me to be a more responsible person, to teach me to make the right decisions, without ever showing a negative or controlling gene in his body. He is never jealous over me, or worried that I will cheat on him, he tells me that I make him feel very secure and loved.
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2007-09-05 04:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jengi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person that I am with right now has slipped through my fingers so many times before that I know that I will never let him go again. He was my best friend in high school, 17 years ago. We dated, but were so young. We then lived together as friends in college, and after he moved out, we had unexplored feelings for each other. We then married other people, lost touch, reconnected and became best friends again. We are both now divorced, and decided it was time to really give us a chance. He is everything that I have ever wanted! We connect on a level, and know each other so much better than anyone else. I have two children, and he treats them as if they were his own. He is my own personal dream come true!
2007-09-05 05:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by CuitePie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What attracted me to him was his looks. What made me fall in love was the way he treated me and made me feel safe around him.
I realized this when we were lying in bed one night and he played "you had me from hello" I just knew he was the one.
We used to date before 13 years ago. It wasn't serious. In time we both married other people. But I say fate brought us back together. I've been divorced for 7 years and I have three kids from my previous marriage. He is in the middle of a divorce with no kids. God brought us together for a reason only he knows.
What makes him different is my kids actually like him and he is such a great father figure to them. It's always "me and the kids" not just me. Most men just want time with the lady. He includes everything we do as a family.
2007-09-05 05:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
--He made me fall in love with his good hearted nature and down to earth needs. He wasnt materialistic and loved the little things in life.
--I realized that he was the one when I could tell him absolutely ANYTHING and not worry about judgement. Thats a huge thing for me.
--Met through work, and we avoided each other for the first two months. But after chatting here and there...well you get it.
-- He is honest about himself and wants nothing more than to be happy and be a good provider. I havent met a man like that ever with the best intentions.
2007-09-05 04:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is many, many things. Physically, it is the soft brown eyes, the broad shoulders and beautiful chest and easy smile. Mentally it is the way he tells me everything, is serious about life and at the same time has a great since of humor. He is respectable and ernest. Spiritually it is the way he holds me in his arms, makes love to me, cuddles with me and the way we say our prayers together every night. He is my great love and the best friend that I have ever had.....he is always there for me in any situation with out judgement.....
2007-09-05 04:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-i fell in love because he is so fun and loving to me.
-i realized he was the one when i wanted to spend all my time with him and he handled me acting like a jerk very well.
-we met because i dispatch concrete and we talked on the phone all the time at work for a year and a half and then decided to go out on a date one night. i was so nervous because he had seen me but i did not know what he looked like. turned out to be a very handsome brazilian man!
-he is different because my love for him is different then any other relationship i have had. he treats me very well and i can imagine being with him for the rest of my life.
2007-09-05 04:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by always thinkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure and have been married for over 30 years. If there are 3 of you I heavily doubt that is love. do no longer difficulty to get married because it possibly won't final and regardless of you do do no longer carry teenagers into that mess.
2016-10-18 00:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were both hurt from past relationships so it took us awhile to actually start dating, we had been good friends for a long time before that.
I knew he was the one and that he was different from other because I felt comfortable enough with him to share some very personnel and hurtful things from my past and he just held me as I cried and let it all go.
2007-09-05 04:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by ms_quoted 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His genuineness. I realised he was the one the moment I laid eyes on him. We met on line and he lived in Australia, me in Indiana at the time. I loved him before I ever met him in person. He has been my one and only. I have no one to compare him to, I just KNOW I am so very lucky to have him. We have been happily married now for over 11 years.
2007-09-05 04:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- humility and simplicity. plus he respects me and appreciates little things about us.
- well...you no one is really sure he/she is the one. we've been together for close to 7 years and although we are madly in love with each other we still discover new things from time to time which we realize we do not like.
- i knew it was special and really different when I could no longer find any other guys interesting. I don't even look for other cuties anymore.
2007-09-05 04:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋