When someone is your soul mate?

Question

When some one is your soul mate do they have to be perfect all the time or can it be some one that makes you crazy mad sometimes? I am interested in what others think about this.

Answer 1

Oh boy...

Yes, it is someone that can make you crazy mad sometimes.

I believe that I have found my soulmate and was lucky enough to marry him. I love him more than anything in this world and would do anything for him, but I swear... sometimes I wish I could drop kick him.

I think that people who are looking for that *perfect* relationship are a-always going to be looking and b-always going to be disappointed.

Being someone's soulmate means you complement one another, like pieces to a puzzle. "Opposite attract" has never sounded more true.

I hate sports; he's obsessive about them. I hate his job, it's long hours and hard work; he loves it because it defines who he is as a person. I am always there for my friends and family, ready to lend a helping hand; and he's on the other side of that, holding me up so I can hold others.

I know he's my soulmate. He's the first person I call when I'm having a problem, and the last person I talk to before I go to bed. He gets up earlier than me during the week, so I don't wake up next to him except on Sundays, when he doesn't work, making Sunday morning my favorite day of the week, making it that much sweeter just to wake up. He laughs at me, which makes me lighten up and laugh at myself. I can't stay mad at him for the life of me; even when I want to drop kick him, it only lasts for a few minutes.

I can tell him my problems, my fears, my stresses, my worries, and he talks them through with me, helps me figure them out, gives me a solution that's attainable, and when he says, "It will be okay," I believe him. He's my best friend. He's the love of my life, the other half of me. When I'm in his arms, I feel safe and secure and like I've finally come home, I finally belong somewhere.

I get that indescribable feeling, the feeling of more than just rightness, of destiny, fate.

I hated kissing until he kissed me for the first time. We were standing in the doorway of the pool hall, our friends around us, and when he stepped away from me and went back to the game, I looked at my best friend and said, "Wow." I could spend the rest of my life just kissing him and feel like I lead a great life...

I could go on and on about what I love about him. But mostly, the thing I love most about him? That's easy: The thing I love most about him is that just thinking about him, just the echo of his name inside my head makes me smile and feel a glow start deep inside and radiate out, making me feel like the luckiest woman alive.

That's when you know it's for real. When the little things you so readily argue about fade away simply because you love them so much.

So, yes, you can be soulmates with someone that makes you so angry you want to spit. When someone makes you that angry can also take that anger away, that's when it's for real.

Answer 2

I think they can make you crazy mad sometimes but you can just work it out either on your own in your head or you can talk to them about what is wrong and maybe get the issue that made you crazy mad fixed. I think they my be a little more understanding of what you are feeling if they were your soul mate because you should most likely know each other a little better than if they were not.

Lori

Answer 3

1. May people in your Life right now are your soul mates

2. No one is "perfect"

3. An intimate relationship with your "soul mate" is sometimes not the most easy and pleasant because your souls are here to GROW and sometimes that includes working through alot of issues with each other. It can also be incredible, too. Sometimes it includes the best and the worst of each other.

Answer 4

if you want a perfect soul mate, you have to be perfect too for the two of you are "mates". since for sure you are not perfect, you must not expect your soul mate to be perfect too. perfection should not be an issue in a relationship because no one is perfect. only God is. acceptance, forgiveness and giving of another chance are the primary factors to make a relationship work. hence, your soul mate could drive you crazy because he is imperfect...but beyond those shortcomings, the two of you still bear with each other harmoniously. and remember too: emotions are transitory. they change minute by minute. so if he drives you crazy mad now, you will be overwhelmed with love later. that's the essence of human emotions and relationships! go for it!

Answer 5

No one is perfect, not anyone. It wouldn't be "human" to be perfect all the time. When your soul mate makes you angry or mad as you put it.........it's how you handle the response to it that makes ALL the difference. It's amazing what the "Power of Influence" can do..............So, if you really care about your soul mate, have patience, let him/her know it bothered you, and how can you both work it out to make things better. Good luck!!

Answer 6

"Nobody's Perfect" even if it is your soul mate.

If someone is your soul mate, they have to accept all the goods or bad habits or behavior of yours. Soul mate didn't guarantee everything will be going very smooth. Soul mate has to fulfill each other plus and minus. You also don't expect everything going very smooth, there must be ups and downs.

That is call life. There must be or will be a color in your daily life. Otherwise, you will feel boring I think.

Answer 7

There are times where you argue, fight and get mad at eachother. But oh well, nothing is perfect. and no relationship is perfect.. They won't always be happy.

And when you have a soul mate. I think you'd already know if they were.. Their imperfection is what makes the perfect to You.

And for having a soulmate? Just.. wait and see..

Thats my personal opinion..

Answer 8

I can answer this question.
I married my soul mate, and while he is absolutely everything I ever wanted in a man, even down to the smallest details.He can make me really mad at times, and we have had some pretty big disagreements in our almost 18 years.No matter how big the disagreement is, it always blows over, because we love each other so much, and we are really committed to each other.
True love conquers all!

Answer 9

Ms Crone, even our tightest soul mate will still do things that irritate you. as do YOU do things that willl irritate him. you are BOTH human, and no matter HOW well the two of you get along the two of you are STILLindividuals. As individuals, you are not always in synch with each other and there will be clashes. The thing that brings you closer is the WAY that the two of you handle your differences. If you can differ and still be gentle and loving toward each other, that gives YOU an insight as to the level of your love for each other.

The important thing here, Crone, is patience. As in ANY relationship, a very close one STILL requires hard word to maintain. Part of that hard work is controlling your own tendency to get irritated and allowing that to flow out of you as anger and frustration rahter than being patient enough to resolve things as mature adults in a caring and sincere manner. (((Ms Crone)))

BB,
Raji the Green Witch

Answer 10

I am with my soul mate, for one it's a totally different meeting when the souls reconize one another from the first second. Yes, they will anger one another from time to time but will never be unforgiving of one another because a soul mate will never wrong you in a manor that crosses unforgiveable boundries.

Answer 11

I think except waiting for our soul mate we should go and find a person who has a good soul.... Soul mates are very very hard to find.... BA :: No I don't have one....