Some body fall in love with me .He is a very good boy in many character that iagree & believe them for getting married.Advantages that he has:good moral/behavior/so active/so happy/doesnt waste his time /adventurous..etc . I think he is ready to get married, but he doesnt want now.I agree with him in some cases and i give him 60%mark .He said its soon for us to get married. he say his word indirectly &it bother me alittle.He shows his feeling toward me but doesnt say it directly.what should i do?im in dobt.i dont know exactly that i love him too.i prefer not to show my feeling.maybe i will have better situation in the future.im in dobt.i think about his words & behavior but i cant get a absolute decision.
2007-09-05 22:52:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take your time to find out if he is the right one for you. There is no rush.
2007-09-05 22:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't ever fall for a wrong person, in reality , it's not only love that matters...you should also think and be brave , be frank to ask him if he can provide you with a decent shelter, provide you with a suitable life...if you think he's not...be smart for in the future you'll thank me, because when that time comes that you experience a miserable life with him, you can or you cannot do anything at all..believe me we will not be forever young, later you'll feel wasted..look around, i think you still need to rediscover yourself and don't fall for the wrong guy, they're somewhat indisguise until you get to know him or when you get married..be smart!!!men, tend to neglect women , most of the times...because they're childish and somehow selfish..sometimes you have to give him a dose of his own medicine..hope you got the idea..and hope it'll help..
2007-09-06 06:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by maritz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
then just continue to build this relationship a little longer and maybe when you get to know each other a lot better, he will reveal more of his true feelings for you. Love and eventual commitment needs a lot of hard work and time to build up - despite this, some still finally don't succeed. Rushing it may lead to failure even sooner.
2007-09-06 05:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then the best thing for you both would be to go and sit down and have a nice little chat. Ask him how he really feels about you and if there's a future for you too. Tell him that you are in doubt of your relationship. Tell him how you feel and that you would like to know where you stand with him in your relationship.
2007-09-06 05:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him. If it were going to work, you would know. The fact that you don't means it's not happening. 60% is never good enough in a relationship.
2007-09-06 06:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will marry you when he is ready if you are prepared to wait for him. If you do not want to wait then you must seek another man.
2007-09-06 05:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by sumfin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you love the person maby you must wait untill he is ready. not all people who have the same mind maby giv him & maby understand him & give more time more time & never let your love down for him becoz of that!!!
2007-09-06 06:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by fathima 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋