For all those women who like to emotionally beat up your husbands; Why? Why do you expect him to respect you, or totally be in love with you; When, you have made him feel that time and time again, his worth to you; is nothing more than a paycheck? As long as that paycheck is coming in, the man is great; but OH NO! you let that paycheck stop, and the man is scum? Why do you do this?
2007-09-05 15:18:35 · 19 answers · asked by runner45 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
women are emotional....men are our rocks.....we make mistakes.....sorry hun!!..your more then a paycheck, think about it!!!.....be easy on yourself!!.....i'm sure your a great person, even without the paycheck!!!
2007-09-06 01:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by ask me a 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My man is not emotionally beat down, nor is he just a paycheck to me - there was a time in our lives he was a stay home dad and I worked. He is a wonderful husband and a great dad - no, he's not perfect, and neither am I. But I would never place my husband so low as a door mat to be walked on and treated as such. The women that do this give the majority of all the good women a bad name.
Find yourself a good counselor and heal the wounds left behind by such a woman - and then, once you are able to move on, find a woman who will treat you as her equal and give as much as she receives.
Best Wishes
2007-09-05 22:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Ariana 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Those women are usually the independent women who don't need that man for the paycheck. Those women probably have full time jobs, keep the house and care for the kids. It is not equal in those women's lives, they expect that man to at least bring home a paycheck. Make a contribution to the household, is that man gonna do his part around the house, is he gonna call it vacation, sit on his butt and play PlayStation all day, then yeah...loser, get a job! Is that man gonna go out the very next day and beat his butt into the ground looking for work, you bet he is, or he isn't coming home! It works both ways...you gotta give to receive, and I am not talking about money!!
2007-09-05 22:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Cheri >^.^< 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All woman are not the same sorry that you are having a difficult time in your life money pays the bills but is does not provide you with the comfort that one another can bring into a realationship. your not being respected and treated like scum if the paycheck stops. i dont know what it takes but you just cannot stop loving someone if your in love with them but dislike their ways . you have been beatedn up pretty bad by the way are you married?
best of luck
2007-09-05 22:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes women can become disrespectful out of frustration. It's no excuse but that is a common reason. The frustration stems often times from a lack of understanding of the opposite sex, an assumption that men think like women. For instance, when a man is silent, it likely means he has no answer at the moment. When a woman is silent, it usually means she's offended. So many misunderstandings happen because of this difference in thinking. One book I have found invaluable personally is "Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars". Its an oldie but very helpful. As a wife, tearing down your husband is never wise or productive....
2007-09-05 22:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by hyuzik 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry. But, I was married to man to was emotionally constipated for a decade. . . . unless the emotion was anger!!! I can't answer your question because I could NEVER understand a human being--man or woman-- who would "emotionally beat up" another person. Paycheck or no paycheck! I was the housewife. I was the one who had three kids. I was the one who was called inefficient, fat, lazy, repulsive, and ugly. Sorry. Can't relate.
2007-09-05 22:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, you married someone who only cared about what you could give her financially, not emotionally. Not all women are like this. You were just unlucky to marry someone whose inner uglyness didn't come out until things got rough. If she is emotionally beating you up you maybe looking at emotional abuse, yes guys can be put in that postition too. Tell her to get a job and pay her own bills. You have been doing it long enough as it is, and it's time for her to help out too. Marriage is a partnership. Good luck to you.
2007-09-05 22:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all women are like that. I think you got a bad one. My husband and I have a respectful relationship and we both bring home a paycheck. Maybe you are looking for the wrong kind of woman. Relationships are both give and take. Best of luck
2007-09-05 22:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by littleme836 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A woman has spent her whole life dreaming of being a princess. Because her father was not the king, the only way to achieve this is to marry a prince. Their whole life ,as an adult is spent searching for this prince. Guy pretends to be prince, in order to get sex. They get married, woman finds out he's not really prince and punishes him for life.
The End.
2007-09-05 22:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have met the wrong woman and you are still very bitter about it. Like everyone else here is saying, Us women are not all like that and you won't find the right one while you are holding onto all this bitterness. Take time out to heal and to get over your bad experience, then set about finding the right woman next time and don't be in a hurry.
2007-09-05 22:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can only answer this with another question. Why did he pick such a woman to be in his life? Personality traits are always there prior to marriage but people overlook them, or think that things will change after marriage. After the marriage you realize the signs were there all along.
2007-09-05 22:23:21 · answer #11 · answered by Beatrice C 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋