we've been together for almost 3 years (will be 3 in Feb). I'm 28, divorced with 3 girls part-time. he's 29-never been married. he comes from large and very close family (6 siblings)
we've had our ups and downs due to me having PMDD that was just diagnosed 3 months ago and is now under control. keep in mind that he's had to adjust to dealing w/my issues along with getting to know my 3 girls (who he loves very much and even watches the 2 older ones for me when i pick up my youngest from school).
we've talked marriage before and the past 8 months he's hinted about a proposal so i know his heart is in the right place. we've discussed me and the kids moving in after xmas of this year.
we talk everyday and he sees the kids at least 1-2 times per week. i'm close w/his whole family and babysit his neices often (they go to same school as my 2 older kids).
i have a key to his house and we tell each other everything.
am i waiting too long or should i be patient?
2007-09-05 18:13:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and NO i won't propose to him. we are devoted christians and he wants to do the asking (we've talked about it).
he spends about 98% of his free time w/me and the kids. he does see his friends about once a week to fly rc airplanes and will occasionally go out w/a buddy for lunch or golf.
he tells me that i'm his everything and that he can't put into words how much he loves me. has told me in the past that if i would just relax-things would happen like i want them to (this was about 6 months ago-i've backed off and chilled out since then).
we get along great and he's truly my best friend and i'm his-i'm the first person he calls when he's upset or something exciting has happened to him.
2007-09-05 18:16:09 · update #1
Just chill out. It will happen..
2007-09-07 11:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient, and do NOT move in with him! Once you do, he may never propose. Tell him you will move in once you are married.
You have been with him only a little over 2 1/2 years. Give him another year, and if he doesn't propose by then, tell him goodbye!
2007-09-06 07:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. He'll propose.
2007-09-06 01:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋