Marriage & Divorce - 6 September 2007

I married my husband, my only true love, I lost my virginity with him, but...he didn't, he had a sexual experience with some girl, it was only one time and he didn't kum, and also he regrets it a lot. I feel really bad because I was the right one for him as we are very in love and have a baby together, but it haunts me everyday that he didn't loose it with me..To make it a little better, we pretend that it was just a nightmare, that he really lost it to me. what do u think/?

2007-09-06 09:20:42 · 29 answers · asked by princess 2

My husband and I have been married a month and a half and we have sex 2-3 sometimes 4-5 times a day... yet he still masterbates... I dont know why I have such a huge problem with it but I cant help but get get angry about it. I feel like hes cheating, and whats worse is that he knows it hurts me and knows how I feel but does it and then hides and lies about it. Plus he braggs about how amazing our sex life is- if its so good why does he still masturbate??? Help!!!

2007-09-06 09:09:35 · 24 answers · asked by Sarah bear 1

2007-09-06 09:08:19 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-06 09:07:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a question that really puzzles me, but at least i found ,lately, a solution to it.
when you love someone really from the bottom of your heart, really a true love (btw, i'm talking about love between man and woman)........... but then you find for example that it was love from one side which is yours of course, or even that you no longer see him/her but still love him/her.........
the question is............ how you can still love them ?!! , how is your heart so unfair and unkind to you that makes you still love them without any clue ?!
i believe it really harms you a lot when you try to love another person/new partner............ for you gave all your love and faithfulness to the first ?!............. you'll be unfair to yourself and the new partner.
so, i think that when you come to love someone, you shall not give all your love, emotions and passions to them........... just admire them strongly till you're sure of their true "Love" !!

2007-09-06 08:59:00 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has recently confided in me that he has a fetish for PVC clothing and would like me to dress in PVC occasionally when we are having sex.

He has show me a few pictures online of the outfits he would like me to wear i.e. Nurse, Maid along with PVC thigh boots.

Two questions - Have any of you had to deal with this sort of request from your partner and how should I go about wearing this outfit for the first time ? Can anyone recommend any good shops in London for buying this type of uniform / boots ?

2007-09-06 08:40:28 · 14 answers · asked by Sc00ter 1

There is this girl that was saying some very innaporpriate things to my husband. What do I say to her? Without being like, cuss word, after the F word, after the B word, blah blah blah. Lol... Thanks!

2007-09-06 08:38:46 · 62 answers · asked by Kathleen 1

Does this mean I have no way to apply to the state for child support while he is there, or am I just on my own from now on? I live in St. Clair County Alabama.

2007-09-06 08:27:52 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole 1

she said i can have a lover but iam shy can anybody help me.

2007-09-06 08:27:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

but u are still married and things are going ?? bad ?? good?? are great?

( me ) about 5 times but we still happy and trucking along

2007-09-06 08:24:13 · 17 answers · asked by texas boy 1

I am getting divorced and we are fighting for custody of the children (unfortunately). Just wanted to know which color is most favorable. Someone had told me blue or red. Anyone know of a website where you can look the info up??

2007-09-06 08:21:46 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

it will take near about 2-3 years to get the canadian citizenship.what would be the better option.i am married to him for the last 8 years,ours is an intercast love marriage(me:hindu,he:sikh),we have one four year old child,recently i came to know that he is having terms with a girl from the last 2-year or so.

2007-09-06 08:20:13 · 8 answers · asked by cuttiii 1

I have only been with my husband and was wondering what is the average size of a man?

2007-09-06 08:17:09 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I apologize in advance if this ends up being my own little whine-fest.

My husband quit his job about 5 months ago. Since then, he has not attempted to look for a job at all. He does nothing except sleep in until about noon, watch tv, play video games, hang out with his friends, and occasionally work on a "project" (he likes to make furniture). He is seriously driving me crazy. I do all the housewrok, childcare (we have two children), yardwork, cooking, etc. and he just sits on his butt all day. We are living off of his inheritance, which is supposed to be our nest egg. I am very unhappy with that situation as well.

Everytime I try to gently (or not so gently) nudge him into looking for a job, it ends up in a HUGE fight. I really don't think he is depressed- just lazy. Does anyone have any ideas how to get him off the couch and back to work before I kill him? Thanks.

2007-09-06 08:15:36 · 16 answers · asked by Elaine 5

I have been posting questions about if i should marry the girl i love and so on.Again you can read about the whole situaion in my questions posted yesterday just go to my profile and read the question i posted.The conclusion i came to is that i want to remain single.For how long im not sure.I thank (name undiscloded) for allowing me to feel how it would have been to start a relationship,but my personal resons i have backed off and told her that i do not want to get married ever and i want to remain a virgin and unmarried for life.As for the millions i will be getting soon and her family may have been expecting me to accept her hand,i will let her join me in my business and or help her out for her future career because she is the only girl i would have ever married.I talked to her and she understands.Thank you (name undisclosed) and thank you for everyone telling me not to get married at a young age at age 20 and she is 18.Thanks you.

2007-09-06 08:13:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sisters marriage is for all practical purposes over. Her husband has fallen for another woman, but even though my sister has asked him to leave he won't. There are two children, so she's gonna stay in the house so the kids can still have some stability.
What's the solution?

2007-09-06 07:55:37 · 8 answers · asked by frank m 3

If both parties work should they share an account or have seperate accounts?

2007-09-06 07:44:06 · 34 answers · asked by mastermind delinquent 5

he is 5000 miles away, in the military, we've been off and on for 2 years. This hurts so much. I just saw him in july, we had the best time, but i dont trust him. I have reasons not to trust him. No proof that he's cheated, but he has told me other lies. I am unconfortable with a friendship he has with a girl he's known all his life. she would leave messages on his myspace like, i love you, miss you to death, etc. Finally i guess he hadnt spoken to her in a while and she found out i visited. she left a message calling me a psycho b*tch stalker that basically flew out there to get laid. I have NEVER met this girl! That was a month ago, i have tried to forget it. He told me he wasnt speaking to her, but i found out 2day he is. He sent a pic of himself to me and a few others, she was listed. Y lie about it? We've had many trust issues, i feel like its my fault 4 being dramatic. Is it? Should i believe him? I already ended things, he's barely said anything. ive ended things b4 tho

2007-09-06 07:37:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 15 and 9 yr old.... I'm divorced and dating a wonderful guy who's 36 who doesn't have but wants children. Am I too old? If I decide to get pregnant it would be next year or when I am 40. .... honest and serious answers only pls!

2007-09-06 07:26:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

To watch porno, or go to strip joints, if your wife doesn't know about it?

I mean if you masturbate to porno everyday and you have your favorite one,or pair of girlies getting each other off, and you only have sex with your wife maybe 1-2 times every two weeks?
Would do you think? Just curious?

2007-09-06 07:21:21 · 53 answers · asked by RadioChild 3

2007-09-06 07:13:52 · 6 answers · asked by molly 1

So, thanks to the history being saved on our computer, I have seen that my husband visits internet chat rooms. There are "adult profiles" saved in the history file, but when I confronted him about it he said that the profiles don't have to be viewed. If a girl sends them to him in a chat, even if he doesn't look at the profile, it will save it to the computer just because it was a received file. Is this true, or is he looking up profiles?

2007-09-06 07:02:24 · 17 answers · asked by tinkerbell 1

2007-09-06 07:01:06 · 28 answers · asked by RICK 1

I call my husband "Happy Pappy" and "Agapoulamou". He calls me "Boozy".

Just wondering if any of you have funny affectionate names for your significant others? I always think it's silly to hear the names that come up after couples have been together for a while...

2007-09-06 06:49:59 · 56 answers · asked by Tina 4

2007-09-06 06:37:43 · 26 answers · asked by latina girl 1

Any ideas??

I already have:

Ipods
Blackberry's
laptop
PC's
HDTV
DVD players
Game Consoles
Digital Camera\Video
CARS
a house
Kids
wife
GF

I'm thinking about a BluRAY, But I don't really want that...

Whats hot out there?

2007-09-06 06:32:27 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 3 years now. We known each other for 4 years. I have a 3 year old daughter with him. In the past 3 years, we have fought about many things. And half of the time, he would leave the house for days, weeks..or how ever long it takes for me to go find him/ call him, begs him to come home. I told him many times that he can't walk away from his problems. If he's mad he can just ignore me or stay in the basement. I don't like it when he leave my daughter and I at home like that. He's mad at me doesn't mean he has to ignore her too. He has promise this and that but when we argue he would forget it. I love him very much and I know he loves me too. Good husband, good father..but that's one thing about him that I hate. I know he isn't doing anything bad when he leaves besides work and stay with his dad but still..he can't just keeps walking out on us when we fight, right? this time I'm not calling or ask him to come home.Bc he would walks all over me again

2007-09-06 06:27:14 · 10 answers · asked by Ur B 1

and you know it's wrong, but temptation is there....how do you deal with it?

2007-09-06 06:19:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 7 years of marriage, I am fed up and I want to "take a break" for awhile to clear my head. My husband has expected me to do absolutely everything for our entire marriage. He refuses to pick up after himself, do any house/yardwork, is lazy, and disrespects me. Now that I told him I am moving out, I feel guilty but I also feel its necessary for my well being. We don't have children. I am a free spirit who needs independence and respect (and self respect). He needs to learn what he should have learned 20 years ago; how to take care of himself and his own finances. I feel like I can't breathe. It will be a struggle financially for me & I'm NOT asking him to help support me while I try to figure things out. Do you think he will ever grow into the man I need him to be or should I just cut my losses and get on with my life? Its scary out there by yourself. Just asking for some sane advice.

2007-09-06 06:13:47 · 30 answers · asked by fedup in nevada 1

If you read the news story that broke today about the man who, for the last 20 years or so, assumed the identity of ex major league baseball star, Bill Henry, then you know what I'm talking about. The man not only fooled his wife for the entire amount of time he's known her, but has even fooled the media, which is reporting his death as that of the former pitcher when it isn't true. The man's wife is distraught and says she feels as if she's been married to a stranger all these years. Another good example of this would be someone like the BK serial killer. Anyway, I guess it just goes to show that a person can appear to be one person on the outside and somebody else on the inside. So, with that thought in mind, how well do you REALLY know your mate? Might wanna give it some thought...

2007-09-06 05:54:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous