2007-09-06 06:37:43 · 26 answers · asked by latina girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's no good way to catch him cheating. If your intuition is telling you he's cheating, chances are he is. Follow your heart and make the right choice.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-09-07 04:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by svictor24 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't read all the answers. but here's a fool proof method for you. and it only takes 2 things to make it happen. a computer and a sprint cellphone.
if you don't have sprint now, switch to it or see if your provider has the family locator service. what you do is register the phone online with the family locator serivce aka gps tracking device. you wait until he tells you "im going to go watch the football game with the guys". give him time to get where he's going. and then head online and access your account. click locate and it takes 30 seconds for them to pinpoint the exact 100 block that the phone is located in.
the only flaw with the system is once the phone has been located, they send a text message to it. But if he is with another woman.... what are the odds that he's gonna stop whatever he's doing to check it.
once you locate where that phone is.... you go there. you wait and you catch his *** red handed.
and once he gets hip to the fact that there's a gps locator on his phone, he's either gonna do one or two things. either stop fooling around because you can show up where ever he is at any moment. or get mad and says he no longer wants his phone. and if he no longer wants his phone you know he's guilty as sin.
btw. this service is free the first 30 days and 7.99 a month after that. and when they send the text message, it doesn't give out a bunch of information. just says your phone has been located. if your good at lying you can say you dont know what the hell he's talking about or it's something that sprint does with all phones now. my husband believed it
2007-09-06 13:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by thick & beautiful 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is no good way, seeing for yourself, catching him, means tearing up your family and finding out being right doesn't make you feel as good as you thought it would.
If you want to leave him, just do it, if there are no children then end it and get on with your life, if there are children then its a whole different scenario, and you have to try and make them your priority.
If you know hes cheating, and you don't want to put up with it, just tell him you know and to move out.
Keep a little of your dignity.
2007-09-06 13:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by justa 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, for one....don't confront him on it! That is giving him a heads up on it and you will never find out for sure. Get a friend to wait outside down the street when he says he is going out that night. Have that person follow him. Have another friend pick you up. Keep in touch with the one following him so you can take over the following with the second car. He may get suspicious if he sees the same car following him the entire time. There is alway "redial" on the phone or caller ID.....Show up where he says he is going to be. My boyfriend told me he was going to this certain bar. Fine, I was going out with the girls....we showed up at this bar and found out he was screwing the bartendar....if you think he is cheating......nine times out of ten he is.....find out first then confront him...........then kick his sorry butt to the curb because they don't change!!!
2007-09-06 13:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by Paula D 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are leaving for work one day and don't really go. Stay around and follow him. Put a hidden tape recorder in the apartment to pick up any audio.
2007-09-06 15:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your home girl call his phone while you are with him and talk to him. You will be with him but acting normal like its nothing. see if he try to act like he talking to a home boy or even try to walk away from you. Your girl has to call the exact time you are with him,maybe text her so he wont think you have something to do with it. I tried it and it worked he got all heated up at first but finally came out.
2007-09-06 14:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Install pinhole cameras around the house, or put a GPS device in his car. Also, you can get computer monitoring software. Just check your local laws before you do any of that, because it may be illegal in some areas.
2007-09-06 13:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by sanguis 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweet Pea there is never a good way. But if you already know this than confront the situation at hand. Adultery is a sin and it is not right. God Bless!
2007-09-06 13:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by b n real 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Nothing "good" about it at all. Follow him, check his cell phone, hack his email account, get a friend that he doesn't know to follow him......but chances are if you suspect him, there's a good reason for it. Follow your gut. It's usually right.
2007-09-06 13:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
start by getting a copy of his cell phone bill. This is how I caught my ex and my husband caught his. Never fails.
2007-09-06 13:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by Lucci 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋