If you have a girlfriend you really love or care about why would you cheat on her? Is it because you get tierd of the same thing every now and then want to be wit someone else for the hell of it but you still want to be with her? Or whats the reason behind unfaithfulness? Sometimes i get the feeling my husband is cheating on me but i dont now how to find out if he is or not. I think he not would cheat on me were happy nothing is wrong in our relationship but then again sometimes he just acts weird and never tells me where he is going. I asked him one day if he was cheating he said why would i do something so stupid if i have everything with you...? So i think he wouldn't but then theres that doubt that i have.
2007-09-07 08:31:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oddly enough, the reason a man cheats has nothing to do with the woman. He could have the most perfect woman in the world and he would still cheat.
The reason is selfishness. Just that, plain and simple selfishness.
Every married man and woman still finds themselves attracted to others. But only the selfish ones act on there desires. What they lack is a true understanding of how their actions affect, and hurt, other people.
2007-09-07 08:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your man along with all other men are capable of cheating. Just like all women are capable of it as well. It sounds to me like your suspicions of your husband center more around insecurities in your relationship rather than any hard evidence of his infidelity. The reason why anyone cheats are wide ranging. It could be heat of the moment sex, it could be that there are emotions involved with another person and they do it, it could be just plain old planned out no strings sex, or he could suspect you of cheating and he was trying to get revenge. The list could go on and on. Once you realize the fact that if he (or anyone else for that matter) is going to cheat then he it is going to happen. Whether you like it or not and there is virtually nothing you can do to stop it. All you can do is just love and trust in what you have and relax about everything else, because it will all work out in the wash.
2007-09-07 15:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated. Never will.
My wife and I have been married 21 years and I would not do that to her.
I hope that you find out the same thing about your husband.
Good luck!
2007-09-07 15:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by rogerrogmo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't cheat on her because I love her.
2007-09-07 15:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋