I was watching the Rap Stars' Wives thing and most of the wives had the "you had him once but I've got him all the time" mentality. Where does that come from? How do they let their men back into their lives knowing they've been with other women? I know the men love their wives and don't love the other women they have sex with but I'm curious as to why a women would stay with a man that does that.
2007-09-07 15:07:52 · 11 answers · asked by lj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As much as I agree with the money issue many of you guys brought up. I used the stars' wives as examples. Why would anyone (no matter how much the other's banking) stay in a relationship if their boy/girlfriend had sex with another person?
2007-09-07 15:38:06 · update #1
Personally I never would. Once they've cheated and the trust is gone, the relationship is over for me.
2007-09-07 15:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jen0408 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its the mentality of 20+ million dollar life styles compared to social security life styles they will face if they follow through on their divorce threat because the singer's lawyers will hold it up in court for many years and possibly go for custody of the child/ren even if they are the better parent.
I know if my husband's had been worth 20+ million I woulda given them at least 15 million chances before divorcing their sorry a**es because of other chicks needing them in their bed.
You get used to a certain life style after coming from the street you dont want to go back , on the other side of the coin is people like Whitney Houston , she had her own fame / money yet she still stayed with the fool she married that confuses the hell out of me.
And as for love , honey as Tina Turner sang , "What's Love got to do with it?".
A playa is a playa before the millions and they stay playa's even after the promises'.
2007-09-07 22:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People get use to a certain life style. I had a friend who had married two multi-millionaires and was going for her third because she likes the life style. It's hard to become ordinary once you live extraordinary. It may not be right, but it's true.
2007-09-07 22:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by LAL 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They went into the marriage knowing that's how it would be. They wanted financial security and status. There is love involved I'm sure, it just isn't the lived out in a traditional fashion.
2007-09-07 22:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I so agree with you. These womens self esteem and self worth are pretty low or isn't there at all. What guy would be worth staying with if he's with other women having sex. Screw that!
2007-09-07 22:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by happy to be me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they love them and don't want change in their life.
2007-09-07 22:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Hitheeeeer! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU cannot control another persons body....
2007-09-07 22:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by 2sexxxy32 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they don't care about them
2007-09-07 22:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Many, many people live in denial. I guess you and I don't.
2007-09-07 22:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
they dont care... they want then no matter what
2007-09-07 22:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋