i need help to tell my wife about what to do in a marriage
2007-09-07 14:04:22 · 16 answers · asked by sasamijurai18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No two marriages are the same. It is important to talk to each other and decide what expectations you each have for each other. Marriage is about communication and cooperation. As for what to do in a marriage, what are you wanting her to do? You did not say. What do you expect out of a marriage?
2007-09-07 14:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by emma5280 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should be more specific.
Sounds more like a control issue to me. Like you want to control what she does. You can not explain to her what to do in a marriage because it is not just about you. You also need to do some listening about how she wants her life to be, you can not change who she is nor should you try. It will only make things worse. You need to sit down with her and deciede how you BOTH want things to be and make COMPROMISES to allow for the other persons needs in each of your lives. You should have done this before gettting married. You do not have all the answers about how a marrige should be because you were not in a marrage with her before. Every two couples are different about how they get along and what their main needs are. Do not TELL her how marrage is instead SHARE your LIVES and NEEDS with each other.
2007-09-07 21:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you have unrealistic expectations about marriage and your wife.
You can't tell your wife to do anything.
You spend time getting to know one another, cuz it sounds like you don't. You try making each other happy, doing nice things for each other. Work on your relationship, that's all that counts. Forget about the notion you have in your head that women should be barefoot and pregnant cuz that's not happening in today's society.
Every marriage is different, but they all should focus on making each other happy.
2007-09-07 21:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude. Your marriage will last about 5 minutes, if you tell your wife what to do.
2007-09-07 21:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
did you not think about this before? that is why most churches offer pre marital counseling. are you trying to say that she doesn't know what her wifely duties are. if that's the case you need to get out of the stone age this is modern times you get out what you put into a relationship, anything more is a bonus
2007-09-07 21:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well to bad there is no marriage schools to send her too.
2007-09-07 22:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummmm Read God's word!!!! I sure hope your not controlling because if you are then your marriage will last a very short time till she gets tired of it. Been there done that....TWICE!!!!
2007-09-07 21:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by conny 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what do you mean? you can email me off group to chat if you like ive been married for 5 years. You need to explain what you are saying becuase it sounds like you want to control her or something and that will not work lol
2007-09-07 21:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why not get divorced now. No sense wasting her time. Maybe you should get a dog so you can tell it what to do.
2007-09-07 22:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by toledogolf 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Explain to her that she needs to obey you to feel the potential of love that can blossom in her cute little heart.
2007-09-07 21:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋