he told me he didn't find her attractive but recently she was over and i asked him agian and right in front of her he said "i can't help it she's good looking" He acts weird every time shes over! Whats really going on?
2007-09-08 12:17:07 · 5 answers · asked by tiffany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first of all, why would he tell you that he doesnt find her attractive, then say he does? that sounds like he is a liar to me. i do not like it when i even think my husband is looking at another girl, but saying it out loud hurts worse than ever....you should not allow him to put it out there in front of her. here is a simple truth...girls are scandelous! you cant trust any of us! even if u trust him, keep an eye on her...remember girls are backstabbing, and men are weak!
2007-09-08 13:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does find her attractive to the point that it bothers him in that he feels guilty or even bad. My husband has found other women attactive. He's admitted it. I have found other men attractive and have admitted it. That doesn't bother me, nor does it bother him, because he is my husband in every sense of the word. I am his wife in every sense of the word. Last week, a male friend flat out called me sexy in front of my husband. He knew he could "get away" with it because we're all just friends and he has a very good idea of our marriage and knows that we have marriage in every definition of the word.
Have you talked with your husband about this? Told him how you feel? No, he can't help it if he thinks your friend is pretty. Curbing feelings can be difficult as well. Tell him it bothers you without your friend around. It might provoke a more honest, heartfelt answer.
2007-09-08 19:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Vegan_Mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's not a very nice husband. Try to make him jealous.
2007-09-08 19:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's being totally transparant and shouldn't be. that's what's going on. he's attracted to her!! it would bug me.
2007-09-08 19:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how does your friend feel about him? does she entice him? would you be open to explore more deeply?
2007-09-08 19:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by sarah l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋