Marriage & Divorce - 8 September 2007

We were always close - talk to each other about everything until this yr we were "together" for a brief moment in time and it was amazing - the guy i never expected to be prince charming was him in disguise BUT we decided not to rush and stay friends

After this, he lost someone close and we became distant. Rumors/assumptions about our status got to both of us and we had a "misunderstanding"...after months, we solved our problem and now things are getting good again...

BUT hearing his voice just made me so happy and it sucks because i feel SELFISH, i wanted our friendship but there's still something inside of me that secretly hopes that one day i could get the chance to be w. him. He's a good person - a "catch", the ultimate guy - i'm in love with everything about him...i know it's hard to find a guy like him - i enjoy his company, just talkin on the phone for hrs, we don't need to go to fancy restuarants, just as long as i'm with him, i'm happy...

2007-09-08 09:34:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone has a fantasy, my partner and I have talked about this, I'd like to talk to some couple who have done this. How did it work out after the fact? Or is this just a fantasy along the lines of cheating with consent?

2007-09-08 09:28:21 · 17 answers · asked by lynna 3

I need smart reasons...

2007-09-08 09:25:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-08 09:24:19 · 30 answers · asked by rose 1

my friend wants to know if you start to have sex then make him stop by saing i cant do this im married. Is it still considerd cheating and if so to what degree. Shoud she tell her husband?

2007-09-08 09:21:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Other than BJ's... I know men are more than that!

2007-09-08 09:13:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we got back together he said he couldnt live without me, and all that. i asked him if he went out with any girls when we were apart, he said no. i found out he did. 2 times. they held hands. i talked to him about it and he said that its none of my buisness- how can it not be my buisness if we are going to be married.???????? he said everyone needs their private things, but i disagree. i think you should be able to share everything. i dont know what to do

2007-09-08 08:51:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok Here it goes My mom and dad Separated 2 months ago and Dad gave Mom $600 now she wants more Money Does he have to give it to her Or does he wait Until the Divorce is Final! More Info is she Is Bleeding Him dry He is Broke at all times

2007-09-08 08:47:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Half the male employess now at Qwest in Omaha has either been in Linda's bed or with her at Super-8, etc. Even after one moved to Seattle (Art M.) they still screwed each other every June in Omaha and most fall/winter's there in Seattle. Then there's Bob who moved to Denver, his now wife then GF Kim never knew, even after 18+ years... There's about four others I'd say looking at her personal computer a year ago... Anyway, I'd like someone to tell me how I can get on at Qwest in Omaha, downtown, so I can take advantage of this unofficial (?) perk!

2007-09-08 08:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by Steve T 1

I have been married for little over12 years now. My husband took a job that has moved him to another state(kids and I are staying til our house sells, then joining him). Ever since he moved, he has been acting distant, in a hurry to get off the phone, taking out large sums of cash out of the acct and turning off his cell phone. When I ask why he took out so much cash he said he wanted it for spending money. That was a week ago, it's already been spent. He refuses to tell me what he spent it on and says he needs to go. He usually never goes out by himself, but lately goes to a bar"by himself" to drink(he doesn't drink often) and smoke cigars, oh and his phone was turned off. Says his phone dies all the time and he's not turning it off. Am I crazy or does it sound like he is cheating? We have 3 kids and I don't know what to do. I love him, want to our marriage to work, but I don't think he does. He says I am just being insecure and paranoid. Am I? Why all the lies and sneaking?

2007-09-08 08:36:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi all

i was at work recently and i showed my female work-mate all the bottles of water that i had drank during this 8 hour shift (must of been like 5 bottles of water!) and she replied 'that is why you have nice skin' and i said thank you (what a lovely compliment!) and she said 'i havent though, my skin is all blushy'

Question(s)...

1. For her to say that, do all women notice guys with nice skin?
2. Was that a sign of flirting? Does she feel attraction to me?

Thank you.

2007-09-08 08:28:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My other half has got the most gorgeous come to bed eyes. However his farting turns me right off!! (I bet all you ladies agree!)

2007-09-08 08:24:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

The evening sun it sets,, do you feel the heat,
on the beach together, where our bodies meet.
glistening in the dusk, naked bodies dance as one,

to the music made by nature, for pleasure and for fun.

Your supple breasts they shine, seeking some ultimate pleasure,
slowly the lips will fall to meet your forbidden treasure,,

feel the strength in arms that tightly wrap around
and the merging of bodies the exciting feel and sound.

kisses into the night,, ecstacy that feels just right..

The excitement of the merge...

2007-09-08 08:20:14 · 7 answers · asked by tommy C 1

after 19 days away due to bussiness commitments,I was supossed to go back home tommmorrow but now my boss is saying wednesday.I phoned my wife and told her,thus she started crying and weeping over the phone and is claiming that she is very lonely.How best can I comfort her so that she sleeps well tonight? I am sorry and I understand but I need to comfort her because I really care for her and am worried over the issue.

2007-09-08 08:17:00 · 12 answers · asked by TIPLAS 1

It's now 3:00 pm in the afternoon, and he's been watching TV since he got up and still hasn't showered. I've been cleaning and organizing all morning ... Every saturday and sunday is like this. I'm no angel and I'm far from perfect, but I'm so frustrated because I feel like he isn't even trying. We run one errand, then it's time for dinner and I can't take it anymore! what to do???

2007-09-08 08:09:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a gf whom i never felt as love with what the word means but we were very good friends i mean very very very much that we were living together for more than 2 years ( 24 / 24 hours ) we used to travel work chill make out drink and get high and every thing that u might think of ,,,,
now i aint talkin to her cuz she is not replying on me or talkin or answering my calls ( she left me for another guy out of a sudden ) and now i started to feel that i love her so much without knowing this fact cuz in the last period when we were together we never had any fights all the relation ship period and i never missed her not even once ( as never been alone without her )
so is this feelin as hurt or is it a real love and bother ways i think i lost her just wanna know cuz this feelin is killin me
please advice any one

2007-09-08 08:03:48 · 5 answers · asked by marrious 2

2007-09-08 08:00:38 · 3 answers · asked by reality 1

I understand this an adjustment for all of us. I always seem to be stuck in the middle. I just don't know what to do anymore. Any suggestions?

2007-09-08 07:59:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am just looking for some opinions please..
I have been married since I was 16, I am now 30. I have met someone online about 5 years ago, I am completely in love with him. I stopped contact with him for over a year to see if my relationship with my husband would improve. It did not. I cant stand to be around my husband, I love him but have never been inlove with him and despise the thought of sex with him. This man I met I have never met in r/l, but he loves me, I love him and I would do anything to be with him. I recently wrote him and he is very hurt at my disappearance from speaking to him, I dont even think he wants to talk to me anymore. would you continue in a hate relationship with your husband? Or would you go with your heart, and be with the man you hurt each day to be with? I married my husband because I really didn't have a choice, he loves me unconditionally but is a horrible husband. I cant seem to get past how much I can't stand him.

2007-09-08 07:48:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

dressing like biker chicks. My main thing is I want to do something too. Not playing cards, I have no girlfriends or family. I want attention....... again, not going to movies. He is there googling women and maybe more....why are women expected to be MaDonna? (Not the singer/actress)

2007-09-08 07:44:35 · 11 answers · asked by lrlseuell 1

I'm going to ask a lawyer next week, but they don't always know everything so I want to see if any of you Yahoos know the answer. Remember this is for Texas. Before you ask why would I want to do that, my wife is a very bad girl, but she doesn't want to leave and she's still a good piece of a**. Plus she's had her tubes tied.

2007-09-08 07:43:35 · 5 answers · asked by blue_prince_of_dallas 2

2007-09-08 07:38:09 · 21 answers · asked by CHRISTOPHER H 2

previous marriage, and I have 2 of my own. He did not aquire this bike until after we were married. I am stuck here with the children all of the time. (He works, too) I know he needs to do something, but I am getting to the point that I need a companion in my life that is not a child. How do I deal with this kind of feeling. I want to get a babysitter and go out or something (wihtout him) so that I have a "hobby" too. Am I bad????

2007-09-08 07:25:18 · 10 answers · asked by lrlseuell 1

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1. my husband does not answer any questions about where he was, who he was busy talking to ..etc etc wen he himself needs all answers
2. does not miss any official get togethers wen expects me to attend none
3. does not find me attractive anymore
4. expects me to help his house wife mother with chores even wen i have longer working hors
5. criticises EVERYTHING about me
6. says he's critical but only doing it for my own good?

2007-09-08 07:19:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Oh I hate her sooo much! she lives with us unfortunately! all she does is say oh I feel sick, Oh this hurts, If I say I have a headache she will say she has one too! If she sees a sick person on Tv she'll say she has the same symptoms. Whats wrong with this lady! I know she is pretending to feel sick! I cant stand living with her! whats worst is that its not her home, but she has to live with us beacuse my husband wants his mommy near him because he said shes old and needs him, She's only 64! I mean my Grandmother is freaking older than her and still works! I just try to ignore her stupid conversations about her stupid pretend symptoms! arrrrgg

2007-09-08 07:09:53 · 19 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1

2007-09-08 07:06:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

But when SHE does wrong it somehow gets blamed on me and is ultimately my doing. I tell my friends sorry when I screw up, her too. Why do women seem to be so willing to deny and so willing to accuse??? Serious answers only PLEASE, no jabs.

2007-09-08 06:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by qwerty 1

my hubby & myself have a fantastic sexual relationship.atleast thats what i think.but his actions confuse me and makes me doubt whether he is sexually satisfied or no.many a times he watches tv till late night so i go sleep in the bedroom while he sleeps in the drawing room on the sofa after watching tv till late night. everytime he sleeps outside i have found out blue movie dvds in the dvd player and tissue papers strewn around the sofa. i used to doubt he mastubates. when i asked him whats this he says nothing my nose was leaking at night thats all. but i wonder why doesnt his nose leak when we sleep together? when i ask him this question he doesnt have any reply. sometimes it has also happened that i have woken up in my sleep to go to the toilet and as soon as he hears the door opening he switches off the tv. when i ask him about it he says i just decided to sleep but again in the morning i find the sex videos in the dvd player. i just want him to tell me the truth.

2007-09-08 06:41:27 · 20 answers · asked by sweetu 3

and I thank God she's married to me.

2007-09-08 06:00:31 · 31 answers · asked by My Name Is Ken 5

2007-09-08 05:58:18 · 19 answers · asked by pussycat 5