That is who we are, and its not going to change much as time goes on. I don't believe in belittling my man or anyone in fact. You need to tell her how this makes you feel, and your a man and will admit when your wrong, but she should not be getting this much pleasure out of it. It sounds to me like she has a trust issues, check into her feeling as well and I pray things work out between you two. No one can live for very long in a home that is filled with anger.
2007-09-08 07:09:50
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answered by Annie 4
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My wife does the same thing. I always say I'm sorry if I screw up. She has only said she's sorry once and we are married 12 years, and that was because I told her I'm not speaking with you until you say your sorry......3 days later she broke. She does no wrong, it is a womans way. Don't try to figure it out. When it happens to me now I talk out loud to god or some one " How could I be wrong god if she is the one doing the action" it breaks the tension and she walks away. Good luck!
2007-09-08 14:12:55
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answered by Jonny B Bad 5
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You are married to a person that is in denial and who is unwilling to accept any responsibility for her own actions. In the future I would refuse to take the blame for something she has done wrong. Make her take the blame for her own actions. If she refuses and says she has done nothing wrong try the following. Get a piece of paper and write down where she is wrong and the actions that took that led up to the situation. Ask her to write down how anyone but her can be blamed. Many times if you put the facts down in black and white it is easier to prove that they are at fault. Next time you screw up and she wants you to apologize tell her you will apologize for your mistakes when she starts apologizing for hers.
2007-09-08 14:09:38
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answered by DavidV 3
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you need to tell her that it goes both ways. Women are always quick to get on the defense.and this has been spread over years by other dysfunctional women and media. Explain to her that you will not get into anymore games like this. Don't admit to doing something wrong at first. Let her know that before you both admit to faults talk about what went wrong. IF she is not willing to compromise don't admit to your faults. Tell her that in a relationship it goes both ways. Empower yourself.
2007-09-08 14:07:59
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answered by mars 3
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When you men do wrong you tend to repeat the same offense, that is why she wants you to say it aloud so maybe just maybe it will sink in. Second if you were really honest, you would see you were probably to blame when she was wrong. We only speak the truth.... Sorry if the truth hurts.
2007-09-08 14:08:56
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answered by kitkat 7
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.Because the majority of women want to KNOW they were right, and never wrong, It's in our blood we want to be liberal and rule our kingdom. Then treated like a princess all at the same time.
Just apologize go one with life, tomorrow will be another journey
2007-09-08 14:10:13
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answered by lynna 3
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maybe if you would fess up to your wrongdoings,she wouldn;t feel the need to do the same to you.You both blame eachother for this problem.Instead of pointing fingers,try talking about why it is that this continually occurs.
2007-09-08 18:08:11
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answered by defile_steffie 2
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Honey, this is how women are. You just need to re-direct her and let her know this hurts you. I used to be this way.
2007-09-08 14:27:34
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answered by I Like Grapes 3
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because she thinks if she keeps on about it you wont like her hounding you and you more likely not to do it again
2007-09-08 14:08:06
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answered by ? 7
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