We were always close - talk to each other about everything until this yr we were "together" for a brief moment in time and it was amazing - the guy i never expected to be prince charming was him in disguise BUT we decided not to rush and stay friends
After this, he lost someone close and we became distant. Rumors/assumptions about our status got to both of us and we had a "misunderstanding"...after months, we solved our problem and now things are getting good again...
BUT hearing his voice just made me so happy and it sucks because i feel SELFISH, i wanted our friendship but there's still something inside of me that secretly hopes that one day i could get the chance to be w. him. He's a good person - a "catch", the ultimate guy - i'm in love with everything about him...i know it's hard to find a guy like him - i enjoy his company, just talkin on the phone for hrs, we don't need to go to fancy restuarants, just as long as i'm with him, i'm happy...
2007-09-08 09:34:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
but along the road, it would be hard to be friends when deep down inside you just simply love him...
he's a "shy guy" btw so i don't know what he would be thinking...
2007-09-08 09:35:14 · update #1
Sounds like you should really talk to him and let him know how you're feeling. I know that it sounds scary but you need to take a chance. It sounds like you truly feel like this could be the one. Are you gonna let him slip through your fingers because he's shy? Life is indeed to short.
2007-09-08 09:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The biggest thing here is you can have either a best friend or boyfriend but not both for some unforeseen reason. Most couples are best friends before they are an item but in your case it wont work. So now you have to choose which is the best option but Im not saying both wont happen on down the road given eough time. Be patient and see what happens,but sometimes Mother Nature needs a liitle provoking. God luck
2007-09-08 09:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Robin Thicke's mom (Gloria Loring) had a hit that said "so I'll be your friend; and I'll be your lover; 'cause I know in our hearts we agree - we don't have to be one or the other--we could be both to each other".
You have nothing to lose by pursuing it...and everything to gain. You won't be any worse off by trying...or suggesting it.
If he feels the same way--great. If he does not, then you are back where you were. Nothing ventured, nothing gained...
For whatever is meant to be, good luck.[Wondering: why did you all decide not to "hook up" if you both felt the same way about one another? What's the delay now?]
2007-09-08 09:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy his company for a while longer until things have really settled down. Then tell him you have very strong feelings for him and ask him how he feels in return. You might get a nice surprise. Good luck..
2007-09-11 13:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have everything to lose if you don't come out and tell him you are in love with him. at least you can go forward in life knowing that you weren't afraid of fear, or rejection, and that you just wanted your friend to know your feelings. if you are that good of friends and he doesnt' feel the same, you should be able to salvage the friendship and remain good friends. if he DOES feel the same, then what a blessing for you!! BE BRAVE!!
2007-09-08 09:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋