Other than BJ's... I know men are more than that!
2007-09-08 09:13:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bottom line:
A cook in the kitchen, a maid in the parlor, and a whore in the bedroom.
Additionally, be supportive and pic your battles. Don't nag or criticize the small things.
Women think its more complex than that - it isn't in MOST cases.
If you don't have the time / energy to be all these things, most men would settle for the whore in the bedroom and not nagging. Who cares if the house gets cleaned and I'm more than happy to take the wife out to a nice meal so that she'll still have energy for the bedroom.
At least she KNEW that BJ's are important :)
You might think me shallow for this answer - but its really the truth. The whore in the bedroom part is not being slutty or extremely crazy. Its about being open to sex. Not having to have EVERYTHING in the house perfect before you go at it. Doing it in other locations (besides the bedroom). Most importantly - BE ENTHUSIASTIC ABOUT IT !!!!
That's got to be the #1 complaint from ALL men married more than 5 years. Don't treat us and sex like its another CHORE to cross of the to-do list. We want to have fun and please you and have you please us. Just be a willing partner.
The most unsexy thing in the WORLD is a wife that has to be begged, lerveraged, or guilted into sex. The 2nd most unsexy thing is a wife that puts out, but does so begrudgingly or with little to no enthusiasm !!
Learn this - live it - and you will have a happy marriage - not to mention a husband who's eyes will NOT wander.
2007-09-08 09:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by aa889d 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
although BJ's are really nice, I also need affection, honesty, companionship, understanding of my needs, friendship, and sex! No nagging, help keep the house in order, cook really good, and oh yea sex! And most important have fun and don't be too serious all the time!
2007-09-08 16:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jonny B Bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wasn't nice.
I only want from my wife what she wants from me; a loving partner. Someone to stand by you through the dark times and not just the good times.
2007-09-08 16:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by John Doe 1st 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd say sex
good food
clean house
no nugging
understanding
not spending a lot of money on clothesetc
but at the same time always to be elegant and pretty
behaved children
not having their mothers move in with them
2007-09-08 16:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by girl24gr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We really aren't all the complex, and all the problems start to come in when you think we are as complex as females. Nagging is the number 1 thing to avoid.
2007-09-08 16:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by x2000 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a component, but not an overriding factgor.
I want a friend, a companion, a confidente. Someone with whom I aam compatible
2007-09-08 16:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BJ's are nice just don't nag, and learn to go with the flow.
2007-09-08 16:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Brownfolder22 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A good companion, friend, lover, confidant .... a person to be my better half, a person I can spoil that will spoil me back, a person to share my fun times & bad times ... just to be there.
Thats about it ... I can cook & clean.
2007-09-08 16:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beer, sex, and keeping the house clean, thats what mine seems to want. LOL
Oh give me a break with the thumbs down.....its a joke!! lol
2007-09-08 16:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
someone to support me when im in a rough spot. he needs consoling and you to take care of him. probably someone to clean up after him and to feed him.
2007-09-08 16:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋