I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years already. We are both 28. We both love each other very much. she is getting frustrated that I don't want to have sex with her. She never had sex with anyone. I never had sex with anyone before too. I plan to never have sex. I kiss, foreplay, and hug her but that's it. Not sex. I think sex is perverted. I love her to death. I know she's the one for me. Do you think she will leave me in the future if I don't have sex with her? I know she loves me very much too.
2007-09-08 14:55:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Despite your feelings about sex, it is a natural biological process. While we have advanced technologically and pretend that we are civilized creatures, human beings are still primitive, biologically-driven organisms. She is not a purely mental being and neither are you. If you truly viewed intercourse as something perverted, you would not kiss or engage in foreplay. There is something internally wrong that you need to locate and examine closely.
Yes, ultimately she will leave you if you don't do something about this problem. It is amazing that she has stayed as long as she has. It is obvious that she loves you deeply, otherwise she would have been gone within a year or two. Someone like that is worth going to the added effort it will take for you to change.
2007-09-09 21:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by Candidus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are that age and in love, it is natural to want to make love. She has needs. She will leave you. If you think sex is perverted then you have a problem that needs you to seek counselling. Please seek help. Good luck..
2007-09-11 12:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she'll leave you. She has needs. You should go for counseling.
2007-09-08 15:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋