Marriage & Divorce - 10 September 2007

2007-09-10 03:44:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-10 03:42:28 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

It really doesn't bother me, but I know she is going to feel terrible for forgetting. And I have a 7 year old that is going to be upset she didn't get to wish daddy happy birthday and make me a card. What do I do? Do I remind her today or let the day past without saying anything?

2007-09-10 03:38:43 · 22 answers · asked by Camaro G 1

2007-09-10 03:36:11 · 14 answers · asked by Y/A Eighth Wonder of the World 5

the answeres i got to my first question part 1 i love them. if you guys have to put me down go ahead because your right. it is shameful for a grown married woman to let her mother mess up her relationship. but being back in the house with her now has really made me realize that letting my mother control me is not worth it. you know i use to think that if i did not do what my mother told me that i was disrespecting her and that i did not want to have kids and get back what i put on my mother. but looking at all of this i see that my mother dose not respect me as a daughter. she tryed to disrespect my husband when he would not do for her or give her. i put a stop to that but i did not put a stop to her disrespecting me. you know how all this mess really go started? when my brother was in jail two years ago my mother got mad at my husand and i because he would not give her his income tax money ($2,500) to get my brother out of jail. then the negitive remarks was on!

2007-09-10 03:27:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any good suggestion?

2007-09-10 03:26:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a man in my twenties. I don't see myself ever marrying.

2007-09-10 03:19:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

By insisting my wife wear longer skirts and higher cut tops?
She will often wear little or no underwear under them.When I get mad about any of her outfits she says I'm a backwards, she says I'm jealous, she says I don't want her to look nice.I refused to go out with her one time unless she changed, so she just went out without me, I found out later she went to a singles club with her friend, and took her ring off and let guys buy her drinks, if I tell her to stop hanging out with her single friends or go to appropriate hangouts I'm the bad guy again!! But she wouldn't even let me go to my own brother's bachelor party because there was going to be an exotic dancer! I complied hoping to lead by example, but she just went ahead to the wedding shower where they had a Chippendale dancer!
I don't want to lose her, she can be so wonderful sometimes, but I am really losing my patience with her behavior!

2007-09-10 03:13:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a daughter from a one night stand while on vacation a few years ago. I gave her my madian name (father not listed on BC because I have no way to find him). I want to have her last name legally changed to my married name. What would be the best way to have this done? I live in the state of PA.

2007-09-10 03:07:42 · 10 answers · asked by Sleepy 1

a couple argues alot, and the wife accuses the husband of cheating all the time, although he is not, and if she is mean and nasty to him alot. Be mindful that this is a man, that works hard, is successful, does whatever he can to take care and provide for his wife, helps out her family, spends time with her when he can, pays the bills, looks past her past and so forth.

2007-09-10 03:07:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to know what you would do if your husband was abusing you and you called your parents for reassurence and they said we dont know we are not there. they also said are you sure you are notoverreacting WHAT how could they say theat to there daughter its unbelievable. and the other thing that happend was i was almost raped because i was at a party and needed a ride home so I asked a friend of my best friends sister i thought you know they are all friends well he almost raped me i told my parents and they said well I shouldent be getting in cars with peoplei dident know. ok maybe but they cant even talk about it with me. you know when someone goes through something like that thats not encouraging what they said. nowits years down the rode and I cant get over what they did they know but they said I need to get over it. IF IT WHERE you would you ever get over it. its not like i asked to be abused and family is supposed to help you through it and its notlike i hithiked it was a friend

2007-09-10 03:05:55 · 10 answers · asked by worriedaboutlife21 1

No man is a failure when he has friends.*

2007-09-10 03:02:28 · 19 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7

My wife isnt very sexual is there some way I can saduse(forgive my spelling its early) her? Woman what do you like your man to do to get you into bed?

2007-09-10 03:00:34 · 4 answers · asked by Tim H 1

well i know most of you dont remember that question i asked about my mother interfereing in my marriage and now my husband and i are sperated because of it. i also think i stated that she is very controlling and bossy. well now she has through my father out of the house and they got into a big arugment last night. she calls me from work early this morning telling me that she through him out and that iam going to have to help her more on paying bills in the house. this house is my fathers too and she has no right to through him out. iam only my mothers daughter iam not married to her. iam not reponsible for staying with her and paying her bills. my husband and i are planning on getting back together and iam not going to be stuck with her for the rest of my life when she has my 28 year old brother living her to who is not working.
my mother causes trouble when my father will not follow her rules or do what she tells him to do. she puts pressure on me anyway to help her pay bills.

2007-09-10 02:57:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If we have no kids no house the only thing i owe her is 3300 and i have no problem paying it what can she file for?

2007-09-10 02:55:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-10 02:45:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe that for a marrige to be successful both people need to relize its not just about them selves any more it a union of mind body and soul. Both people come into a marrige expecting certain things the key is to be symathetic to each others needs. One person might need more emotional support and the other might need more phyiscal support. Would you agree that meeting each others needs is very important even if it means going out of your way to make the other person happy?

2007-09-10 02:44:53 · 18 answers · asked by Tim H 1

2007-09-10 02:40:54 · 23 answers · asked by bubba gumps light 3

I hope that someone could help me figure this out, or give me some direction to this drama.... I have only been married since Dec. 2006, and like clockwork about every month or so, when a disagreement heats up, my wife picks up and moves out- then eventually comes back after a week or two.
She doesn't really argue, and at most threatens divorce, and just packs up and takes off. The last time she did this was this past July, when she left a week before our baby was due. I called, asking her to come back, and at that time she refused to even have me around in the delivery room when the baby was born. After the baby was born, she moved back with me, as though nothing happened.
I really want this marriage to work, and for the most part we are happy, but I don't know how long things can last with this drama of her leaving like she does. Its as though I am constantly afraid of telling her how I feel or being at odds with her about nearly anything, fearing she will leave again

2007-09-10 02:34:55 · 13 answers · asked by Norac 2

I am married, and my wife and I haven't made love in some time because we had a kid together last year and it ruined our sexlife.

We live with my sister-in-law. She is a nice girl who is driving me crazy because I want to have sex with her. (She has a booming bod and always walks around barely clothed, not thinking anything about it.)

I am going to resist my temptations obviously because I love my wife, but I cannot get her out of my mind!

When we hang out innocently, I just want to jug-hump her senseless!

What can I do to stop feeling this way??

It is driving me nuts, help!!

2007-09-10 02:32:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and I had been dating for 6 months when I met Mr. X. Mr. X. was married and I sensed very quickly on that he was not happily married, though he did not come right out and say it. I began to grow increasingly upset with my man over various big and smaller issues. One day it hit me, I was falling for Mr. X. I knew I had to cut off ties with Mr. X and I told him why. Up until this point he had been very nonchalant and I had no idea he felt the same way. We immediately stopped talking out of respect for our partners. We did not see eachother or talk for 6 months. I recently saw him again as I began working with another coach from the same company and realized the feelings have not gone away. Mr. X has seperated with his wife in the meanwhile (while we weren't talking). Now I am confused, torn and unsure of how he is feeling? Do I bring something up? Am I just being silly and should try to fix my relationship? Does he need space? I don't know what to do?!

2007-09-10 02:31:35 · 12 answers · asked by leelee c25 1

2007-09-10 02:21:42 · 14 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

After all, it's a fact that most will cheat with a member of the same sex. Who would want to have a bisexual as a parent? Just wondering.

2007-09-10 01:57:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married too, but don't love my husband any more. Do you think it's so wrong loving a married man?

2007-09-10 01:57:34 · 27 answers · asked by Erani G 1

I am 32 and have been dating a 30 year old for 1 1/2 year. We got into an argument at 5am again. One of many where I can't sleep, cry and wake him up. He gets really angry normally and it gets a bit crazy where I threaten to leave and he is verbally abusive saying I should shut op and calling me crazy, jealous controlling etc. I am jealous and have some issues, am wrong and provoke him a lot in the middle of the night but does that justify his behavior? He puts his hand over my mouth often. He has bitten my hand. Yesterday he bit my thigh so I have a bruise today. He carried me to the door saying he was going to kick me out. Then when I didn't stop provoking he pretended to call security and pretended that he would harm himself in the bathroom. I am writing because I know things get out of hand in fights in a lot of relationships. With enough provoking can anything happen? I left him yesterday packed my stuff. Today I miss him. I have a bruise and am confused. I love him but am freaked

2007-09-10 01:41:52 · 18 answers · asked by losing my mind 2

i was looking in my neighbors windows and saw him the local bar maid!!! should i tell his wife? they were so ..."busy" that they didn't even notice me standing there taking pictures. i have two choices. i can either tell his wife, who is a friend of mine. or i can threaten to show the pictures to the bar maid's husband...a true psycho. she'll pay me to dummy up. what would you do?

2007-09-10 01:36:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-10 00:57:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married for the 2nd and last time. No more marraiges for me after the 2nd one..My ex, my husband and I had a fair relationship for the sake of the children. It was more of give and take situation. Everything was good. Until my ex found a girlfriend that is when everything went south. The ex communication for the children went from hardly any to none at all...The children can speak with their father anytime they want, but as our oldest says, if dad doesn't want to contact us why should we ( is been like this for over a year). For my understanding he married this woman who has 3 older children which dramatist every little thing. My husband and I try to keep it cool. As if there is no family problems already. We don't need drama, but for my ex to have a good relationship with the children. For the 3 of us to get along. One thing, the children, my husband and I don't need and want my ex's new (3rd wife) in our family, she is not welcome. She caused too much damage, stress, headaches.

2007-09-10 00:28:53 · 24 answers · asked by Gabi G. 1