i was looking in my neighbors windows and saw him the local bar maid!!! should i tell his wife? they were so ..."busy" that they didn't even notice me standing there taking pictures. i have two choices. i can either tell his wife, who is a friend of mine. or i can threaten to show the pictures to the bar maid's husband...a true psycho. she'll pay me to dummy up. what would you do?
2007-09-10 01:36:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First, you handled this badly. In this age of cheap electronics, you should have videotaped it! Then, if all else failed, you could have made some money by selling the material to an internet porn company. As it is, the pictures have little intrinsic value, unless the one of the participants has a reputation to protect. You did not specify whether the neighbor is wealthy and famous. This is important, because if he is, you can make really big bucks selling the pictures to the National Enquirer or a competitor. This may be a once in a life time opportunity, and you should capitalize on it as much as possible. I would not blackmail the barmaid, you could end up in prison, and I doubt you'd end up enjoying being Bertha's b*tch (then again...).
By the way, I reviewed the questions you've asked. They are hysterical! Some of the answers are pretty good too. It is amazing what people will believe.
2007-09-10 05:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by Marc G 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pedro, my suggestion would be to not get involved in this. To say something to your neighbor's wife would not be right. You really have no idea who he was with: It could have been his sister, his cousin, co-worker, anyone. If you are not well acquainted with him, you really wouldnt have a real insight as to who he and his family are. Without having a lot of background information about him/his family, you might just be drawing your own conclusion. Often times, when we see someone doing something 'we' think is wrong, we assume their facial expressions are dead give-aways. My sense is because you saw him with an unfamiliar female doesnt mean his reaction was one of being 'worried.' He may, in fact, have been surprised by seeing his neighbor in the same restaurant. To say his wife has no idea is drawing an unfair conclusion. My best advice is to ignore what you saw and move on. Should you see him other places, with the same or even other females, then come back and ask the question again. It's great to know you have a concern for his wife, but at this point, it may be unjustified. Take a wait and see approach.
2016-05-21 01:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not close friends with her i would not even bother to do that. Just mind your own business. It's great that you have pictures, because it proves that you are trying to help and not just spread rumours to break up a relationship. But if i were you (if you did want to help), i would just send her an anonymous email with the picture and tell her that you saw something and thought she should know. Like i said, if you are not a good friend of hers, then let her figure it out on her own.
2016-02-15 07:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the wife is truly your friend, then that is your only choice. She needs to know what is going on. She can use the pictures you took against him in court. None of the others need to know that you were even there. Besides, trying to blackmail someone for your own gain is stupid. You could get hurt, or even worse, dead.
2007-09-10 01:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Joe S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the woman is your friend, then you need to tell her and give to her the pictures you have taken.
It's going to hurt her, but as a friend you have no other choice.
Good luck.
Surely you were not serious about thinking of making any money out of this were you??
Just so that you know, blackmailing someone is an offence punishable by law.
2007-09-10 01:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I always believed that when a husband is cheating behind his wife there is always a reason.. if you are not her best friend, then better stay out of this cos black mailing is definately a very bad idea.. But if you are her best friend maybe you can try to talk to her in sort of like hinting her...You can even try to understand if there is any trouble in their marriage.. . if you show her the picture, you might ruins someones marriage.. if you try to black mail the bar girl you might ended up in trouble yourself... Please think carefully before you make any decision k... cheers...
2007-09-10 01:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by ling.l.c. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would understand that 1-blackmail is illegal, 2-the only moral dilema here is that you were morally wrong to stand and watch, 3--and you took pictures while trepassing also illegal. Gosh makes the guy cheating look like a saint doesn't it?
Stay the hell out of it and look to improving yourself.
2007-09-10 02:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's put your camera to better use. I'm sure we can take some very interesting pictures of you. Hmm? Do a little costume shopping first. Have a glass of wine. Smile for the camera baby. The camera loves you. Yeah there it is. Oh yeah baby give it to the camera.
2007-09-10 02:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always try to look at things from the other person's perspective. While you could get boku bucks from capitalizing off the situation, if you call yourself a true friend, you'd tell that woman so she can nix that ba$tard. If you arent cool with her, hey take the money. Just remember, KARMA IS A MUTHA- YOU KNOW WHAT
2007-09-10 01:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Light of the Party
Knowing you you either 1) made this up or 2) are jealous that the barmaid beat you to him, or 3) was the one doing the next door neighbor.
Why don't u get real! Quit making up stories to post, like the one where u are fooling around with your brother in law. Sheesh get a life!
2007-09-10 05:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋