I'm a man in my twenties. I don't see myself ever marrying.
2007-09-10 03:19:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with you. I'm a woman in my 30s who has been married twice, and come to the conclusion that it is definitely more trouble than its worth.
2007-09-10 03:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by meagain 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Thinking that way won't cause problems. The fact that it seems to anger you is what will cause the problems. If a couple have a healthy sex life then she doesn't need to be constantly seduced. She is an active participant in the love life. This makes genuine romantic gestures possible. It is when the intimate part of the marriage is suffering that these problems can arise. So you need to decide if you want to be an active participant in ALL phases of a marriage before saying "I do". SEE, YOU DON'T GET IT. IN A HEALTHY MARRIAGE, THAT'S NOT HOW THE GUYS SEE IT. YOU NEED TO DOUBLE UP ON THAT COUNSELING.
2016-03-18 03:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say this... it is a challenge... Although... the things we work the hardest for have the greatest rewards. I know its tough, but then again you're going to bump heads with anyone you live with! Sister, friend or spouse... But, no matter the problems we may encounter, all I have to get is that look from my husband and I go weak in the knees for him.
As for you... totally your choice, but if you don't see yourself getting married, you just haven't met your other half yet. I can tell you from experience, that there will be that one person that comes along that you can live without in your life... BUT YOU JUST DON'T WANT TO!
2007-09-10 03:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi...
i think that problem marriages are always the result of two people jumping in without:
1. knowing each other at all.
2. getting together to discuss their futures, finances, and other very important aspects of living.
3. having similar life goals or ambitions.
4. realizing that the other person will not magically "change" into someone better after saying I DO.
scares me.
2007-09-10 03:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband didn't see himself marrying either, until he met me.
I don't think marriage causes the problems, they are underlying anyway. Marriage just brings them to the forefront. Dealing with them is the difficult part.
2007-09-10 03:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in your twenties...and so am I. I don't really see myself either marrying. But we've only lived barely a fourth of our lives. We still have ALOT of time to change our minds.
2007-09-10 03:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Joe T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not easy. It requires a commitment that many are not willing to make. But when you find the mate that God Intended for you, nothing is better than being able to share lives rewards with that person. Yes it is worth it.
2007-09-10 03:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Big D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is what two people make of it or don't make of it.
2007-09-10 03:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only as much trouble as you make it. My husband didn't see himself being married till he met me, and he also didn't see having kid's till he met mine.
2007-09-10 03:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage doesn't, it's the people that do.
2007-09-10 03:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋