2007-09-10 02:45:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I find it interseting that women want to have sex with anyone other than their husband.
Men on the other hand, want to have sex with anyone including their wife.
2007-09-10 03:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey Guy,,
Don’t worry if she has had a harmless momentary personal little fantasy about somebody else. A lot of people (male & female) have had a fantasy about someone they’re not “attached” to. Doesn’t mean a thing, it’s no more than that. It works that way with flirting too, it’s only a harmless momentary little “test” for people (again both sexes!) to find out if they’re still hot an desirable.
Now if they’re really planning/scheming etc on cheating or flirting to an extreme in order to find someone other than the spouse to have sex with. That’s different. Female or Male there is something they’re missing in the marriage, their wants/needs/desires are NOT being met by the spouse. That should be a huge clue to the spouse they need to pay a lot more attention to their S.O. and work on meeting the spouse’s needs/wants/desires. This will take lots of effective communication. Yelling, screaming, demanding, ultimatums etc.. is pretty stupid when effectively communicating.
2007-09-10 03:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did think about cheating when I was married, although I never could bring myself to actually do it. It indicates that there is something wrong in your relaitonship. I am no longer married but I look back and realize that things/people change and sometimes you outgrow one another. I am not sure if it's really possible to stay happily married to one person unless you grow together and continue to do so. If one person continues to grow and the other doesn't ..it won't ever work out. Good luck!! Best thing is to be honest and get a divorce if you think that you are going to be unfaithful. It's only fair. Share your feelings with your partner.
2007-09-10 03:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Siren_Cin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you mean it....have I ever thought about cheating on my spouse to the point of planning it and almost pursuing it, no. Have I thought about having sex with other women, yes. I have had opportunities to cheat on my wife, and she has had opportunities as well I am sure. To my knowledge she hasn't and I haven't either, but the main thing is that we both know how each other feel regarding the subject.
2007-09-10 02:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would never do that to my husband. If I wanted to be with someone else I would leave him and get a divorce. I was cheated on by my first husband and I know how badly it hurts.
2007-09-10 03:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! When I married my husband, I took my vows seriously. I also would not cheat on my husband because I wouldn't want him to cheat on me. That is a very hurtful thing to do. If you don't love your spouse anymore then, get a divorce first.
2007-09-10 02:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by darlene z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would never cheat. My marriage has had its low point through the years. And I will admit there were times that I yearned to be done with it all. But I dreamed of being alone, that last thing I wanted was another man.
2007-09-10 03:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by jlcjills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't marriage be about true love and telling him/her what you want or need to do so that you wouldn't have to cheat. (eg: I need attention, I wanna get some, I want you to do xxxx xxxxx, and yyyyy) Get it??
Communicate!!!
I don't condone cheating, but I wouldn't put up with not being taken care of either. It's called "Laters Babe"..or breaking up.
Hard lesson learned after you screwed someone else for fun or just because.. and the love of your life makes u feel like CRAP for years to come, and the hurt they keep, and trust issues between the two of you are forever, if it lasts through the CHEAP PIECE OF AZZ you've gotten or gave away!!
2007-09-10 03:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by THEMrsMinLa&Momof2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. Of course I've thought about it. Everyone...whether they will admit it or not...fantasizes about other people. Sexual attraction to other people does not die when the ring is slipped on the finger. I honestly do not know anyone that ...if they are honest with themselves....has never thought about cheating.
2007-09-10 03:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by chica_liss 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No longer married but when I was I NEVER thought about cheating on the bastard, even though he deserved to be cheated on.
2007-09-10 02:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋