Women: don't you love how men use the "it's our biology" or "we're just guys" as an excuse for pig behavior?

Question

Yes, I'm angry. I grew up with a cheating father and every man I have ever been with has always had someone else waiting in the wings. I cook for them, maintain my physical appearance, compliment them, am "giving" and dote on them. I'm smart and attractive, I've had people say I look like the girl from King of Queens. All in all, I'd say I'm a pretty good package, but it's never been good enough.

Hammy: At least we don't use it as an excuse for infidelity. I'd take a jerk over a cheater any day.

Anyone notice how are "female" behaviors, although may be true, are mere annoyances. They don't involve infidelity. Men use the "male" card for doing seriously hurtful things. Wow, we get cranky once a month.

Answer 1

Not to be mean, but if every man you date has another woman on the side, perhaps you are choosing the wrong guys or driving them away.

Answer 2

Okay. I see this is turning into a pissing contest. I'm sure the men in your life and a lot of other men have problems keeping their unit in their pants. I don't agree with you that all men are like that. Though I'll have to confess I'm not one among them, I do know a few men that you wouldn't even believe how dedicated and loving/caring they are to their spouses/gfs.

It's just hard to generalize the very same way a few men have responded to your question saying similar things about women.

I just hope the next man in your life truly exemplifies the ideal man :-)

Answer 3

Women are the queens of biological excuses for ***** behavior. Look we all have our nature and there are some things that men just naturally do and things the women just naturally do. Think about it. Humans are about 50,000 years old in our current form. We adapt. Part of our behaviors helped us survive before fire and electric and phones and and and. You don't just change that because modern times came upon us.

Edit: Pig behavior is different from infidelity. I can be a pig. I'm proud of my inner pig because I make no excuses for being a man. I do not cheat. EVER! They are not the same thing.

Answer 4

so basically you're angry because you're such a good person and you don't get the credit and devotion (love) you think it's appropriate for you. well, what do you know? it happens to the best of us. maybe you should care less about being so good to them because as you can see, not only they are not such big deal but also they 'll have someone waiting in the wings', 'the spare part' lady. doesn't say a lot about their feelings , no?
I suppose that's just the way it is. But it' s not always like that.
maybe you should make them taste their own medicine once and get it out of your system.

Answer 5

LMBAO @ Dill. Funny as HELL man. We all got our shi* I mean really. Women have bad experiences with men and blame all of em, men have bad experiences with women and blame all of em. Its probably the only thing we REALLY have in common. hehehe. Men do use that sorry as* excuse for terrible behaviors. Cheating is NOT a biological occurance. It istnt something NATURAL for a man to do. And so often do many men use that as an excuse for their disgusting choices. I agree... but at the same time I cannot tell you how many WOMEN will also fall for it, stating "a man's gonna be a man" WTF?!?! No a REAL man will know that the whor* throwing herself at him isnt worth his relationship... a real man will know to just walk away and find the strength in even the toughest situations to remain true and supportive.

But sadly there are very few real men, like wise very few real women, and too often do the real end up with the jerks. Thus men and women scorned.

As for pig behavior, its learned. lol And it can be turned off, and cleansed too. lol.

But I really did like that uno comment. MAN I almost got in trouble at work cause I started laughing at it. lol

You gotta make em work for it! Men like a challenge... I know I wouldnt want someone who just does everything for me... Its not your fault he cheated on you, but if you continue to attract the same type of loser, you need to take some time to think and get yourself together. I DID IT! I took a year from dating, I got sick of being cheated on. I was a virgin, wasnt doing a damn thing I didnt want to and because "men have needs" I was cheated on. Not one of those sorry bastards were willing to wait and show themselves worthy of my body. So I figured, screw em all and stopped dating, when I met my fiance by accident. I had just sworn off dating and was done with dealing with men relationship wise, when he fell out the sky into my arms lol. We're engaged, set to be married next year and I cannot tell you how happy I am. He was my first, and only and really my dream come true.

When you want more, and better, you work for it. You get away from the bull, and youmove forward. You have to know your worth, and standards and work on building yourself up! Empower yourself, and learn to heal, and try to look within to see what it is about you that makes these jerks think they can treat you that way? And then put em on notice lol. My fiance knew from the start he would have to prove himself to me, and I knew the same of him because we had standards. He was attracted to my "do it my damn self" attitude, I was attracted to his strength and sense of independence. Today, we make it work! And people always ask me, how did I do it. How is it that I never have anything bad to say about him... its not really all my doing, its our work individually and collectively.

You can and do deserve better than many have to offer, and when YOU know that, and let it show in every thing you do, you will receive it. :)

Answer 6

I'm a man and I never use it to excuse bad behavior. I only use it to explain the desire to engage in bad behavior. There's a big difference between desiring and engaging, though. As human beings, I believe that we possess the power to rise above our animal instincts if only we choose to exercise that power.

Answer 7

Their biggest mistake (and some women's too) is the fact that they mistake "biology" with learned behavior. People are what they observe and what they learn. If they're taught to be jerks then they're going to be jerks, and that's just the way it is. Re-education is the key.

Answer 8

I'd have to say which "pig" behavior. Some is and some isn't. But everyone has the ability to change, if they want to.

Answer 9

Yes, I'd like to know how man can completely evolve from a Neanderthal dragging his knuckles on the ground to soaring into space and creating all the technologies we use but can't manage to keep his D I C K in his pants........yeah right.

Answer 10

Actually, I love how women try to explain this rections without having both sexs answer, or are you that concieted that you think we don't count.