do you think men and women really are meant to be together?

Question

or are you like me and say you are lucky to get to ten years and a lot of them end before that.I just dont think humans are meant to be together like that

Answer 1

Only if they're straight.

Answer 2

I think it varies on the individual, and the couple. I also think that not enough people compromise in relationships. Something that I've seen break marriages, that really shouldn't, is porn.

He looked at it before he got into a relationship with you, don't expect him to stop. Compromise. Talk about it, and maybe just limit it to a few times a week.

Some people get bored in relationships, get bored with the person, of routine, and those people are not meant to long term. Some people find comfort, and relax in long term relationships, those people are meant for long term. It really all depends on the people involved.

Also, it doesn't necessarily have to be man and woman, but woman and woman, and man with man.
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Some one said it was human nature to want to live with the opposite gender. Not true. It is human nature to seek out companionship, not to necessarily live with them, and not necessarily to have sex with them. I know a gay couple who has been together since 1971. And I know some one who never wants to get married and live with another person.
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Not all species on the planet have both male and female. Whip tailed lizards for example, only have females. Some animals are hermaphroditic.
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I've known more homosexual relationships than heterosexual ones that lasted over 15 years.

Being gay is natural, look at the animal kingdom.

Answer 3

at 27, its hard to make it as far as i have. 11 years at that time was hard to do because we were both so young but because we knew that, we were ready for all the hormonal issues we had to face but the love is what got us through it.

of coarse we are meant to be. maybe not monogomously but relationships are all we are anyway. good or bad, long or short and thats what makes the world go round.

its easy to stay together when there is an open communication line and a mutual respect and understanding.

being real true friends helps and wanting only the best for one another and not being so selfish. then one day you will wake up like wow, i am still here, and i still love him and want him with me and around me.

basically, i am lucky i made it to my 11th year this year and that it only feels like year 2.

Answer 4

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do you think men and women really are meant to be together?
or are you like me and say you are lucky to get to ten years and a lot of them end before that.I just dont think humans are meant to be together like that

Answer 5

I think most men and women are meant to find someone to spend their life with. It doesn't mean that it's going to be easy, but it's a constant growing experience if you're willing to make it work. My parents were married 65 years, all ya have to do is work through the tough times so you can totally enjoy the good times.

Answer 6

Humans aren't meant to be together for that long. Reason being, like all animals, they only get together to reproduce. Some species reproduce and thats it! But more complex creatures usually stay together longer to raise the offspring correctly. So since we're the most advanced species out there so far, humans should be together till at least the kids are psychologically able to handle themselves. So 15 years probably. But since we are no longer in the wild and we are in what we call 'society'. We should stay together longer. But who knows, times are changing, all we can do is sit back and watch ...and laugh.

Answer 7

What do you get when putting 10 men in a room?
Lots of jokes and lots of laughter and some become big buddies. Talk about sex or the lack of it, cars sport etc. and back to sex again.


Now what happens with 10 woman in a room. With in 10 min they will form groups and talk about one another's hair or tits or what ever and shortly they will have a bad vibe all over the place. And shortly there after a hell of a row.

Answer 8

Unfortunately you are dating some really bad apples..And for whatever it is worth it is not that bad. Mine first and only marriage lasted for 20 plus yrs. We are the best of friends, and he continues to have a formal relationship with other members in my family and vice a versa. No one should be left alone or be alone everyone deserve to be with someone until the end.

Answer 9

I think its completely natural. The hard part is finding the right person. Also it takes a lot of work. People grow and change as they get older and you need to take interest in that and grow together instead of in seperate ways. A lot of people aren't willing to work at marriage and that in turn leads to divorce.

Answer 10

So you think humans are like animals and should just have sex and thats it? Well, no i dont think so, because humans have feelings, and they cant help, but to fall in love with someone. Its just they get those feelings for the wrong people. Also since humans have feelings they can cheat or fall out of love with someone.

Answer 11

Yes men and women are meant to be in a relationship together. But to consider it everlasting, I think not. Nothing last forever. Love dies when people get older and our morals and values change when we experience life more fuller. So don't depend on a movie or the media telling you that love is suppose to last forever because it don't.