2007-09-10 08:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do the things that you did when you were dating. It takes a lot of work to keep the excitement going, but it's worth it!
2007-09-10 08:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start going on dates again. My wife and I have started this and we've only been married for a little under 2 years. We try to go out to nice dinners as often as we can, get all dressed up, and try to have some fun instead of just sitting around watching TV every night.
Do the things you did while you were dating. get out of the house for a night, go on a weekend trip somwhere.
Of course it all costs money, but try to budget something like that in.
2007-09-10 15:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sean C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands". It's an awesome book that completely rewrites the standard way of thinking about relationships. Give it a try.
2007-09-10 15:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by vixen312 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try and be as fit as you were then. Go out on dates and places like you use to. Maybe not all the places but go out to friends and other places. Go out of your way to say nice things to one another to compliament the other. Just start doing more of these little things. Make time for each other.
2007-09-10 15:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason that you had so much fun in the begining is because it was all new to you both. Try finding some things to do in which you two have never done before but that you think you both may enjoy.
2007-09-10 15:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating again.
2007-09-10 15:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a week, go on a date somewhere special. Don't talk about kids, bills, or work. Just flirt and have fun, like you used to.
2007-09-10 15:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time it is just as simple as going out and doing things together again.
2007-09-10 15:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been asking myself the same question for about 3 years now....i miss the fun and passion we used to have.....i just created a group today so that people could get together and give advice and chat about these things....here is the link if your interested...
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/UnfortunateCircumstance/?yguid=186615161
2007-09-10 21:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by wendy v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strip club, do things that you would never think about doing. be fun with it,dont hold anything back. become more open with him. and just start having sex out of the blue anywhere and anytime. good luck
2007-09-10 15:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by TE TE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋