admitted to looking at it. Wut Should I Do? should i get mad?
i also found an empty condom wrapper on his floor but he said it was his friends that lives with him. But, his friend dosnt have sex because his girl is waiting till they get married. so whos could it be?
2007-09-10 08:30:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most ppl will disagree with me,... but i dont want a man that has to have porn. PERIOD.
I find it hurtful and disrespectful,... its socially acceptable now, because the internet makes it so available,... but i have seen many marriages torn up because of the addiction,... and its very easily addictive.
Also,... i wouldnt feel comfortable about the condom,... id even ask his roomie,... and before you get married,... both get tested!!! or better yet,... before sex again.
2007-09-10 08:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by solo_yo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-20 05:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why people say that all guys look at porn. Porn is different for everybody if you don't like it then you don't like it. Don't let people tell you it's no big deal because everyone has different views and feelings on the subject. Not all people are the same. The people who view porn as a "no big deal thing" obviously can't keep their men satisfied sexually. Tell your man how you feel on the porn subject and ask his friend about the condom wrapper. You have every right to be mad and skeptical in this type of situation. Is porn that important to your guy that he would rather watch that instead of just being with you? Porn is not in a guy's nature it's in human nature but everyone has control of their urges. As far as the condom wrapper don't drop it just like that. In a relationship each person deserves respect and if he doesn't appreciate you enough then just walk away from the relationship. You can't be in a one-sided love because it will never work.
2007-09-10 09:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by tazzyp01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I wouldn't think twice about the porn video.
But I would not be setting a date to get married until you feel you can trust him and that is in question right now because of the empty wrapper. You said his roommate don't have sex so it could only belong to him. Sooooo....you need more time to get to know him and trust him.
2007-09-10 08:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by LAL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem with a porn video, most guys probably have a collection; I'm a woman, and I used to have several, but gave them away eventually. Your dude sounds like a normal guy.
I have no idea where the condom wrapper would be from, but if he lives with other people, it could come from them. I wouldn't jump to conclusions. They might "say" they're waiting until marriage, but who knows what's going on behind closed doors. You're getting too worked up over nothing, IMO. Lighten up, or your marriage is going to be a nightmare.
2007-09-10 08:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The porn is just a guy thing in my opinion. Maybe you could watch it with him sometime? BUT the condom wrapper is very suspicious. I would get to the bottom of that.
2007-09-10 08:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Saia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as the vid. goes don't get mad. There are a lot of men, and a growing number of women, who watch porn. My husband and I watch from time to time for ideas, and b/c we both like to watch. Just b/c he is watching doesn't mean he wants to be with those girls. He is asking who to marry him? That's right, you. Not those other girls in the porn.
As far as the condom goes... either one of the guys could have been watching the porn and put on the condom to jack off in. Some do that so they don't have a mess to clean up afterwords, yah know.
2007-09-10 08:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by gorgeous 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well the porn tape is one story i would just brush off but the condom wrapper I dont think so i would be flipping out giving the ring back
2007-09-10 08:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by milf613 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might pass on. As painful as this could be, and that i'm particular has already been, that's obtrusive that she substitute into the two no longer waiting on the time...or did no longer choose for to with you. If she substitute into cheating on you, or being untrue...that's good which you found out now and did no longer marry her. learn from the adventure, and detect a large lady wo would be waiting for you.
2016-10-10 07:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The porn isn't a make-or-break offense, the empty condom wrapper is. He had someone else in there. Don't fall for his lies.
2007-09-10 08:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋