Family & Relationships - 29 November 2007

This girl keeps calling me all the time. Yesterday she called about 8 times and I didn't pick up. Then I had enough of it and picked up the phone and asked her what she wanted, when she said, "Oh I though today was monday, nevermind I will talk to you later then." WTF is up with this girl? she calls for no reason every day

2007-11-29 18:12:05 · 6 answers · asked by Bella N 1 in Singles & Dating

I emphazise the word "how" because I want to know what he does to show he loves so.

1 what profession are you both in?
2 how long did you date prior to marriage?
3 first marriage?
4 how old when married?
5 how many years married?
6 happily married?

Thank you

Disclaimer: I will not accept insults towards me or my question. Please be an adult about this. This question may not be for everyone.

2007-11-29 18:11:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have not been asked out in about 16 years. (minus online dating). I want to meet a nice man naturally. What about truck stops or diner cafes located off interstate highways? Any single men on the road might want some company? Or, do they want to eat and be left alone? Should I get dressed up and go inside one? What do you think?

2007-11-29 18:11:23 · 22 answers · asked by LAgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-29 18:11:16 · 2 answers · asked by genalyn c 1 in Family

is it an Ahole if my 40 year old brother is staying with my mom, and I called and he said " call her back " all rude and hung up on me?

2007-11-29 18:10:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm the first born in a family of three children,my daddy doesn't trust me,doesn't give me priorities,in short we live miserable as if he's not my daddy,but my mum knows me very well,she trust me,she listens me as well as trusting me,so what can i do with this type of a father????

2007-11-29 18:07:41 · 10 answers · asked by Domino 2 in Family

My husband is a professor in a university and that's how we got married, I was a graduate student and he was an assistant professor (we had a *little* age difference).

Now Im having problems with his female students constantly having crushes on him (I did once!) but they all know he's married and I'm pregnant with twins, walking in university all the time with my baby bump (I work there too).
I know I shouldn't bother, but I can't help and they're even discussing how hot he is on some internet boards and we keep getting anonymous emails to his academic address saying they have a crush on him.

I just find it mean to myself, and they know I used to be a student when we hooked up...so they're just gossiping about it.

What do I do? How do I let go? Is this being too sensitive because I'm pregnant?

2007-11-29 18:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not sure whats going on, i was engaged and recently got married, and every since my husband got back from deployment i feel like im not worth anything, and that he can do better then me, and when i see other girls that are prettier then me that he knows or used to talk to, i think i wonder if he thinks about how different it oculd have been, or if he wished i would look like that..i think so negative about EVERYTHING when it comes to me and him, not about our relationship but about how he feels about me...how can i fix it? its overwhelming.

2007-11-29 18:06:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering if anyone could give me an idea of what life is like as the wife of a marine living on a marine base?

2007-11-29 18:00:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong to watch movies that talk about sex, masturbation and all that sexual stuff (Or even swear words) - even though you already know about all of it? You know that people have sex and what "sex" is - so is it ok to be watching people talk abour and/or have sex? (just like sex sceens in movies).

This has been on my mind lately - please answer. Thanks

2007-11-29 17:59:05 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Be specific and explain your position for 10 points.

2007-11-29 17:57:52 · 13 answers · asked by Dan in Real Life 6 in Singles & Dating

see,
we dont talk at all.
and i miss and love him.
i am trying to take advice and become friends again..
but i dont know how or what to say.
i am worried that he will be rude and say no.
or yet, ignore it.
i dont want to come off annoying.
<333

2007-11-29 17:57:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where your mom found out you're on birth control?
how did she find out?
how did you feel?
did you ever recover from feeling so bad?

2007-11-29 17:56:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is such a weird question, but sometimes I feel as if I have to pass gas during sex but I hold it because I don't want to spoil the mood or gross my husband out.

2007-11-29 17:56:22 · 28 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal for the man to gain quite a bit weight after and during marriage? I am 5'7 and 220lbs. before I got married I use to be 165lbs. and muscular.

2007-11-29 17:55:06 · 14 answers · asked by john r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated for 6 mo. a man I love deeply.In the beginning however I had a hard time to feel attracted to him. I'd been two years without a relationship and could'nt let go. He wanted to have sex often, I didn't and avoided situations that could lead to sex.So much so that we had very rarely sex The situation started to degrade to the point he could not make love to me anymore.I've my share of responsability, I have never initiated sex nor made him feel desirable.Yesterday he told me that he wanted to end our relationship, that he loves me more than he ever did anyone else, that we have great times together but that he doesn't feel attracted to me anymore (in the beginning he was mad about me), that just the thought of having to sleep with me makes him uneasy. He can't see a solution to that. I love him so much and was warming up to him lately but too late. I really love this man and know that we could be great together if I could recover my "sexual self" Can I try to have him back? how?

2007-11-29 17:51:44 · 12 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-29 17:51:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I' am going through what i want to call concensual break up with my girl, I dont know if im being unrational and making a big mistake, my problem is that i think she's too parenthood oriented in other words too close to her parents and sister that she forgets that I exist, were not doing good intimately either, I blame that she's still young by the way she is 21 and that she has someother goals in her mind rather than to make life with me on our first break up, I though she was stressed out for working and helping me out with the bills, but to a point i was understanding, but i dont get why she did not put the same effort on our relationship than she did with her parents and relatives????? the first time we broke up she claimed i didnt understanded her, now its me who took the step she confessed she wasn't really happy and that she had other goals but that she felt in debt with me????help please.thanx

2007-11-29 17:50:52 · 26 answers · asked by angel81 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We are 14 years difference in age, me being older. My brother is an alcoholic, and he lies to our 78 almost 79 year old Dad and my dad believes him and not me. It dosen't help that we have two sisters a year apart in age which makes one 7 years younger than me, and one 8 yrs., younger putting my brother and I, a 14 year difference in ages. My question is............how do I get my brother to stop lying and my younger sisters to stop defending him, and listen to me ????

2007-11-29 17:49:44 · 12 answers · asked by Cindy A 2 in Family

Im a female by the way!

2007-11-29 17:49:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is concerning the state of IL.

2007-11-29 17:46:54 · 5 answers · asked by bashar m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me so I turned him in to police because I knew he had outstanding warrants. They were pretty serious charges so he'll be in prison for a while.

Does that make me a bad person? I mean come on! He's the one who broke the law, right?

2007-11-29 17:46:24 · 22 answers · asked by Aileara 3 in Singles & Dating

Men: Do liars make better wives?

Are liars more likely to have a successful married life as compared to others? Are you turned on by liars?

2007-11-29 17:46:14 · 15 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that I really like and we have been great friends since 2nd grade, and we are now in highschool. I have always had a bit of a crush on him, and every once in a while, we had moments when we became more than just friends. Not sex or anything, but just cute little dates and such. Sometimes though, he just hangs out with his other friends at school, including other girls, and flirts with them. I kinda glance from a far, and every once in a while he looks over at me. He is the most popular guy at school though, and he always has girls falling all over him, which is another problem. A couple years back, on Valentines Day, he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I said no, because he had asked some other people out, and had been kidding, and I thought he was kidding with me. He seemed like he was hurt, and tried asking me several other times but I said no. I have a feeling we will always be really close. Do you think we were ment to be?

2007-11-29 17:45:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you think my baby daddy still has feelings for me if he buys me stuff for valetines christmas mothers day birthday etc. but he partys all the time says he has girls girlfriends etc just a real parting type person.oh by the wayhe takes care of his child she is very very spoiled .

2007-11-29 17:43:38 · 10 answers · asked by bmtaylo 2 in Singles & Dating

when we were together he would always say that he loves me and would hold me extra tight. sometimes we were both just doing our thing. he says he still loves me and for the most part does the same things sexually but he does not want to be acouple again?

2007-11-29 17:43:31 · 18 answers · asked by cupcake26 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok theres this guy who i dont like at all but he likes me. well he ALWAYS hits me. like last month we played soccer for PE, i was never in his way but he would randomly come up to me and shove me really hard. i would just ignore him. he always pushes me and smacks me. I am a really shy girl so today everyone was shocked when i cussed him out lol. ok so in PE tday we were playing tennis. and he would hit the ball with his racket right infront on me so he could purposly hit me with the ball it hit my stomach so hard my stomach hurt and felt weird for like 10 minutes. i just gave him a dirty look, then he continued trying to hit me. He almost hit my face with the ball but it went passed me and i felt the ball go pass my hair. thats when i lost it i went up to his face [i'm short, hes like 6'2 lol] and i said "you really REALLY need to stop hitting me, i don't think its funny at all" he just continued smiling and giggling so thats when i cussed him out sooo bad lol. he wasnt laughing anymore he took my seriously and walked away because he got embarrassed. well anyway should i complain about him? when he threw that ball at my stomach it wasnt soft he threw it hard.

2007-11-29 17:41:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-29 17:41:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 32 year old husband just told me that he put in a classified add to trade his awsome snowmibile for a...HOT TUB!! What does this mean?

2007-11-29 17:40:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you make decisions that require input; who's opinion weighs more: your family or friends?

2007-11-29 17:33:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating