Is it wrong to watch movies that talk about sex, masturbation and all that sexual stuff (Or even swear words) - even though you already know about all of it? You know that people have sex and what "sex" is - so is it ok to be watching people talk abour and/or have sex? (just like sex sceens in movies).
This has been on my mind lately - please answer. Thanks
2007-11-29 17:59:05 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may be cute but you do not seem clueless to me. This is a very good question and by the disparity of answers I would say a lot of people are clueless.
Rather than right or wrong try to think in terms of good or bad or perhaps healthy or unhealthy.
Sex is a natural thing. It is pleasurable but is far more than that. There are very powerful emotions and life long consequences involved in sexual activity. Yet movies today treat it as a harmless pastime or even portray promiscuity as healthy behavior. In fact, Hollywood is so obsessed with it that it often includes racy sex scenes in movies that don't even need them.
A lot of people have lost their way. To me they are not as bright as you are. You still can sense that this is not right. You are correct. Sex is a powerful force. It is nothing to trifle with.
Once you know about sex and how it works you do not need to obsess about it as so many people do. You are correct. Everyone should spend a lot more time examining the consequences of casual sex, the impact of loveless sex on your self esteem, the appropriate context and inappropriate context for sexual expression.
Sex is natural. So is killing, vengeance, lying etc. That does not mean there is no limit on it. Eating is natural, eating everything edible is not good, though. Eating to excess is not good either. Avoiding sex completely may not be very healthy but it should be used as an expression of love in a committed relationship and any resulting pregnancy a wanted pregnancy.
There. It didn't take thousands of hours of film of naked people to figure out now did it?
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2007-11-29 18:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just knowing about sex does not make it okay to watch other people have sex, or simulate it in movies. This is an incredibly personal act, one that should be kept sacred between two people, a husband and a wife. In our day, just like in every age but moreso now with the advent of TV and the Internet, sex has become a joke. It's no joke, though. It is a very serious issue and should always be treated that way.
2007-11-30 02:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by Paper Mage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a part of life.. It's not a bad thing.. So is it wrong? No I don't think so.. Society and religion I think would like us to think it's wrong or a sin.. But I don't see how it can be since it's a very important part of almost every ones lives.. It's not a sin.. The bible even talks about it (Songs of Solomon). Sex might be a private thing between two people but there is nothing wrong or sinful about it..
2007-11-30 02:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it doesn't turn into a bad habit that becomes an obsession and takes control of your life. If it's a once in awhile occurrence or diversion then so what? But, like most anything else, if you are doing it more and enjoying it less then you better watch out and hope you have the good sense and will power to kick it out of your life.
2007-11-30 02:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowledge is what make us think right or wrong. If you think something wrong it may not be wrong for others. Only you have to justify your answer in the proper way. In each part of our life we learn to proceed further steps. So we need to learn before we proceed for them in future. Hence it should not be wrong on watching any movie, as you can learn something from them also. As you are watching movies of Science and fiction, Comedy, Tragedy it is just one of them. So feel free to go for it.
However don't indulge in the acts or think of doing them illegally. Because sex is a part of life and it should be done care fully when right time arrives .
2007-11-30 02:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by dinu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why it is wrong?
Everything you have particularized are absolutely normal and natural!
Sex - everybody do it! If they don't mankind would vanish.
Masturbation - everybody do it! Absolutely everybody! That's normal behavior for the teens, because they have a lot of sexual energy (because of their age - that's nature, you can't fight it:)) but they don't have another way to let this energy out.
So what's wrong in discussing all of it?
On the contrary, it's wrong to suppress your sexuality, this may cause mental deviance and we'll get a new Chekotila (sexual maniac)
2007-11-30 02:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Leonid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be simple to suggest but if movies/tv shows have those subjects within them, I would say that it is only up to you to see if it is "wrong" or not. If watching such shows does not bother or insult you or your beliefs, then watch them. But if they make you uncomfortable, I would suggest straying away from such material.
You know how you feel inside and what you believe. Do not allow others to help you stray away from what you are. Sometimes going with your gut instinct is not always a bad thing.
2007-11-30 02:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by IdleMind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok. I mean, you could be watching a movie and certainly strike up a conversation about a sexual position and stuff. Trust me, curiousity is completely normal. There have been numerous times I leaned over to my friend and asked her "You ever done that?".
2007-11-30 02:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. It's just not a positive thing to fill your brain with. Masturbation is disgusting and wrong. Sex is beautiful unless ruined in pornos, dirty movies, etc. Jesus would not do that with His time or mind!
2007-11-30 02:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How could it possibly be wrong?
Sex is not a thing that is morally wrong, it can't be wrong. It's an act, an act cannot be wrong in itsself, it is people who make things 'wrong'.
Don't fall into the stupid person's trap of thinking that sex is a negative dirty or bad thing.
2007-11-30 02:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by myleslr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋