Family & Relationships - 29 November 2007

2007-11-29 17:32:51 · 12 answers · asked by laysia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

6 years ago in our town they was a fire in a stable.
A horse was killed and another one put to sleep the stable was destroyed and a motor home too.
At the time i liked playing with matches and was blamed for it.
I got sent away for two years,that summer my father died and the family said it was the stress i put on him and in effect i had as good has killed him.
I never lit that fire no one believed me.

My sister a week ago admitted to me it was her.
She did it because i was more popular then her with out nan this was the reason she gave and she knew i would be blamed.

My family still are not right with me i still get funny looks in the street 6 years on i lost 2 years off my life and my father died thinking i was a fire bug.

i do not know what to do and i feel numb.
my sister was 12 at the time and says she did not thing all what went on to me would of,like that makes it ok.

i feel nothing it is weird about her and what she told me is this right?

2007-11-29 17:25:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have 3 sisters
1.26
2.21
3.18
26 year old one lives right next door to me.
My 21 year old one lives a block away from me
18 year old one live in NC. with her ******' husband (i dont like him,but i learning too.):)
My 18 year old dosen't call me and it hurts me soo much..!
My 21 year old one won't even spend a cupole of mins. with me which really sucks
26 year old barely spends time with me.
My parents they just yell and scream at me well they tell not to be like my sisters and i'm acting like the worst one which is the 18 year old,which i'm not. But it seem they're just hurting me every single dam day..!

2007-11-29 17:23:09 · 5 answers · asked by ~*i'm a lover not a hater*~ 2 in Family

My friend and I will be on the phone sometimes and she'll get a text from one of her friends and then every once in awhile our conversation is interrupted because she decides to text back. Am I wrong to think this is rude IF she does it one to many times? I hate it when i'm talking and I have to stop because she is texting and texting!

2007-11-29 17:17:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-29 17:16:03 · 11 answers · asked by JARIN H 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been in arelation for 4years we love each other alot but due to his parent we break up because we different from caste,religion,he said he love but he cannt marry me but when i try to avoid his call he cant bear that.what should i do shall i wait him will he come back or moved forward to life please advised me icnt decide because ilove him alot n cnt forget,

2007-11-29 17:01:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a long time boyfriend, for about 4 1/2 almost 5 years now. my parents, being the nice people they are, have accepted him into their home and he's been living with us for the past few years. his dad does have a house right down the street also, but he would rather spend the nights with me. my problem is that he's very bad with money. we decided to move out and get our own apartment, but he hasn't saved any money. he'll get his paycheck and blow it that day on drinking and partying. sometimes he'll drink for two days strait. now i'm feeling like i should just move out without him. i could afford it myself, i just got a promotion and already have enough saved. but i know he'll end up spending nights with me anyways and not having to pay rent. basicly, i want to still date him, but him not to depend on me. how do i go from living with him to casually dating again? i already know he will not offer rent money if he stays w/me. please don't say break up w/him, i want a solution.

2007-11-29 16:55:53 · 8 answers · asked by Bitterly Sweet 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm very confused. i love my husband but he doesn't seem to love me as he hasn't cared for me or my daughters. He went into military and forgot us i have had several chances to cheat I really think he has because he went to strip clubs hotel rooms. It was on his bank statement. he is always yelling at me on the phone since he got back into town. He wants me to meet him tonight but i'm afraid because i don't know him anymore. He's been really demanding and mean lately! but i love our daughter and don't want a divorce but i can't be with someone that doesn't love me back? i shouldn't even be talking to him right?

2007-11-29 16:49:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-29 16:46:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was"dating" a guy and after a week I went over to his house under the impression that we were gonna watch tv and talk.
I get to his "Mom's house" and he invites me down to a filthy basement with mice running around, and a dirty little bed.He expected me to have sex right there. He was giving me all types of reasons as to why I should sleep with him.

2007-11-29 16:43:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have just broke up with my 1 and half year relationship with my BF last august. 30 and i think its already 3 months after our break up and i think i have already moved on ,if i ever get a chance it is still right to have another relationship even its already 3 months after we broke up?

2007-11-29 16:42:56 · 25 answers · asked by Honey 1 in Singles & Dating

I was really into this guy and then he ran away from everyone and ignored the planet for about a week. In that week I met another guy and we did our thing. Then I had a nice run-in with guy 1. We talked out our issue and agreed to try things again even with a rough start. So I told guy 2 what the deal was. He accepted and continued to hang out. Then the following morning, guy 2 went to work and I was left alone with my original man. We had another major conflict. Same subject. We communicate in different ways. Can't deal with things on the same level. I noticed that it would never work. He is everything that I cannot put up with. Chilled till guy 2 got off work. He came over and I left with him. Had short conversation. I realize that I made the wrong decision. How do you patch that up without the trail of bullshit. What can I do to make it fade away...forgive and forget...you feel me?

2007-11-29 16:40:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-29 16:39:20 · 25 answers · asked by showstopper18 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hokay so.... theres this girl that quite frankly, i believe i love. cant stop thinking about her and she is, at this time in my life, one of the few things that can actually make me smile. i am a sophomore in highschool and she is a junior. at the beginning of the school year, i had known her for a year and i liked her during the previous year but i made no attempt to get closer. this year that has changed and i am doing everything in my ability to get to the point where i can ask her out. after about three months of getting closer to her i asked my best freind (he had been friends with her since he was young) out of desperation, to call her up, ask if she thought i liked her and what she thought of me (he pretended he had no idea). she said she thought i did like her and that at that time she only liked me as a friend. now, a month later, i have been talking to her pretty much every day. both in person (on the bus everyday) and on aim. she has been opening up much more to me and every once in a while she will bring up the fact that she thinks that she is fat. now, i know that this is a big load of bull so i always just explain to her why she isn't and i just try and comfort her. recently on the bus she has seemed to become much more shy. i normally have to keep the conversation going, but recently it has been like pulling teeth, not to mention that i am shy on my own and find it extremely difficult to do it in the first place. when i get off the bus and i say bye, she says bye as well but on her face is a look of either disappointment or something else, i cant tell. keep in mind though, i have still been talking to her on aim with little difficulty pretty much every day. now i have no idea what she feels about me. whats going on in her head and whats going on?

2007-11-29 16:38:12 · 1 answers · asked by patton 1 in Singles & Dating

He said that he doesn't want to pay child support and that he probably isn't going to sign the birth certificate for that reason... He also said that he isn't ready to be a father... But then again when its just me and him he acts like he wants to be there and help raise the child... He told me just the other day that he was afraid of getting attached to the baby...

2007-11-29 16:27:51 · 10 answers · asked by mrcuddles_4life 1 in Family

me i am a flight attendant and working in an airline.... how about you?

2007-11-29 16:23:27 · 44 answers · asked by Honey 1 in Singles & Dating

my recent one was when i was texting my guy friend...i wrote a message to him, that masioned the guy that i like....and guess what.......I ACXEDANTLY SEND IT TO THE GUY I LIKE!!!!! i was sooooo emmberessed.....and then he texted back and he was like...hey. what? and i explained and he was like ha ha lol thats ok. =) how was your thanks giving?

2007-11-29 16:23:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-29 16:22:05 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Basically, my mom tells me that she knows that she will never have any relationship with me. that i hate talking to her and don't want to be around her. that she doesn't understand why i get along better with my dad and that she's not going to try to continue to talk to me or basically acknowledge my presence around her anymore.

This all kinda took me off guard. she was pretty much putting words in my mouth and when i tried to explain myself she refused to see things from my point of view.
what i was trying to tell her when she was yelling at me about this stuff is that when she does talk to me it is always in a nagging way (doing homework, college apps, and that stuff). so when she does this i usually get upset and leave because she basically yells at me when i come out of my room for not working harder.

My dad on the other hand treats me like a person and not like some sort of child prodigy (which i am far from but ya you get the point).

2007-11-29 16:17:24 · 13 answers · asked by ColorfulFireflies 2 in Family

its the inverse...:)

2007-11-29 16:16:32 · 23 answers · asked by Honey 1 in Singles & Dating

1- why we love the some despite we know him ununderstand or estimate this love ?
2- what enigma? for tears dip from eye already cry nights for love and the sweetheart he show different eyes ?
3- what enigma? the love at
the faithfulness and sacrifice faithfulness to sweetheart and him not understand that .

2007-11-29 16:15:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so my friend Katrina is getting married. I call her my little sister and we have known eachother for a long time. She has a son that is 11 days younger than my son. Katrina is 20 and her fiancee is 19. They are living with his parents. I wasn't invited to be in the wedding, and got a verbal invitation since she says she had limited money to spend. I don't think she has a wedding registry anywhere and I have no clue what to get her for her wedding. Does anyone have any ideas??

2007-11-29 16:08:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so yeah im dating this one guy and one of my best friend which is a guy came up to me and said that he really liked me. and i was shocked. and yeah i kind of like him. but im already dating someone. so what do i do?

2007-11-29 16:06:42 · 30 answers · asked by sportgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

we live in a mountainy area so the wedding & reception probably wont be held at or near the beach

2007-11-29 15:58:02 · 10 answers · asked by babygirl100405 4 in Weddings

i love him so much!!!!

2007-11-29 15:56:05 · 29 answers · asked by mandie_barker2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok there are these two kids i lnow and work with .they are both brothers.one a little older than me (18) and the other one the same age as me (17).well we all get along,but i have been away from other kids my age for many years now hat it is hard for me to know what to do to have fun.my parents haven't been able to afford or had the time to sign us up for any sports or anything like that(oh i am homeschooled).let me tell you my stepmom won't do anything for anyone but herself.enough of that,the problem i am having is that i live in a small town where there is nothing to do for fun.the nearest city is 20 min away.so we hung out the other day and i'm sure it went well we had lots of fun,but now i seem to have lost my nerve to ask them if they want to hang out again.mostly because i can't drive yet (only 4 months to go) and don't want them to think i am using them, which i am not.it is just placing me in a complicated position.another reason is that i don't want to come off to strong.

2007-11-29 15:55:47 · 3 answers · asked by California resident 2 in Friends

I am not going to stop smoking and I am not going to stop dating my bf, so how do I make this work, and be fair to him?
I want the best of both worlds, lol

2007-11-29 15:46:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the girl she likes says that it is wrong to like another girl, but my friends(the lesbian) says that there is no rules to stop her from being lesbian. +who should i 'surport'?

2007-11-29 15:45:39 · 47 answers · asked by li.ace.anne 2 in Friends

okay there a guy that i really like alot and anyways he knows that and were like best friends but i dont understaned 1 min he'll be all over me the next min he'll act like he hates me!! he liked me back at 1 time but he had a gf at the time well they broke up and told his friend he was going to ask me out but then today he said yes to another girl! im heart-broken! what shall i do should i just shrug it off or should i forget bout him and how?? is he really worth my time cuz im sick of him breaking my heart over and over again! Is he trying to make me jealous?? please answer thanx!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-29 15:44:35 · 1 answers · asked by ☆Lola Jade☆ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-29 15:44:16 · 18 answers · asked by 4wheeler nut 4 in Family