i love him so much!!!!
2007-11-29 15:56:05 · 29 answers · asked by mandie_barker2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we have been together for 13 years and married for 6 years on dec14th
2007-11-29 16:12:31 · update #1
ok i'm letting him read these answers now!!!
cuz he is here and i love him so much
2007-11-29 16:16:04 · update #2
Fortunately for you I am a man, a married man of 9 years and the simple truth is we men are very simple. To really "tell" us you love us do the following. 1. Primp yourself up, makeup, hair, clothes and all, a man loves it when his woman does herself up just for him. As a man I love it when my wife goes the extra mile to look outstanding. She is always beautiful in my eyes but I want other men to envy me. Yeah, it's selfish, I know. 2. The way to a mans heart is through his stomach so make the best meal he loves but not too often, or take him to his favorite restaurant (you don't have to cook or clean for this option, BONUS!) and 3. sex us like you did when we were dating. I know, it's hard. The back seat don't feel like it used too and the low cost motel seems dirty but be the same woman you were back then and we will really "feel" the love you have for us.
2007-11-29 16:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by badbender001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me And My Hubby Have Been Together For 11 Years But In Dec30 Going To Be 7 Years Married What I Do I Like To Wright Little Letters And Just Put Them Where HE Might See Them And Always Tell Him How Much You Love Him And Make LOVE Not Sex And Enjoy Each Other Every Day Just Like The First Time You Meet:}
2007-11-29 16:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by I am finaly PREGNANT after 9yrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is already so much good advice here but I'll add my 2 cents worth. I feel as you do, about my husband. He's had a tough year and I make an extra point of letting him know everyday how much I love him. I tell him, I surprise him sometimes, I show it in the little, everyday details of life. And sex is also a good way to go...get naked for him, draw a bubble bath you can share, and just have a little bathroom "date"--they seem to love that!
2007-11-29 16:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by *s*t*a*r* *d*u*s*t* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to create a list of things that he would like for you to do for him. These need to be things that can be done immediately...not something that will take a long time like cleaning the entire house from top to bottom....but, "I would really love it if you cleaned up all your cosmetics from the bathroom counter before I go in there to shower."
His list of things will allow you to show him multiple times throughout your marriage how much you love and appreciate him. No guesswork is involved, and you know he'll LOVE it!
2007-11-29 16:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well play little games that is flirting with him live a little card that is like a sex coupons 4 him trow out the house and have that last one say i this is good 4 1 time to show how much i love u and live a few of them around the house so he has to look 4 them but keep the last one 4 last and it work good most of the times
2007-11-29 16:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by whhs2009 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you tell him every day in the way you act toward him, some times it is better to not hear that your spouse loves you, but to know that they do in the way they act to you, the loving things that he does for you, or you do for him, will show that you love him, chances are he does know how much you love him, i mean, he asked you to marry him, he knows you are special out of all the other women in the world, he asked you!!! Just show him and stand by him and you wont have to say the words, because he will see how much , he most likely already sees it, but guys don't always talk about love alot.
2007-11-29 16:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by msbalisong 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make a quiet candle light dinner at home followed by a shower together and curling up on the couch to watch a romantic movie.
2007-11-29 16:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by HiThere 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would think by getting married it shows how much you love someone...
But you can always do something romantic for him to bring back the sparks.
Like cook him a special dinner or just tell him how much you love him.
2007-11-29 15:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by J 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yea,tell him everyday and show him how much you care.Spend more time in the bed room with him,cuddling and hugging each other,but you do more...and you could also prepare some good breakfast,lunch,or dinner....Give him sweet and gentle kisses everyday ....That should be enough to show......
2007-11-29 16:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him. You can show him by doing special things for him. Cook him his favorite dinner. Wear your sexiest nighty that he just loves. Do the intimate stuff that he loves the most to him. If he cannot get the hint that you are head over heals about him then he is clueless.
2007-11-29 15:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋