I was really into this guy and then he ran away from everyone and ignored the planet for about a week. In that week I met another guy and we did our thing. Then I had a nice run-in with guy 1. We talked out our issue and agreed to try things again even with a rough start. So I told guy 2 what the deal was. He accepted and continued to hang out. Then the following morning, guy 2 went to work and I was left alone with my original man. We had another major conflict. Same subject. We communicate in different ways. Can't deal with things on the same level. I noticed that it would never work. He is everything that I cannot put up with. Chilled till guy 2 got off work. He came over and I left with him. Had short conversation. I realize that I made the wrong decision. How do you patch that up without the trail of bullshit. What can I do to make it fade away...forgive and forget...you feel me?
2007-11-29 16:40:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I realized that guy 1 was a big mistake, it wasn't just a realization. It was more of an epiphany. Like, woah...I was so niave. He is horrible, what did I see there?! And when I walked out the door with guy 2 and said that it was left there to die, I meant it. And I feel that way as well. It just evaporated...poof! I want to set everything right with guy 2. I have to have a damn good plan too. I don't want him to have those thoughts of my evilness...
2007-11-29 16:43:27 · update #1
Walk away from both, spend some time on your own. Tell each of them (if they call) that you need to get yourself together.
My personal suggestion? Take a couple walks alone or with a close friend (not associated with either guy) somewhere that nature exists, either a big city park or out in the hills somewhere. Just let your mind wander - the right answer comes at times like this.
Good luck to you, remember that as much as being with the right person can open some doors you wish to travel through, it's you that'll be guiding your own travel, so look to yourself first.
2007-11-29 16:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best bet would be to simply be honest and tell the guy from the heart on how you feel completely about him and that in hope he will realise and accept you for the person you are and always learn from your past mistakes and maybe next time a situation of some sort arrises take and extra few minutes or however long you need to think thing thru and always weigh your pros and cons.
2007-11-30 00:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by james_genero1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if I was guy 2 I wouldn't care and still be cool with you.... but since I've been guy 2 in many situations for way to long I would just say F you for going with me after you saw the first one didn't work. But if this guy is like me he woudn't say it and just take you back like nothing happen. Being there for people is a *****, but it's a gift and a curse
2007-11-30 00:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by enano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I respectfully suggest that there is far too much drama in your life? You need to think more carefully about your decisions. If you do that, you won't be making mistakes that you have so much difficulty dealing with.
My advice: slow down and think things through.
2007-11-30 00:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by jotacar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are confused. I would try to take a break from both of them and collect your thoughts and feelings. If you keep acting on whim there will be no forgive and forget. Take it from me... I'm the queen of sporadic.
2007-11-30 00:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask guy 2 to forgive you.
Isnt that what you want? Tell him guy one is kapoot and you want him. Easy.
2007-11-30 00:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by layyy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Growing up sucks don't it.
2007-11-30 00:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋