Family & Relationships - 29 November 2007

OK, there is this one guy who is my classmate and he's been really friendly to me. My boyfriend is very jealous and they had some arguments and things don't seem to be going in a good direction.

This guy told me he doesn't want anything with me and he said he explained that to my boyfriend, and as a matter of fact, I did that too, I told him we were just friends. But apparently my boyfriend doesn't feel that way and they seem to be about to fight. I just want to keep myself neutral and I don't want them to hurt each other. What should I do?

2007-11-29 15:38:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-29 15:36:28 · 32 answers · asked by J girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wonder if my husband will cheat on me eventually because word on the street is no man can be with just one woman forever...is this true or what?

2007-11-29 15:35:22 · 17 answers · asked by estachicalatina :) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am at home allot and been gettin to no the nehbors allot better becous I started the nehborhood watch program. So now we are all buddy buddy and the lady next door (TRISH) has a doughter who is 13. She has been running WILD ever sinse I moved out here at a young age. The girls name is Cassiy. She is REALLY pretty and looks ilke she is aighteen. Shes really is getting wild and there is nothing her mom can do about it. Men pick her up at night time and she dosnt get back till the morning/afternoon/next day and she holds it to her mom sayin "YOU HAD ME WHEN YOU WERE 12 SO YOU SHOULDNT BE TALKING" She came to me caus I am understanding and not judjmental at all wich is one really good thing about me. She told me the other day that she has an STD and her private is burning. She was crying and now I think she feels bad for her reactions? Why is she rebelling like this???? Plus she says she has ben with allot of men that are over 18 and she dosnt remember the last time she had a period.

2007-11-29 15:31:23 · 4 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Family

okay well i'm a girl
and i have one of my "girlfriends" that i really want to get to know me better
i've known her for 3 years now but its hard to talk to her and she never calls me back and its hard.
maybe i'm jealous ?
Helppppppppp :]

2007-11-29 15:28:47 · 4 answers · asked by redneck49 1 in Friends

My sister-in-law’s family insisted my brother become Catholic before marrying. She did not attend church whereas my brother did. She insisted that being the wife, it was more important to appease her parents. Our parents did not want to add stress and therefore said nothing.
Now their son is marrying and his fiancée’s parents want him to follow their religion. My sister-in-law in livid and feels this is not right.
I cannot imagine she sees no connection or twist of fate here (she is very well educated), so how can someone be such a hypocrite and have the nerve to complain to the very people he/she did the same thing to previously?

2007-11-29 15:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by Traveler 4 in Family

Most women seem to like having their neck bitten, hair lightly pulled, beiing moved around, having their neck smelled, and having their ear lobes nibbled on a little with a little licking as well. What are some other things that are good turn ons?

2007-11-29 15:23:09 · 4 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7months. We are both in 30s and we are both divorced with no kids. We both want to get married if our relationship grows and find out if we are right for each other. We don't know if we are right for each other yet but we like each other very much. I introduce him to my family and my parents don't think he is right for me due to uncertainty of financial future of my boyfriend. (He works but he is not financially stable.) My parents expressed their feelings in a nice way and encouraging me to date other potential people. Honestly, I like him very much but what my parents are saying also makes sense. He has been very cautious in our relationship due to past divorce, doesn't open up with me in deep level and it feels he's distant or hegitant to make our relationship go forward. After meeting my parents, he was in shock and now he wants time to think. What does this mean?

2007-11-29 15:22:49 · 39 answers · asked by whattodo898 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-29 15:21:59 · 3 answers · asked by A 2 in Family

when i talk to someone my crush always gives me quick glances like she is listening to me. she also accidently touched my hand when i was holding a door open. were 18 she is not shy at all but usually completely ignores me i do her to b/c im to nervous

2007-11-29 15:20:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What if it's the reverse?

2007-11-29 15:19:38 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean you are focused and listening and enthusiastically participating and caring about her day?

2007-11-29 15:19:05 · 5 answers · asked by Contemplative 6 in Marriage & Divorce

the day after to a week after thanksgiving.
ya that's my birthday.
i have never had a party ,
even when i was young
it falls to close to holiday trips
people are always out of town
or it is just not a good time.
so to you out there that lose your special day
to the holiday sprite
how do you recapture your day?

2007-11-29 15:16:52 · 6 answers · asked by mkst 3 in Family

Okay so me and my friend have been getting along well, not so great since we started going to different schools.
I think if we could hang out more like we used to we could become as close as we used to be.
And anyway, she's having her quince soon, she's not having like the damas and stuff. And I was wondering if you think it would be a good idea to throw her some kind of pre-party thing. Just a few close girlfriends with like, maybe a spa day?
I don't know, it just sounds fun and we never get to hang out together anymore.

2007-11-29 15:15:01 · 5 answers · asked by Morgan 2 in Friends

My live in boyfriend and I got in an argument today while we were at work. He says that it seems like we aren't even a couple that we are more like roommates. I do a lot around the house while he watches the baby by the time it's time for bed I'm done! Our sex life hasnt been the same since Alejandro came along nearly 11 months ago. He is having a hard time with that, which I dont blame him one bit. I still find my man attractive and sexy and the times we do get naughty I totally enjoy it but its hard to bring myself to do it. So he must have been holding this in and finally let it out this morning. He even told me that I should talk to my mom about moving back in with her. That is not what I want. He thinks he knows what I feel which he doesnt only I know how I feel. I love him, I love my home, I love our son!!!!! Should I go home now and talk? I'm still upset though and Im sure he is too... I'm scared. I dont know what to do!!!!

I just wanna cry and hide...

2007-11-29 15:13:23 · 16 answers · asked by 90304 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and i we had an excellen relationship in the beginning. The most expensive restaurants, clothes, cell phones, were some of the things that he made sure i was accustomed to. But it wasnt about that. Our sexual chemistry was amazing. If we weren't at work we were together. Anyway we got pregnant and then he and i couldn't get along. Turns out he was cheating. when we were able to talk with yelling he finally admitted that he messed up what we had because he was afraid about the baby situation. but he never hesitated to by everything the baby needed broken up or not. we tried it again and it didnt work out. but we still are friends. he has his own home but he pays half my rent, all of the utilities, takes our baby to school every morning, takes me to work if i need him to. comes to kill spiders in the middle of the night, still gets me christmas gifts,renewed our phone contract so he still pays my cell bill. but he still cheated and left me while pregnant?wuzup wit him?

2007-11-29 15:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by cupcake26 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 30 yrs. old, and my scope of careers are narrowing. I want to make a career in something I love. I was a US NAVY Midshipman in college going into Special Warfare, but a family member suffered major medical issues, so I dropped out. I've been living w/ my family for the past year. It sucks, I love them deeply, but untill recently I have supported myself and ex-girlfriend. I'm not looking at the Navy as a last ditch effort, but want a career I can be proud of. My family and I fight weekly about this. I have been given options to EOD or Diver training. I truely appreciate my family's support in my job search,housing, and just being there for me, but I am tired of
being the "excuse" for confrontation. After all, it was their idea for me to move back home. I know they have the best intentations for me, and I love them for that. But I supported them for years, and now that I'm in a bad spot, I get the blunt end of the stick. Please no sarcasim,only sincere advice.

2007-11-29 15:12:00 · 6 answers · asked by bravo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom called and said she would be home in 30min. and that was around 9.

Im balling my eyes out,she told me where she was,and it is alittle ways down from my house,im crying my eyes out,and im not sure what to do.They may have gone to a bar right down the street also.Should I call the bar and if they say my mom isn't there,then should I walk to down to that house.

It has been 3 hours since I've heard from her and my dad.Im really upset and scared.Please help.

2007-11-29 15:11:51 · 8 answers · asked by Bcb Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

going out one year with this guy 10 years older than me and who really do love me(i have been through a lot of things)..last night, he went to a collegue's leaving drinks and i jointed him around 9pm. my boy is the cute one in all but he is more a comedian type (i evidenced that he wasnt flirting with any girls) and he was texting me all the time until i joint him. the drinks gets heavier, there are two single girls (mid-30s) not attractive at all but who deperate seeking for intimacy (touch, cuddles) with whatever men possible. they appeared over touchy with a married guy friend of us too. at the end of the night, my bf was really really pissed, and went to say goodbye (i was in 5 meter away). one of the girls got the chance sitting on his legs and holding his head and kissing his face for 5 seconds, my bf was too drunk to react immediately seems, and he was calling me for help and telling her my gf was here.(he doesnt know neither of the women)..i was extremely unhappy. ..

2007-11-29 15:08:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

helpppp! im daating a guy ive neverr
mettt. =/. but my friends dated him
he says he loves meee and hes sweet

2007-11-29 15:07:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if someone says "nothing in life is guarenteed" and I say "Some things in life are always guarenteed" =) get it lol lool

2007-11-29 15:04:56 · 8 answers · asked by LoVe800 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there some hidden majic in those ankles? LOL!

Wait its her sent, huh shes not allowed to wear perfume so what are you smelling?
BAD SEED!

You think thats crazy, well go look around man! Lol!

2007-11-29 15:04:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-29 15:03:49 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-29 15:03:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who s a girl we,ve known eachother since elementary school.recently i got a g/f and my g/f says she isnt comfortable with me having such a close friend whos a girl. should i dump my friend? or how can i solove this problem?

2007-11-29 15:00:31 · 4 answers · asked by eric l 1 in Singles & Dating

Right now my ex-wife is living with me in a small rental apartment. She didn't have a job so I allowed her to stay here while she continued her education. She has a boyfriend and sometimes she stays the weekend with him but most of the time she sleeps in her bed beside my bed in my apartment. Now she's got a great accounting job that makes twice the money that I'm making and she's now buying her own food and paying for her own expenses but she still lives here with me. I'm moving into a nice 3-bedroom rental house and she wants to move in with me and she insists that she pays half the rent on this house. I asked what about her boyfriend? What does he think about her still living with me? She says "him, who cares!"
So its not money that she's after, its not financial support that she wants. We're not having sex so its not that either. So why does she keep wanting to stay close to me?
She told me when I get a new girl then she'll leave, until then she's my roommate. What gives?

2007-11-29 15:00:10 · 17 answers · asked by honesty_counts 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-29 14:58:44 · 20 answers · asked by softkisses4707 5 in Singles & Dating

what all do u like in a girl?

2007-11-29 14:57:31 · 7 answers · asked by peacee_loveee 1 in Singles & Dating

I'll start it off:

Taking that first cut into a fresh piece of construction paper.

2007-11-29 14:57:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The thing is I work with him and he gives me attention back and I can tell that he likes me too but I really don't want this to escalade any further.
I feel very guilty, but with each passing day I find myself more and more attracted to him.

aside from finding a new job, what else can I do ??

2007-11-29 14:56:22 · 17 answers · asked by Mariana 2 in Marriage & Divorce