My ex and i we had an excellen relationship in the beginning. The most expensive restaurants, clothes, cell phones, were some of the things that he made sure i was accustomed to. But it wasnt about that. Our sexual chemistry was amazing. If we weren't at work we were together. Anyway we got pregnant and then he and i couldn't get along. Turns out he was cheating. when we were able to talk with yelling he finally admitted that he messed up what we had because he was afraid about the baby situation. but he never hesitated to by everything the baby needed broken up or not. we tried it again and it didnt work out. but we still are friends. he has his own home but he pays half my rent, all of the utilities, takes our baby to school every morning, takes me to work if i need him to. comes to kill spiders in the middle of the night, still gets me christmas gifts,renewed our phone contract so he still pays my cell bill. but he still cheated and left me while pregnant?wuzup wit him?
2007-11-29 15:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by cupcake26 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hes sorry for what he did, he made a mistake. forgive him. he obviously loves his child, anmd cares for u or hed not be in ur life or paying the bills.
2007-11-29 15:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by renae2007_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men can not handle the fact that a wife is pregnant or won't want to get romantic for fear of hurting the baby, so he cheated. You went through changes while pregnant and those changes may have even caused the cheating. The two of you need to get some counseling together. He has been what many people would love to have in a husband but you have him so you should forgive the cheating this time since that may be the reason you don't want him back and get some counseling and you should be able to have a great future together it sounds like.
2007-11-29 23:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has the best of both worlds...why should HE change? YOu have your financial needs being met, so why should YOU change? I think you both need to reassess what you are doing in one another's lifes (except co-parenting) and what EXACTLY the other wants.
2007-11-29 23:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, he cheated once. bad for him. but he treats you so well now. he has changed. a baby is a life changing thing here, it sounds like your a little unappreciative and spoiled.
2007-11-29 23:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by -----------n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will need to grow up some more before this can work.
Good luck with your children.
2007-11-29 23:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋