Family & Relationships - 29 November 2007

I have read so many stories on these boards of women (Bridezillas) wanting this and that, and making all these unreasonable demands..NONE of my son's will marry over-bearing bossy women like that....

A wedding lasts 15 minutes....WHY does it have to be so fricking PERFECT? Get ready for a real let down, LIFE is anything but perfect....

2007-11-29 00:48:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My really good friend loves to sing and thinks she has a great voice. She doesnt. I love her to death but she kinda sounds likke a dying mule and now she wants to sing infront of our 3,000 person school. She is always asking my opinion and shes really set on singing for our WHOLE high shcool. What do I tell her?

2007-11-29 00:46:28 · 32 answers · asked by lolaaaaachica 1 in Friends

Okay so forever I have had nothing but drama with the mother of my fiancé’s “other” children. What happened was he cheated on me with this girl and got her pregnant about 4 yrs ago. I left him and then he stayed with her during that time and she got pregnant again by him. (VERY JERRY SPRINGER…I know)! Well anyway…….we got back together after awhile and began counseling and so on as we have two sons of our own and decided to make our relationship work. Since our relationship has been great….we get along great and are the best of friends. But the other women was very bitter that he came back to me and didn’t want her so she would slash my tires, break windows, call me and leave LONG CRAZY messages on my phone, try to fight me and so on. It has been wild. Well all of a sudden a couple days after her last incident of trying to get crazy with me she is all cooperative and even asked my fiancé if we could keep their girls while she went to work. Now remind you she hasn’t let him see them before this in 9 months. And now she is all “cool”. Which I am glad for….but I just wonder what are her motives and if I should keep my gaurds up b/c she is unstable and there might be something behind her coming to her senses. How should I assume this situation? Thank you.

2007-11-29 00:44:56 · 12 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter's Best friend now hates her and has all their group hating her as well... because her friend's guy likes her. My daughter has no control over who likes her. I feel really bad for my DD, she misses her friends terribly and doesn't want to go to school now.(she's in grade 8)..there has been intervention done at school due to this problem, with no resolution.
She's heartbroken and I'm having a hard time to deal with this.Do I get involved or just be there to support her?
My DD has been there (as I have) for these "friends" , I've taken one into my home when kicked out, the other practically lived here every weekend!
What's the best way for me to help daughter cope??
Thanks

2007-11-29 00:41:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my husband is really annoying ,unclean,smoker,involved with girls,escapist,he left me and my daughter alone in our home country and went abroad but when he found that it was hard for him to settle their on his own he tried to get a visa on my behalf because i m qualified now he is with me he was fine in the starting but now he again started those things

2007-11-29 00:40:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-29 00:36:37 · 22 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i have 6 children, 3 of them married and 7 grandchildren. i love giving to them, but money gets tighter and tighter every year. what do you suggest, or how do you handle giving to your extended family?

2007-11-29 00:34:34 · 23 answers · asked by flamered2003 4 in Family

How could I tell the father of my kids i like woman?

2007-11-29 00:29:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i broke up with my bf and i told him he can still see the baby but i cant hande much stress. then now he was cryin and now when we were going out he wasnt going street racing and drinking and now were over he might do that again and idk wat to do and if were not together then im going to court b.c his mother and what would you do. i didnt just break up cuz his momits him tohe bitches and lies at times bout stupid stuff so can someone help me? if i dont stop him fromracin cuz their drinkin then goin racing and he may not come back alive or at least thats what he told my best friend andhetldhis best friend he hopes he dontcome back and then he said he dont know if he should do it or show me that hes true and cares about meby not breaking the promise he made even know ere not together now. wat to do?

2007-11-29 00:28:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His and yours daughter, 19 years old?

2007-11-29 00:24:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife and i are split up. here's the deal. we constantly argued over having another child. we had 3 already. marriage wasn't going good and i said let's wait until we're back on track before we go down that road. she then had a temper tantrum, said she'd get artificially inceminated or adopt if i wouldn't have another one. she even had one with another guy out of wedlock before we met. so i know her stance on things. Two months later she tells me she's pregnant. she was and she told me that she knows what she needs to do....have an abortion. what????? i told her why don't we keep the baby. she gave me all these lame excuses as to why she didn't want it. so i ask you, after all that and her telling me she'd do whatever it takes to have another one, why did she want an abortion? I know the answer to the question logically but want to know what conclusions others draw.

2007-11-29 00:17:33 · 29 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think my brother is cheating on me with my girlfriend through texts.everytime he hides his phone away from me and whenever he leaves it, you won't find anything in it. my girlfriend has called on his number one day when i was there(without them knowing i was) and i heard him say 'sweetie". she defended herself saying my phone was off(which is true) and she was looking for me.They talked for a while. My girlfriend however denies that she contacts him.maybe i'm wrong, something tells me there's something going on. please help me. the other thing is i have a ten year difference with my girlfriend and with my brother its only 3. am i being over reactive? please help me out because i also think she loves me.

2007-11-29 00:16:43 · 37 answers · asked by flash 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in oct. on a friday. We are making a guest list to send save the date cards so they can ask off work if need be. My fiance's mom is so negative about it. She says "such and such wont show, this person has to work, etc." My mom is paying a lot of money for our ceremony site and I want the place as full as possible. It only holds 100 so we need 50 from each side. My family could fill the place but I wanted to keep it as even as possible! She acts like no one will show up to my big day! She thinks money is an issue for us and it is not! she doesnt want to invite people because we are paying $20 a person at the reception, which is fine for us! I need her help making sure that everyone is properly included but I just cant please her. Im including her in all of the wedding plans and she is very helpful and excited except when it comes to the guest list. She alsi says "well, this is a day for you and your mom!" which isnt true! I want her to be a part of it just as much!

2007-11-29 00:11:09 · 11 answers · asked by katie-bug 5 in Weddings

I was just curious. My last girlfriend didnt mind at all, she even came with me one time. I thought that was cool. But ive heard some people tell me its wrong. What do you all think?

2007-11-29 00:08:18 · 16 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 in Singles & Dating