My daughter's Best friend now hates her and has all their group hating her as well... because her friend's guy likes her. My daughter has no control over who likes her. I feel really bad for my DD, she misses her friends terribly and doesn't want to go to school now.(she's in grade 8)..there has been intervention done at school due to this problem, with no resolution.
She's heartbroken and I'm having a hard time to deal with this.Do I get involved or just be there to support her?
My DD has been there (as I have) for these "friends" , I've taken one into my home when kicked out, the other practically lived here every weekend!
What's the best way for me to help daughter cope??
Thanks
2007-11-29 00:41:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry, forgot to add the reason why I wanted to get involved, was these girls three wayed my dd the other night harrassing her, calling her names, and my youngest dd overheard it all, we are friendly with this girls parents, and wanted to let them know what was going on, and that calling my home won't be accepted, unless they have something nice to say.
I believe calling our home, where my DDs should feel safe and secure is NOT acceptable.
Anyhow maybe that won't change the responses I get...lol
Thanks to all so far!!
2007-11-29 02:16:20 · update #1
Teenagers are mean. You are doing all you can right now to help her through this. The only thing I can tell you is that it will blow over eventually and those girls will be back at your house. I went through this with my sister about 3 months ago and last month those same girls were on my front porch and running through the house like nothing ever happened.
2007-11-29 00:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 grade are really having hard times with lots of things changing, especially their bodies and emotions. Well, let this be, your daughter had to learn something and to solve her own problems.
Just wait and see what going on next, intervene only if you think the situation is out of her hand.
Anyway if these people are really that narrow minded, I don't think that they are really friends. Better get to know your opponent now, than to wait until they had done something nasty in the future.
I think she will need you at these time, and the thing she really need is you, not your advice nor intervention.
God bless you.
2007-11-29 09:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by seed of eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know but if they are going to be like that shes better off without them. Get her to join clubs and stuff like that. Hopefully she'll make new good friends. Good luck to both of you
2007-11-29 08:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her handle it.
be there to support her.
i know it's hard.
There is no reasoning with teenagers. they are so mean to each other. Hopefully they will all learn a lesson and learn to be friends.
2007-11-29 13:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by Doodles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the typical bitchy pre-teen attitude, it should resolve itself, but it might not, or might just take a loong time.
she needs new friends imo.
2007-11-29 09:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it. these things usally resolve by themselfs, they will friends again in no time
2007-11-29 08:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by just me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋