How could I tell the father of my kids i like woman?
2007-11-29 00:29:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Save him the hurt and don't tell him. That's just my opinion.
Even better.. control your urges and don't do it. You have kids and you have a commitment now! Should have thought of this when you were single.
2007-11-29 00:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by :Sheila: 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may be just a phase. I use to have the biggest crush on one of my straight friends (I'm straight) and I really thought that I wanted to be with her in that way. We stopped being friends for that reason but to this day I still think about her. It was just a crush though and would never have went anywhere. Don't risk you family's happiness for your own personal feelings. I know that's harsh but it's true. Maybe your boyfriend would like to do a 3 some. You can try it and get your fix that way without him knowing that you want to leave and and ruin your family for a woman. And from my experience men like 3 somes.
2007-11-29 09:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by jaded09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth and see how he handles it.
from a man's view that is a sexy thing for a woman to want to explore another female.
As someone had already said... suggest a threesome...
that way you'll know if you just want the experience of being with the same sex or if you're bi-sexually or even just lesbian.
as a woman that is married and have a relationship with the same sex... this is my advice
2007-11-29 08:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just want something else, but aren't looking to leave him, I think you can pretty safely test the waters by asking him if lesbians turn him on -- ever a little. Maybe rent a movie with the subject matter some you can comment on it.
There should be room for fun here without making it confrontational, so don't keep it in.
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2007-11-29 13:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what he says about a threesome, and if he'd want a woman or a man.. test the boundaries that way. You could be attracted to women and not want to have a relationship with a woman. You could even want to be sexual with a woman, but not want to build a life around one. There are many options. It depends on where you stand that way.
2007-11-29 08:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by glitter_lip_gloss 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Below are links to a lifestyle called BDSM. There you will find like-minded people.
How to tell your husband that you're a lesbian? Not a clue. Maybe somebody in the lifestyle will have some suggestions for you. Remember it's something he can use against you in a custody battle.
BTW, you have to be at least 18 to enter those web sites.
Good luck . . . and have fun!
2007-11-29 08:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by LadyBug 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its just a curiousity...just do it for you are a grown and mature adult? if it dun gte any further?
give it a try but be prepared for the unexpected emotion feelings?
2007-11-29 08:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by coffee_tea_or 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth would set u free.
2007-11-29 08:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by LipStickJunkie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its perfectly acceptable if you are female.I don't know why!
2007-11-29 08:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋