Family & Relationships - 29 November 2007

I am a very emotional girl.....i find myself getting moody/jealous or worried about the smallest things.....
examples are....my boyfriend not replying when i txt him....or him acting a little distant - i can turn that into him going off me and i can worry myself sick that its soon gunna be over...and i am losing him

I am always obsessing over what i cant have, and this makes me moody...i came back from uni this yr and dont have alot of mates in the area...id like more and i get jealous of my bf as he has a massive group of mates and they are constantly wanting to see him.....
im feeling in competition with them alot of the time,although its me making me feel like that not him...i feel my life revolves around him alot and i dont like that but i dont have alot of mates so its hard to change that.

Anyone got any advice for me, i need to snap out of it as im causing issues with my bf, and i dont want that as hes really great....i think hes the one which is why i wana sort this out!

2007-11-29 22:10:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 15. My next door neighbor (a 13 yr old boy) says "hi" to me often when he sees me. Once when I was coming home from the store- before I could climb the steps to my house- he was there and he asked "Where did you come from?" and he looked into my bag of goodies. Does that mean he likes me? (he lives next door and our houses is a duplex)

2007-11-29 22:08:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey guys i had an abdominoplasty two weeks ago evrytime i eat or drink my tummy feels tight and wont strech and even after i had a cup of tea also I'm not sure whethwer the op has worked i have also founb d out that the guy i chatted to a weeks ago and who practically isnt interested in me told me athat he and somebody else are attending a chruch blessing togethjer which means he has been telling me to go away why is it i cant find a real proper lover like cleopatra why iis it other women particualrly married womn find lovers easily . Ifeel hurt rehected and used plus having major problems with hubby now i have taken to sleeping in my daughters bed. and she is sleeping in his bed

2007-11-29 22:07:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bet most of you would understand where im coming from with this, but i need a lil help, a few months ago my bf broke up with me because he felt i wasnt clear on my career direction and broke up with me because of it. I have tried so very hard to over come this issue, and with that i have got myself a good paying job in a law firm, im not at all dependant, i have my own flat, a great car, and im buggered if i know now how to please him, i thought maybe if i got myself a decent job he would relise im not the bludger he made me out to be and would reconsider where we stand with each other, but im afraid that he will find something else that's wrong with me and i will be back in square one where i started.

Do you think i am wasting my time with him? I mean after all, all my efforts have been made to please him..

What do you think??

2007-11-29 21:56:58 · 20 answers · asked by * STAR * 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-29 21:55:31 · 7 answers · asked by Sporadic 4 in Singles & Dating

I had a huge crushed on my english teacher... yea i know its quite impossible that she'll like me back but i just couldn't stop thinking about her. I've been interested in some girls before this but none of them had made me feel this way before. She 27 and I'm 16. I liked her since i first saw her in seventh grade. I don't expect her to feel the same way, but i would love it if she gives me a little more attention and likes me a little. She doesn't seem to like me much. Recently, I've annoyed her and talked in class alot. I did this just to get her attention. What do you think i should do ??

2007-11-29 21:50:37 · 11 answers · asked by hanope_lover 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-29 21:49:57 · 21 answers · asked by BA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-29 21:42:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy we have been dating pretty heavy since we met {1month} He has done very well for himself money wise beautiful home, he collects art and so on. And me i do okay not able to have a fancy car house take fancy trips. But sometimes i am offended by certain remarks, i told him so he says i wont apologize for being who i am or what i have he says in no way are his remarks met to offend me. and i dont want him to apologize for what he has. But what i do want is to feel comfortable and feel asthough this could be something meaningful no matter what i have!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-29 21:37:21 · 6 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a 29 year old guy and am just getting over a cannabis and alchohol addiction! Im single and feel ive wasted the best years of my life, been substance abusing since 16! I look in the mirror and i used to be real cute - good looking - i just look ugly to me now! Im balding and have bags under my eyes. Ive been chatting to this 20 year old girl at a drama club ive been going to for six months, we get on great and she tells me she is looking forn a new man! She looks so beautiful and sexy but ive had no kind of relationship for 6 years! I dont know if i could date her with all my baggage! I also wonder if she could fancy me - really compared to guys her age with hair! I used to be so good-looking! Its getting to a point where i think i should ask her out - would i look like her dad?!! Or am i just making excuses because im afraid? Any advice would be much appreciated and i dont want to upset her in any way! I would love to have a girl like her, does she really want an older guy? HELP!!

2007-11-29 21:23:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the four of us are going out for the evening and i will be hanging with her husband while the ladies are doing there thing?

i have nothing to hide but will he tell her what i say to him, like say im rude to a member of the staff?

2007-11-29 21:16:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

suggesation

2007-11-29 21:14:58 · 24 answers · asked by kirti m 1 in Friends

Partner bought me white roses and i,m still mad at him.

2007-11-29 21:10:01 · 11 answers · asked by pollbee 4 in Singles & Dating

Hey you know what ? Your not the only one with a life. im done with you crap. tis all good that you are the center of your universe, good for you. but hey i dont need the headaches of being your friend anymore. in case you havent realized, i have major life issues happening right now, and there is no place for your childish games here anymore. just who do u think you are? i am not a magazine that you can do what u did and then throw away on. you obviously stll harbor feelings of resentment for me and it just wont fly anymore ( you trying seek revenge). im sorry for whatever makes you act this way . i feel fortunate i dont have a similar problem set. ill be dammed if i allow myself to be sucked into your isseus anymore. im pretty normal and happy til you come around and make me feel crappy. and i dont understand what u get out of it. so dont contact me ive blocked your yahoo account. I hope you get the help you need. I do not feel i need to sign this, you should know who it is you treat

2007-11-29 21:09:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i would take .elizabeth shue .

2007-11-29 21:03:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this guy who im friends with if he wanted to do summit when he is not working he said "I'll see". What does that mean?

2007-11-29 20:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by magic moments 2 in Singles & Dating

lol let's see if you can guess how old i am today (be kind!)...i can't believe i'm working on my b'day!

5 points for who get's it right first

2007-11-29 20:42:49 · 23 answers · asked by Moral Kiosk 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i never met this person never seen him before could you think i get marry him.my father says it is our family tradition so you think i follow this.

2007-11-29 20:42:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

How have you reacted to what you know?

2007-11-29 20:34:58 · 7 answers · asked by Xanadu 5 in Singles & Dating

Assuming you are both around the same age?

2007-11-29 20:33:54 · 6 answers · asked by 2kool4u 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-29 20:28:18 · 15 answers · asked by neha k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuXbCLzvuPPsXoeCWfGQ6r0gBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20071129102540AAoD3yl

After this question I asked yesterday about my partners attitiude towards my family, today he started talking about my sister again but instead of calling her "your sister" or by her name, it was "that fat & UGLY sister of yours"
I told him AGAIN I didn't like it & there was no need for it & he thinks he is justified because "she doesn't like him & she patronises him"
The truth is, his sisters have always hated me & looked down on me but he says I am not allowed to call his sisters fat or ugly
(which I don't) because they are HIS sisters & how dare I. ( was trying to make a point & see how he likes it.)
HOW can he not see this blatant double standard.
I've been with him for 6 years (we live together) & his disrespect for my family (& therefore me) is really getting me down.
Is that a good enough of a reason to leave someone or am I just being petty?

2007-11-29 20:27:37 · 13 answers · asked by Meeeee! 5 in Marriage & Divorce

iam selling my old cell phone for around 75-100 dollars. what ahould i do with the money.....? should i spend it on something that i want or should i buy a gift for my boyfriend. something he's wanted for a long time......??

2007-11-29 20:26:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want my wife be submissive to me.If we had a quarrel,she always have a distance to me and NEVER SAY sorry!I am a man and I want her to be the first to approach me by showing her sweetness.She has a big pride that makes me disappointed.She always says,if you treat me bad,i will treat you same way.I think she has a strong character.But if we are okay,she can do anything as a good wife but if we had fight,she is like a tiger...pls. advice.I want her to follow me coz I am a man.

2007-11-29 20:22:30 · 4 answers · asked by macey 1 in Singles & Dating

if he was in the beach/pool wat can he do to make it go away??
pls i need help!!

2007-11-29 20:17:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For 5 months now my bf and I have been together, he is so romantic, he does all the little things and makes me feel so loved,he tells me all the time he loves me, we kiss and make out but we don't have sex, he never asks me to, it's not like he can't...you know, because when we make out he gets an erection, but he says we shouldn't rush things. He's not religious or anything, so it's not that, could it be me, is it possible that he loves me but I just don't "turn him on"?

2007-11-29 20:13:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't really know the guy, I just have had two classes with him. He sits in the row in front of me, and I always catch him looking at me (not in a psycho, weird way. haha). It sucks 'cause when it comes to guys, I'm super shy (normally, I'm the loudest, most outgoing person), so I can't really get myself to look back at him and smile or whatever. It's hard! I try, though. Seriously. I blush at the drop of a hat! If you look at me, I blush. It's horrible! Not to mention embarassing.

We've talked a little bit and he's so smart! haha I think it's fantastic! He's initiated the little chit-chats, too. But, the thing is that I think he's a bit shy, too, so our shyness clashes. The other day, he was walking in front of me after class, but he realized I was behind him, so he slowed down (waaaay down), but I was so nervous and had no idea what to say, so I just passed him. haha Total dork move.

Oh, and I'm 19 and he's 25. So do I just steer clear because of that?

2007-11-29 20:09:27 · 3 answers · asked by MACaddict 2 in Singles & Dating

I lost my fiancee due to cancer back on March 2004. We were as you could say the perfect couple! We were so in love and then that happened. He was tough, he wanted to fight it off but the illness took over him. He even apologized the day he passed saying: "I'm sorry for dissapointing you but I'm just too weak to fight anymore" I miss him terribly he was perfect! When he left he said he would be my angel of love and send someone worthy my way. I have been in other relationships after that, but nothing too serious. Last year I met this guy whose 11 years older than me, and it has lasted over a year. But this guy seems to be a little weird, he is controlling, he doesn't want me having guy friends, he wants me to only be with him and not do anything. He's very jelaous. I have feelings for him but I'm afraid of him too (he has never hit me tho) When this new guy goes crazy I miss my fiancee even more, is it wrong? I'm too confused. When this guy is not crazy he is very sweet, so maybe my

2007-11-29 20:07:05 · 16 answers · asked by CK 2 in Singles & Dating

I know I don't want to get a 'boyfriend' but right now it's very painful to get over him.
He threatens suicide (but never has in the 13 years, btw that's how he got me to marry him) He spends out of control when he's stressed (on stupid crap, nothing useful) He can't have an intelligent arguement (always storms out during time for him to account for himself) It's not like he does anything around the house, and what he earns HE SPENDS on HIMSELF. He says trying to get me in the mood is too much work (always WAITS for me to engage...ALWAYS) though it's never too much work to hack my email, research sites I've been (yahoo answers...wooo I'm a bad girl!).
The caliber of this guy is about 10years old.

I dunno, is getting a boyfriend to help ease the pain the only way to feel like a woman again?

2007-11-29 20:04:35 · 4 answers · asked by Xanadu 5 in Marriage & Divorce

how she looks

2007-11-29 20:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by Sporadic 4 in Singles & Dating