My english teacher ???!!!?

Question

I had a huge crushed on my english teacher... yea i know its quite impossible that she'll like me back but i just couldn't stop thinking about her. I've been interested in some girls before this but none of them had made me feel this way before. She 27 and I'm 16. I liked her since i first saw her in seventh grade. I don't expect her to feel the same way, but i would love it if she gives me a little more attention and likes me a little. She doesn't seem to like me much. Recently, I've annoyed her and talked in class alot. I did this just to get her attention. What do you think i should do ??

Answer 1

Don't worry kid, it'll pass. I too had a "huge crush" on my English teacher way back in 10th grade. She was young, she listened to pop music (I know but this was high school!), really pretty, she was fun and told jokes, really smart, basically perfect! I mean she was "it" for me, like my future wife. I always finished my work early so I could talk to her at the back of the class while she was grading papers! We mostly talked about school, life, gave me advice, anything in between. I was always "excited" when I go to her class. I even convinced my friends to hung out in her classroom during lunch but they refused. I changed my route for my next class just so we could pass each other during intermission, didn't care If I was late for Biology.

What I think you should do is...just do good in her class, impress her, write kick a$$ essays, impress her, be on her good side. That's what I basically did and I think I got some of her attention. I think she knew me more than the rest of my classmates. Just don't overdo it, nobody likes a $uck up, especially in hs.

But like I said in the beginning, it will pass. You're going to be so busy with school, with friends/relationship, and growing up that you'll realize you're starting to forget about her, the attraction/admiration would be less. It's normal. It may sound cliche but it's part of growing up. You were right that she won't reciprocate your feelings but I think that's part of the fun.

After my sophomore year, I still talked to her from time to time, she even proofread my essays, etc but I didn't have a huge crush anymore. I still felt something but it was faint. She even picked me as her TA and she was my senior advisor during my senior year. I still email her once in a while and I'm 23 now just to say what's up. Don't worry about it too much, g'luck with school.

Answer 2

Heres what you do, be the last one out of class and then go up to her and say, if you ever need your leaves raked, snow shoveld or grass cut, let me know, I'm trying to earn a little extra cash for summer. If this gets you closer to her, then when your there doing some yard work or whatever, you offer to help carry her bags when she goes shopping, or offer to help when ever you can, this will get you more time alone with her and she will start to notice you more. Even if she says no, keep trying cause she will probably be a little worried at first that you like her. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Clive, you're too young. Age difference is not important when we are older, but at your age now makes a big difference. Your personality and your body are still changing, your hormones are going crazy, and passions come and go as the wind at 16. Besides, she is your teacher and as you know she can not pay you more attention than others, it's not ethical. Sorry to tell you this, but you really must come down to earth and look at the girls of your age. Your actual passion is older, is a teacher and you are just one more of her many students, and if you keep on behaving like that on her lessons, you'll probably fail English.
All the best.

Answer 4

LoL, thats hilarious (im sorry), she'll never be interested in you and even if she is. She is your freaking teacher, shes 27 thats nearly double your age. Even if you did go out with her (which is quite improbable), im sure you'll loose touch and fall for some one your own age, because student-teacher relationships never happen, even if it did if wouldnt last that long. Like her, appreciate her but dont become obessed and if you want some attention, stop behaving like a hooligan and start becoming a smart nerd (atleast in her class).

Answer 5

I think you should stick to girls your own age. Your teacher is your teacher. And thats it! She will not want to get involved with 1 of her students coz her whole life would be on the line. She risks her job/career and her future stability. Dont go there. Admire her from a far and leave it there.

Answer 6

life is very intersting at ur age. enjoy being in the company of ur pals. teachers will b teachers and may b treating u as a child or to b very frank like their sons and daughters. although its very natural to b attracted towards opposite sex . mother is also opposite sex but we give her respect only. so treat ur teacher like ur mother and see the difference.
enjoy life dont take tension in this tender age.

Answer 7

I think you should just concentrate on your studies...don't expect so much...as too many expectations lead to a broken heart.

Answer 8

i think you should concentrate on your studies and leave this woman alone. do you not watch the news/... and see the trouble you two could get into... if you took your relationship to a romantic level. you have no education... no job... nothing to offer this woman..but your homework. let it go..

Answer 9

flunk the class so you can have her again next year. then at the end of next year when you turn 18 you can ask her out.

Answer 10

It will never be what you want so grow up and start acting mature.