i never met this person never seen him before could you think i get marry him.my father says it is our family tradition so you think i follow this.
2007-11-29 20:42:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think that arranged marriages can work out better than the so called traditional." I am in love" kind.
Parents have a better perspective on how things will turn out. Social and economical factors that is. It is very rare that people " stay in love " as the movies tell, us. Yes follow your fathers advice, He will not set you wrong
2007-11-29 20:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
our older people have had arranged marriages and all of them turn out very well. parents generally look into everything before taking a decision to get u married. u can tell ur parents tat u will get married only if u liked the guy.. meet the guy atleast a few times before really deciding if he is ok or not.. besides now a days divorce rate is really high and most of the love marriages are falling apart.. i'd say arranged marriage is a better option. ull have ur parents to fall back to atleast when u have a problem with ur life..
all d best
2007-11-30 02:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! if youve never met this person then how do you know you dont hate him? explain to your father that if he really isnt the right one, even IF he does force you to get married you would probably divorce! Simply a waste of time.If your father wants you to marry someone, explain to him that it would be something you would regret your whole entire life. Remember, you are going to be living with this stranger and be WITH this person til.. i dont know! And... traditions must break.. sometime ;). good luck to whatever you chose! wish you all the best, and "the only regrets in life were the risks you didnt take". so take that risk and .. break the tradition :p
:)
2007-11-29 21:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by PalominoxLove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you tell him you respect the family tradition, and you are interested in meeting the man they have chosen for you... but you hope that your parents will respect your judgement also, and let you meet this gentleman, spend some time with him, and then make a decision about if you want to marry him.
2007-11-30 01:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by vanessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's known as an organized marriage while the father and mother pick the partner since the "organize" for it to occur. Love or enchantment does not always come into the image. When an grownup little one chooses to marry any individual it's extra almost always since they love any individual....that is why it's known as a love marriage.
2016-09-05 16:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh gosh i cant imagine has to how you must feel!
statistics show that arranged marriages last longer than regular marriages -
but if you feel highly uncomfortable about it, tell your 'rents that you REALLY dont want to do this, maybe tell them that you like somebody else, and dont think it would be fair on the man who has been arranged to marry you if you like somebody else.
good luck.
2007-11-29 20:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by mh.shine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's old fashion. how can you marry someone you haven't met before and who you don't even love. please explain to your parents politely why you can't marry the guy they want you to marry. the other option is that you try and meet the guy and date him for sometime, if you fall in love with him then you can marry him. who knows, you might like each other. all the best.
2007-11-29 21:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by kay_sack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw them no.why should u marry a wacko u dont know...????maybe hes child abusive?a peerrrrvvv? a pyscho? why would u want that?a wife beater?stupid stupid stupid.dont do it.disgusting.tell ur dad to marry him.
2007-11-29 20:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by jaclyn130 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That doesn't work in America. You will mot likely be very unhappy.
2007-11-29 20:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋