Family & Relationships - 29 November 2007

I wear sexy lingerie to bed and all around the house...even when I was not feeling so wonderful (had a little cold bug for a day) I still bathed in some nice soap, put on my best perfume and did my make up...cooked his favorite dinner and served it in black lace lingerie and stilettos. I got nothing but a swat on the butt and a cuddle. He ate dinner. Watched CSI, and went to sleep.

He seems to have issues getting wood too. I did some things that worked without fail on past boyfriends and flings and he was still limp as a deflated balloon. My husband is 36 and I am 27. He is not old. I don't understand why he won't...you know? I swear I am not ugly or nasty, sloppy or overweight.

It drives me so nuts. Usually, when it's a woman who won't get it on with the man, everyone jumps her throat and tells her to do it anyway...tired or not. Blah, blah blah. Reverse roles, and everyone's pitying the poor man, because men's penis problems are so damn special. What about the poor woman?

2007-11-29 12:51:28 · 23 answers · asked by goldenchilde11 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I found it in my daughter's purse.
She's grounded but I'm wondering how long this would have lasted if she had kept it.

2007-11-29 12:50:17 · 12 answers · asked by misslindsay 2 in Family

This guys won't stop making pervert comments about my friend and me! They kept talking about my friend if she likes guys or girls! they kept doing something gross like today, this guy, Zach kept using the mirrors from our table and put it on his you-know-what and he kept calling our names to see it. That was really disgusting of him to do that! What do you think I should do about this? Please be honest! I'm serious here! They kept doing that like about everyday! Please help me! Thanks so much for answering this question!

-LuckyGirl831 (Diane N)

2007-11-29 12:48:47 · 7 answers · asked by DELETED 3 in Friends

I went 2 the doctor a few months ago because I had been feeling horrible for a few months and i have gained a lot of weight it turned out I was 14 weeks pregnant. we had a family meeting today and told my 3 step children and my only daughter there would soon b a new baby girl in the family and she would be named Rebecka Rose and my step kids seemed extremely excited but my daughter started to cry and she screamed at me saying she had already sacrificed so much for me and that now I was betraying her. She said she wished her father had gotten custody even though he's a horrible man and hes staying in town for a while. My new daughter is supposed to born next month! Now I'm think that this baby was a mistake. I'm now torn and sad. What should I do?

2007-11-29 12:45:40 · 4 answers · asked by Eliana 2 in Family

or i should say do you talk about the women at work?

2007-11-29 12:45:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 3 year old daughter (soon to be 4) lives really far away from me right now. Does any one know some ways to keep good communication over a long distance? Besides the phone cuz i dont have her phone number, her mom moved and her moms new husband is a punk and he doesnt want his pjhone number given out. I do have an address tough. I tink it is real. I want my daughter to know daddy loves her. I never want her to tink for one second i dont. This is so hard cuz im dealing with childish adults. Right now I dont have alot of money, so i cant afford a lawyer at all. Thank You!

2007-11-29 12:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by Tim G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what schould i do

2007-11-29 12:41:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been so uncomfortable with it for all my life. If I were to do it, it would be for me, not for anyone else. I'm not stupid and I don't think that getting a nose job will fix all my problems, nor will I really base my decision on what people on Yahoo! Answers think; it would just be nice to have some other people's perspective.

http://s241.photobucket.com/albums/ff250/nci_333/

And please, please, please, do not comment on how young I look, its really annoying, and I am no where near the age that most people think I am.

Thank you! <3

2007-11-29 12:38:26 · 11 answers · asked by frc_222 1 in Singles & Dating

The spoilt kid is my aunt's, she lives with me in the day and afternoon, and during the night she goes back to her own home. She's 7 years old this year, and her parents always quarrel at home(verbal abuse each other). Parents are getting a divorce when child gets older, and i think the kid is going through some hurts. Recently she cry alot, when she cannot get her own way, and she will throw things. Her father, her grannie(that lives with us) have been saying very negative things to her, like"It would be better off if you die (in chinese dialect)" etc. personally i've been a spoilt kid, and i had some misunderstandings and hurts from the aunt that lives with us, hence i tend to treat the kid the same way as how i percieve my aunt to treat me. Are there any ways to solve this situation?? How to handle her?? Thanks alot.

2007-11-29 12:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by MyOhMy 3 in Family

I've been in a relationship with this guy for real close to a year now. He's 24 and i'm 22... i'm a college sophemore while he graduated and is working as a teacher. he has a real busy schedule. As of yet, he has never said i love you, and at the beginning of the relationship he did tell me that it takes him a while to get attached to people...but after a year, how come he doesn't love me. I on the other hand have said i love you (not many times though) the first time i said it, he acted so happy but never said anything back. Most importantly he took my virginity (in a car) we were mad at one another for like a week and he wanted to talk about our relationship and ended having sex in his car... the day after he took my virginity he did not call to ask if anything was allright ( i was bleeding heavily and hurting)...i texted him later on that day to tell him that i felt he had used me and what not... and then he hurries up and call me saying that he's sorry that he had to prepare for

2007-11-29 12:28:58 · 17 answers · asked by jennythepig 2 in Singles & Dating

If your daugther told you that a man raped her or violated her in any kind of way, do you think you could swallow your hurt and pain and wait for the law to take over? What if the law did nothing except put the violator in jail for a few months and now they're free to do it again? Would you be so angry you could kill? Would that be wrong? What if you confront the person and he acts as if there was nothing of it? Would rage overcome you? What if it was your son? Do you believe in violence caused by rage and revenge? After all, we're here to protect our children... right?

2007-11-29 12:23:10 · 8 answers · asked by Y.a.S.L 3 in Family

Me and my ex just broke up from a year of dating and one of his best friends just recently told me that he thinks im reallly hott and that he wants to do stuff with me and thinks im hotter than no other. I know he's being sincere but should i risk it ? what if my ex wants to get back together with me and he finds out ?

2007-11-29 12:22:37 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On both the sides of men and women! What should each give and take? What are some things one should definitely stay away from? People who have been in good, long relationships prefered to answer!

2007-11-29 12:20:58 · 17 answers · asked by Penelope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-29 12:20:45 · 4 answers · asked by Amu Cotty 2 in Singles & Dating

My aunt took in this boy (everyone in my family seems to take in other people's children) and he has problems, I grew up with my grandma, her adopted child and several cousins younger than me, so I know what I'm talking about, he does the most bizarre things. He will do stuff that inflicts pain upon himself and he hits, bites, and physically attack my little brothers and cousins. All my aunt says is "DONT HIT MY BABY" if they hit him back. She always says "He just 2-years-old" I know from experience there is a difference between "Terrible 2" and just plain ---weird. If a 1 year old understands, "DO NOT TOUCH, IT'S HOT" Than certainly he should understand. My other aunt says ignore it because she was unable to have children, but my grandpa told her get out and don't ever bring her back, and she asks me if she can stay with me for a while, i agreed and when I came home from work he was coloring on my wall and all she said was "DONT HIT MY BABY!!!" and I told her to leave, was I wrong?

2007-11-29 12:20:42 · 9 answers · asked by Deontaye G 1 in Family

Wife-to-be hates the "dutch-oven" treatment...she says that the proper course of action is to retreat to the bathroom during sleep and any other time i have the "urge" to "cut the cheese"...especially since i am in my mid-30s. i should "act my age"...who's right? or am i just a typical guy? ----signed Windbag

2007-11-29 12:20:08 · 29 answers · asked by bbhuey32 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If the birth certificate only had the mother's name on it originally.

2007-11-29 12:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by L L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need more time to get settled in life. She says its now or she's finding someone else. i don't want to lose her. She is 25, i am 26. Should we wait? What is a good age to get married? What should i do..

2007-11-29 12:15:13 · 25 answers · asked by abizman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

who.s saw this in good marrages when one starts going out and making a *** out of there selves . and who is more likley to do it. women. or men i would say women. from my past experance.s with a .sorry. trailer park trash woman in her.40.s while i was just in my latter teen.s .19 to be exact. she lacked morals ..in every aspect.

2007-11-29 12:15:01 · 5 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

thinking about marriage

2007-11-29 12:10:46 · 10 answers · asked by rmartin luther d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-29 12:10:27 · 1 answers · asked by Trojans-n-Boxers69 1 in Singles & Dating

god! my parents are 'worried' about me and they are makeing me see a therapist and they butt into my private life and they harass me about things i dont like 2 talk about! theyre pushing me 2 do better in school even though im an honors student and im trying 2 pay attention 2 my boyfriend, my friends, my family, and my school work! i need help! how do i get my parents 2 quit butting into my life and how can i get 2 balance out my time between my boyfriends, friends, family, and school work???????? help me plz!

2007-11-29 12:08:19 · 8 answers · asked by Lauren 2 in Family

I was in an 11 year relationship. I thought it would last forever and he ended up changing his mind and left me. Not too long after w/o looking I found someone else. We have been together now for almost 2 months. I honestly believe I am falling in love w/ him. It is a scary feeling for me. It seems that the more feelings I develop for him, the more and more I worry about him breaking up w/ me so I analyse pretty much everything he says and does. I get really paranoid and scared that he's losing interest that I panic and get anxiety (I normally get a lot of anxiety over things in life) and then I almost somehow convince myself he will break up w/ me. From the moment I met him, I felt like it was meant to be and that he's the one. I seriously don't ever want to lose him. But I also don't want to feel like this but don't know how to stop. Please help me. I need some really good advice and guidance. Thanks!

2007-11-29 12:07:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im pretty sure this guy likes me but he's not making a move on me. Im good looking (other people's opinions, not mine!!), he's not as good looking but that doesnt matter to me as he's very confident and has a great personality. Im too shy to ask him out on a date yet though, do you reckon he's too shy to ask me cos he think he's "out of my league"?

2007-11-29 12:07:03 · 4 answers · asked by Nina 4 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I are still in love but i have not told her that i still love her. We have 2 kids and we where married for 3 years. But Our familys would die before letting us get married again. What should i do?

2007-11-29 12:04:32 · 12 answers · asked by John Adams 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't seen my mother in years but my brother was put up for adoption before i was born and i really want to find out if theres a possible way to contact him ,...help?

2007-11-29 12:03:39 · 7 answers · asked by ZO 1 in Family

what are the signs that she still likes you even though she has a new boyfriend? will she act positive toward because she likes ya still> or will she try not to get involved cause she dosent want to cheat? it got awkward. he probably kissed her cause she all of a sudden stopped talking/flirting wit me. she never elaborates on anything anymore she gives me the "yea" and "uh-ha" routien should i just look her in the eyes and try to see if its still there we really liked echother. now its awkard! been hapinin since the monday they went out over the weekend.

2007-11-29 12:01:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Earlier, I over my parents talking in the kitchen as I was surfing the Web in the family room. They were talking quietly, but I could hear most of what they said. I heard "What if we have to take him to rehab?" "He'll never graduate if he does this" "This is serious stuff!" "If he's buying or selling..." .

I put two and two together and I think my parents think that my brother is doing drugs. What should I do?

2007-11-29 12:00:43 · 4 answers · asked by Music Sponge 2 in Family

well, she worked with this guy at her previous job she dose'nt work there now but yeah and she divorced my real dad about 7 years ago and she remarried and has been remarried for about 6 now and she talks about this "darren" guy ALOT and my dad has suspected stuff for a while and they fought over it yesterday and then they made up last night and i am just 15 and i have already been through divorce once and i don't want to be again and it terrifies me to think she is cheaitng on him but right after they made up lat night and he left for work she and "darren" went out and got drunk and she even drunk and drove last night she could barely walk when she got home and that is NOT like my mom and i am soo terrified something is going to happen... i don't knwo what to do or say...

2007-11-29 12:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This girl Janine is all over me and has a huge thing for me! I don't really like her, so how do I tell her that without hurting her feelings?? I swear, she loves me so much she's talking about buying a house!!! I really need help, FAST!

2007-11-29 11:58:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating