Do you think i look ugly?

Question

hey guys i had an abdominoplasty two weeks ago evrytime i eat or drink my tummy feels tight and wont strech and even after i had a cup of tea also I'm not sure whethwer the op has worked i have also founb d out that the guy i chatted to a weeks ago and who practically isnt interested in me told me athat he and somebody else are attending a chruch blessing togethjer which means he has been telling me to go away why is it i cant find a real proper lover like cleopatra why iis it other women particualrly married womn find lovers easily . Ifeel hurt rehected and used plus having major problems with hubby now i have taken to sleeping in my daughters bed. and she is sleeping in his bed

Answer 1

Butters with a capitol "B"

Answer 2

This is quite a confusing question but I can see that you are a very confused person. You need to start with your marriage, if it is not working, then sort it. The only person you will end up hurting in all of this is your daughter. If you are unhappy, you need to talk to your husband and talk about what you can do to ease the situation. Once that is sorted, which is not as easy as it sounds, this will be a long journey, then you can start to think about other men. You are a mother and a wife so until this is resolved, you cannot go looking for other lovers. You should not be comparing yourself to other people, we all live different lives.

Answer 3

Have you found out what is normal recovery surgery pain& discomfort? What about side affects of medication affecting your mood , sleep , expectations & your husbains ability to cope with this plus his concern before& after surgery? No 1 Check surgery , meds are allright!!!!! And Most Important OF ALL There Are Three of You NOT Four Wishing you a happy , heathy future. merry christmas.

Answer 4

No, you don't look ugly to me.
(but you don't sound like a very nice person if you are married and looking for a lover..what's all that about?)
Sounds like your lacking in confidence. Maybe you'll feel better once your surgery has healed?
I hope so anyway.
xxx

Answer 5

Are you making sure your daughter is ok it is a strange sleeping arangement and why dont you leave your husband before you find this mythical lover there will be less problems ~~

Answer 6

you have already condemned yourself to be worthless, to get love you have to give love, all that glitter is not gold, you may be seeing your fellow woman as better ups but the facts remains infidelity is bad not been lucky on this aspect is bonus from God, He loves you so much that He does not wants you to make mistake and regret it later, make your husband love you again talk to him gently and ask him what you have done wrong, beg him for forgiveness if you are at fault, bring back the flame again in to your marriage, it not easy but with persistence, determination perseverance you would feel loved again, good luck

Answer 7

you will not have good luck until..you stop obsessing. first of all you have a hubby . get rid of him..or stop looking for a lover. second.. you discuss too much of your personal issues with guys... that is a turn off right there. third.. you come off tooooooooooo needy. men do not like needy women and vice versa. desparation is not attractive. work on yourself and your marriage,

Answer 8

How old is your daughter, is she also your husbands daughter??? That doesnt sound very healthy to me!
Why are you looking for love if you have a husband?
Get to your doctor about your tummy tuck, it doesnt sound right.

Answer 9

You look great! I know we are all (well not all) our own biggest critics and think if there is anything we don't like in ourselves that it must mean others will think the same way. But you are well pretty!

Answer 10

You look fine to me in the photos on your 360 profile and if you're after an affair, it depends on where you are!! Only joking but if I was free I'd be interested.

Answer 11

first of you don't need any ones approval of your looks ok but what i see is an African princess