I am a very emotional girl.....i find myself getting moody/jealous or worried about the smallest things.....
examples are....my boyfriend not replying when i txt him....or him acting a little distant - i can turn that into him going off me and i can worry myself sick that its soon gunna be over...and i am losing him
I am always obsessing over what i cant have, and this makes me moody...i came back from uni this yr and dont have alot of mates in the area...id like more and i get jealous of my bf as he has a massive group of mates and they are constantly wanting to see him.....
im feeling in competition with them alot of the time,although its me making me feel like that not him...i feel my life revolves around him alot and i dont like that but i dont have alot of mates so its hard to change that.
Anyone got any advice for me, i need to snap out of it as im causing issues with my bf, and i dont want that as hes really great....i think hes the one which is why i wana sort this out!
2007-11-29 22:10:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uh.. Yeah I got some advice for ya........2 points
2007-11-29 22:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might not be the best person to answer your question because I often feel the same way about my boyfriend and the excessive time he spends with his friends and family. The only thing I can tell you is that I try to be understanding and open up to more people. You need to do things that will make you happy other than hanging with your man. If you continue obsessing, you will eventually push your boyfriend away. If he's treating you well, that would be a tragedy. This is the time of year when we should all count our blessings: start by evaluating what you have and appreciating it. You'll find that you have what you need and you can be happy with that. (I'll try to do the same.)
Good Luck
2007-11-30 06:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, Have I always been like this or have I only felt like this since having the boyfriend. If the answer is yes then I would think about packing him in as he is the one making you feel like this. You should try to go our more on your own and get you confidence back.
If not you must go to your doctor and tell him how you feel he might give you something to see you through this rocky time.
2007-11-30 06:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by doris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop worrying and stressing so much over these little issues. Your boyfriend is just social or busy, maybe he can't text you right away. Just have faith in him and try to meet some new friends so your mind isn't always preoccupied with your boyfriend.
2007-11-30 06:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by angrytwinkie@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2007-11-30 06:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have finished uni or dropped out therefore you should be able to be in control try to be and life will work out as planned ~~
2007-11-30 06:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember, he is dating YOU from amoung the rest of them. Not to be rude but that means, TAH-DA! you mean more to him! as for the fixing it with your bf, he's probably thinking right now how clingy you are. Flirt with him and turn CLINGY to ATTATCHED. then slowly work your way back up to favorite person! â¥
2007-11-30 06:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact some old friends, find a new hobby, keep yourself busy, find a job (since you're done with uni), once you find a job you'll have co-workers and maybe you could hang out with them.
2007-11-30 06:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry be happy Dont worry be happy oh ye baby n keep that emotions to your self ok =)
2007-11-30 06:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think that theres necessarily anythign wrong with you. sounds like he's the *** for not returning his text msgs. id be mad too. and anyone who says different is lying to you.
2007-11-30 06:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋