I was just curious. My last girlfriend didnt mind at all, she even came with me one time. I thought that was cool. But ive heard some people tell me its wrong. What do you all think?
2007-11-29 00:08:18 · 16 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah not like an every week thing, maybe like one time a month if that. My feeling is you go there, see these women, then you wanna get home and "see" your woman if you get what im sayin lol
2007-11-29 00:18:31 · update #1
I think that if you want the relationship to last, it's a bad idea to go to a strip club.... Even if your girlfriend doesn't say that it bothers her- it most likely will always be in the back of her mind.... I had a guy once that I could have cared less if he went or wanted to go.... It may have even been a little exciting for me to think about him going.... that relationship is now over and I think back about those feeling now and go "wow" - "I didn't care if my man was ooogling at some other woman's naked body?"
2007-11-29 00:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by kittyidiotic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the girl. some really don't care but others do and wont tell you. if you are hitting the strip club every night or a few times a week then its a problem because you are taking away time from your girl for some random girl. you wanna blow some money on a girl? buy her a nice dinner and have a great evening with her.
do you feel you have to go to the strip bar? if this is just a hang with the guys thing every once in a while then its fine but dont over do it. you might be running the chance of hurting or losing your girl over nothing. Good Luck
2007-11-29 08:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by todd376 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine. My wife doesn't mind and prefers me going there instead of a regular nightclub. She knows things won't happen at the stripclub.
Now my X before her had a big problem. But the real reason she did was because she had low self-esteem. It had nothing about being moral as she proved by giving me hell for going once and then turned around and went to a male strip club TWICE! She tried to justify it because she knows nothing would happen at a male club. Anyone who's seen women at a male club know they are typically way more out of control and the male dancers don't hold back either.
2007-11-29 08:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by smckech1972 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he went occasionally, I totally would not care. But if it were frequently, I would wonder why. I would have to think about ending it with someone who was at the strip club every week. That would be a red flag that all was not well. Just my opinion.
2007-11-29 08:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky Raccoon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think i have low self esteem but i wont go to a strip club while i have my gf. Also, i wont be happy if my gf goes to strip club where i m available.
2007-11-29 08:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by Niel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind and I would go with my husband. I always tell him he can read anything or look at anything and anybody as long as I get the "benefits". We have been married for 30 years. Spices in a marriage are good.
2007-11-29 08:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am not a jealous person, biut I guess it depends why/how often/how much money you are spending. If you went with your boys, like bachelor/going away party, whatever. But if you were spending a lot of money and time there I would be heated.
2007-11-29 08:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be WOOOO! about it but if it was a one off with like a stag do or something then i wouldnt have a problem. i trust him. But if it was regular I would question "why does he need to go to a strip club?".
2007-11-29 08:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by hobknob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind as long as it wasn't on a regular basis. And if he wants to go we would just go together. It's fun. Just no lap dances though I would not be ok with that.
2007-11-29 08:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by jaded09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its fine it can keep a relationship from going boreing i mean the woman there turn you on and then you go home to your girl and she fininsh the job i mean after all she should give you money to tip hem it makes her job easy..............just how i feel
2007-11-29 08:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋