Girls who smoke cigarettes and date a nonsmoking guy! How do you handle your bf's complaints?

Question

I am not going to stop smoking and I am not going to stop dating my bf, so how do I make this work, and be fair to him?
I want the best of both worlds, lol

Answer 1

Sorry, you cannot have your cake and eat it too. If you do not quit, you will run the risk of him leaving you. I would be complaining as well. If he is against you smoking and you are the same about not quitting, then you are better off ending it now.
Of course you could quit, save yourself years of emphysema, and cancer in the future.

Answer 2

I'm sure you don't want to hear this, but you've gotta stop. It makes you age fast and will kill you. To a non-smoker cigarette smoke and it's residue smells just as bad as b.o. or another odor. I'm not trying to be mean, or politically uncorrect or whatever. My dad died 1.5 years ago from cancer flat out caused by smoking and literally couldn't quit to save his life. He died b/c a hole that had to be put in his throat temporarily couldn't heal b/c of the continued smoking and he choked on his own blood. Cigarettes kill more people in this country than many other illegal drugs. The only reason they're still legal is so rich people can get richer.

Please consider stopping or at least trying. THere's some new drug out that I don't know the name of that's having great success rates. I'm sure there's lots of info online if you search.

Good luck

Answer 3

Remind him you smoked when you met him . As a smoker myself I dont smoke in nonsmokers cars or homes .On an extended car ride I ask to stop at a rest area and smoke outside also try not to smoke in his immediate presence.Try not to interfere with his right to breath and maybe he will relax too

Answer 4

Just keep smoking. If he really loves you, he's going to respect your choice to smoke.

Answer 5

its a turn off to see a girl smoke