2007-11-29 16:39:20 · 25 answers · asked by showstopper18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i forgot to mention i am asking this for a friend. i just get so mad because I THINK THE PROOF IS THERE! but what can you do. she just keeps asking me what she should do and i'm like you know what to do.
these are great answers! i had no clue about the feel the balls thing :-0
keep em coming!
2007-11-29 16:53:28 · update #1
I am a firm believer in this.........You don't have to go looking for answers......the answers will come to you.....just keep your eyes open, your head up, and don't be naive......The truth will not light without a cause......Sit back and wait for the truth to come to you....
2007-11-29 16:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by katherine_petrey27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could always ask him but its not like he will probably tell you the truth. is he spending less time at home?, do you get hang up calls all the time? when someone calls does he go into another room or tell them he will call them back? has he not been in the mood for you?,does he have excuses as to why he has to go out somewhere and when he goes is he gone longer than normal(IE: his usual trip should take 30 minutes and its taking him several hours)? does he shower whenever he comes in from being somewhere even if you know hes not dirty or sweaty. if all of this is going on then id say he is all you can do is check incoming phone calls get caller ID, if he has a cell phone check that, smell his clothing for perfume(that isnt yours),check his wallet if you have to and see what you find thats the only proof I know of you can get unless you hire a private investigator and get proof or someone follows him and he doesnt know.I would just watch for the little signs and see and go with your gut usually your gut instinct is telling you the truth.
2007-11-29 16:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this way there is in fact a problem. He could be cheating or you're a whack job.There is a problem you just don't know where to point the finger. Is it him or just you and your wackiness. If you care about him and don't want to leave, I would keep your feelings in check until there is some real proof.
2007-11-29 16:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by wind champ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lure him in to have sex and see if he disses you or has any new moves. If it doesn't feel the same, something's up.
Do you use the same computer? Look at the history pages to see what he's up to. Also, check the bank accounts. Talk to his friends or the wives. Wives sometimes know. I know my husband tells me when one of his friends are cheating.
In the end, stay strong and if he is, I'm sorry.
2007-11-29 16:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kristyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reminds me of a summer camp story. This girl stole my batteries, so I sat there infront of her, talking to this other girl about how I wouldn't be mad, but I just wanted the person to confess, and I guilted her into telling me.
Still, I've been through this. I just told him I loved him very very much, and I loved all over him for a few days, and they way he acted, I just knew he didn't cheat. It worked for my friend too. Her man, unfortunately, did cheat.
2007-11-29 16:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by goldfisheatingdandelions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I could not afford a professional person to check it out. I would perhaps do it myself, which would be difficult, I know, but do not leave any stone unturned. Maybe an acquaintance unbeknown to your husband. Dont bother to ask him, he will deny it anyway. Remember If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck. It most likely is a duck....
2007-11-29 16:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by marheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him...don't judge till you know 100% that he is...cause if you get on his case he will think that you don't trust him...Just kind of talk to him don't go all out and say hey are you cheating!?! Just ask a few small questions that you can tell if he is liying or not...
Hope this helps
2007-11-29 16:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by Britters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to get proof... or keep hounding him until me told me the truth.
Sooner or later you'll know for sure... but even if you don't know for sure, you know something is not right and that's enough to tell you something is wrong with your relationship. You shouldn't have doubts about his fidelity.
2007-11-29 16:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get proof before you can confornt him. And then get real good proof, not a hug or a kiss on the cheek. Something that HE has to do.
2007-11-29 16:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by nashabeauty93 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well everything I was going to say I think the member 'snow' said it all. Good answer, read this one again and think about everything that has been asked...and then sit and think if any of it applies to your husband.
2007-11-29 17:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋