I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me so I turned him in to police because I knew he had outstanding warrants. They were pretty serious charges so he'll be in prison for a while.
Does that make me a bad person? I mean come on! He's the one who broke the law, right?
2007-11-29 17:46:24 · 22 answers · asked by Aileara 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. He crossed you, you returned the favor. You just have better been sure he really did it ... like see him over the nasty hoe before you do something so major. If so. Good for you.
1. That's his bad for being a dumb *** and breaking the law
2. That's his bad for getting caught cheating.
3. That's his bad for doing it to a girl smart enough to know how to get even.
2007-11-29 17:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mia ... Yay, best answer! 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Doing anything out of anger is wrong. Why did it suddenly matter to you that he was a criminal? If you really wanted to "do the right thing" why didn't you turn him in before? Or at least try to talk him into turning himself in?
Doing the "right" thing for the wrong reasons does not make you a good person.
2007-11-30 01:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by evil_kandykid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would have turned him in as soon as I found out he had outstanding warrents if I did not believe that any harm would come to me or my loved ones. He shouldn't have been cheating on you so I don't think you should feel bad about it.
2007-11-30 01:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
In the eyes of the law, no. If they are pretty serious charges, and you kept him hidden, then you could have been tried for obstruction of justice by not revealing to the police you knew he was.
You need to forgive yourself. You didn't make him break the law, so it's not your fault that he must now serve the time.
2007-11-30 01:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I'm surprised they didn't arrest you too for harboring a fugutive until you got mad and threw a tantrum and turned him in. I mean come on....you only did it when it suited you to do it, not because of the law or anything.
2007-11-30 01:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
thats seriously messed up her cheated on u so u threw him in prison thats messed up. im against cheating but thats harsh. there goes his life
2007-11-30 01:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by arcbattle7 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That was pretty low. Never give that much energy to anyone. He was not worth it. Now you will have to live with that. Two wrongs don't make a right.
2007-11-30 01:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Prissy 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
HHAHA that's classic,...good job society needs more people like you. way to do the right thing. nevermind that the right thing didn't matter when he was your boyfriend. Then those serious charges weren't so serious , huh
2007-11-30 02:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mark P 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, you are a horrible person. You sent him to jail for the wrong reason. The crime doesn't match the punishment...you should have just cut his balls off.
2007-11-30 01:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Tyler S 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Gotta say, thats pretty awful. And more than a bit low actually.
2007-11-30 01:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋